Nah a person can make a choice in who they date. Why date a drinker if you don't want to. Is it a red flag to not want to date a smoker? Same thing.
2025-10-14 22:24:32
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Lixka♥️ :
The choice is fine. But date ppl who’ll feel the same, don’t try to change ppl for your own sake 🤔
2025-10-14 22:32:53
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Dani’s stress relief :
I’m guessing there’s a reason he doesn’t drink, they just shouldn’t be in a relationship.
2025-10-14 22:22:15
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Rissa :
I’m a drinker. But have you ever been sober around someone who’s drunk? They are so annoying… myself included. And everywhere they go he’ll have to be the DD where he wants to be or not. Being the DD is OK here and there but all the time? No. He’s doing this to save his sanity lol I don’t blame him.
2025-10-14 22:25:29
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Justin DeMedeiros :
Healthy. If someone doesn't want to be involved with someone that does a vice it's fine. The problem is they are dating. One of them is lying. Either op said she doesn't drink, or the boyfriend lying about his boundaries.
2025-10-17 12:15:30
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Sonja :
you have every right to choose what type of life you want to live with someone
2025-10-14 23:01:05
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Nathalie (. ❛ ᴗ ❛.) :
my gamer bf was w a gamer girl but we are more compatible w me not gaming🥰
2025-10-14 22:23:30
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P M :
Those that said controlling are walking red flags. No one is forcing you not to drink, it’s the other persons preference to not be with a drinker. Simple
2025-10-15 09:32:47
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The beagles that own us :
Let’s just say they are incompatible
2025-10-14 22:38:51
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Manzanita :
that's healthy, my bf and I don't drink and neither he nor me would date someone that drinks
2025-10-14 22:25:40
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milkmolester :
Its a preference how is it controlling like he will just find someone who already doesn’t drink rather than get someone who drinks and force them not to drink anymore
2025-10-14 22:24:00
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I hate the am, I hate the pm :
if the person has a drinking problem it's different, but if they just drink on occasions then what ever
2025-10-22 13:52:00
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kittykat :
I'm a non drinker and I don't want to be with a drinker. I won't even have it in my home. I don't want it in my life. it's not controlling because I wouldn't even get to the first date lol
2025-10-15 02:23:34
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Hocus Pocus :
I think this specific example it's valid? I wouldn't date a smoker since I grew up around em, it's not a huge ask I'd argue
2025-11-01 16:41:41
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🌐Mr. K Tribe :
So men can't have preferences?
2025-10-15 00:34:13
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MsHh :
Healthy. He isn’t telling someone not to drink. He is saying go on and drink and he will go on and date a non drinker like him 🤷♀
2025-10-15 02:16:24
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Cjwilmet :
So one has the right to determine the others choices? Good idea do what I say or you don’t love me
2025-10-14 22:16:49
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Nayab :
🙏🙏🙏
2025-11-23 04:13:27
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AadilahK :
😂😂😂
2025-10-15 09:29:43
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mc :
😂
2025-10-16 17:35:10
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Jelyba :
❤
2025-10-14 23:53:47
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Grubbs :
My ex said I was controlling because I would end things with her if she ever did coke again. It’s not controlling it’s called boundaries. If someone’s boundaries are something you can’t live with then you end the relationship. Substance abuse isn’t something that has to be accepted.
2025-10-15 20:48:18
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Nathalie (. ❛ ᴗ ❛.) :
its a preferance!! like i like color blue, body thick, height like that being sportiv together, no kids, 6 kids, no matter what it is u gotta be compatible!!!
2025-10-14 22:22:31
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FatherFullSend :
Just don’t date eachother if you wana drink that bad
2025-10-15 01:10:01
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