@revengeofthegoodgirl: This is what makes an avoidant lose their sh*t #avoidant #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #anxiousattachment #creatorsearchinsights anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, dating advice, relationship advice, attachment style
Avoidants are always the busiest people. Funny that
2025-10-16 12:10:57
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Schnurrgeschichten :
They will accuse you of being the problem 😭😭😭
2025-10-15 15:42:02
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𝑀𝐵. :
A true avoidant will shrug it off and move it, we have trained our whole lives for this
2025-10-15 19:59:16
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Chaos Queen :
Oh I can ASSURE this is true. I’ve done this; not bc I was trying to be manipulative but bc I was literally done with their shit. But it works funnily, apparently matching their energy was the key.
2025-10-15 20:32:54
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Jalsh :
This isn’t toxic, nothing wrong with giving avoidants their due consequences for once
2025-10-15 23:16:41
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thatgoodthing :
And in order to pull this off, you have to rid yourself of codependency!
2025-10-15 15:54:56
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printinglibrary5 :
True avoidants will just block you without explanation 😌
2025-10-15 18:33:21
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Erencan :
Are you sure? What if he never talks again if you match his energy
2025-10-16 16:57:06
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Cecilia wa Germany 🇰🇪🇩🇪 :
I always say,"I thought acting like you,will make us get along 😏"
2025-10-15 16:33:54
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ed_nut25 :
As an avoidant myself i used to crash out internally but outside i would never show any emotions but now im going to therapy
2025-10-15 22:51:32
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black goddess :
I ghost him he gets angry
2025-10-15 15:43:48
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✨✨✨Eva✨✨✨ :
Or just ghost them, block them and give them zero closure.
2025-10-15 23:12:41
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L3x :
He crashed out so much I was flabbergasted 😂🤭
2025-10-15 17:00:41
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Whitesparrow___ :
He missbehaved and when I stated what bothers me he gave me a disrespectful answer so I just blocked him everywhere without any further comment! 🤣😎
2025-10-15 16:07:44
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Oppenheist :
They angry when we give the same treatment like they did to us as anxious
2025-12-23 14:36:27
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Moira Jo | Avoidant Attachment :
Yes the avoidant can’t handle that. I’m a healed fearful avoidant. This is their trigger. But if you do it they will definitely leave you.
2025-11-28 14:16:08
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Larisa Lara 🌙 :
Absolutely true!!! I did this he lost his mind. It was so satisfying to observe 😂👏🏻
2025-10-16 00:50:49
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earth2nic :
Bro left me on delivered for 2 days so I did the same to him and he flipped out.
2025-10-16 20:30:36
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lucylou_200 :
Nope. Did it to him and never heard from him again 😅
2025-10-27 18:15:19
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Liza :
I was very sick and didn’t respond to his lame text. He broke up with me the next day. While I was still very sick. It’s true they do crash out
2025-10-17 02:38:41
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Michael :
first of all this will only work a couple of times then the avoidant will think ”they don't want me I was right all along that nobody likes me” and they will disappear. secondly this is intended manipulation while avoidants react a certain way due to past unresolved trauma - there's no intention, just reacting to fear
2025-10-16 01:43:02
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Jen :
I wrote him that I wish him all the best. Suddenly he replied: “What’s going on? Why?”
Now he’s sad because I deleted him.
I have no space for avoiders or weak behavior.
2025-10-27 07:45:29
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Lorelo :
I ghosted him just like he is used to and he blocked me!
2025-10-15 18:04:53
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theicedlatte04_ :
i ghosted him. he was an avoidant. been 4 months. he didnt reach out. its over Isn't?
2025-11-30 16:41:48
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They don’t want their own energy 😂
2025-12-24 14:03:10
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