Yeah, men definitely do not approach me in real life. Even if I give cues; smile, wave, speak 😩
2025-10-16 10:46:18
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Mo_leficent :
The assumption is that an attractive person already “taken”, “Off the market” or has to much “competition”. People fear rejection
2025-10-16 18:42:35
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Nicki :
It’s easier to send a dm than it is to walk up and say anything 🤷🏻♀
2025-10-15 23:31:07
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🌹Janie💕 :
It's the same for women, I get all kinds of attention online, but I rarely get attention in person.
2025-10-16 01:10:19
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Michelle My Belle 🍒 :
Approaching a stranger in person is the complete opposite of being forward online. Apples and oranges.
2025-10-16 00:53:57
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❌1bonitapeach - Tammy :
Baby, you have to get out of Utah!😂
2025-10-28 05:00:15
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elainestephens03 :
Same here, Boss! (So weird). Because I know this about you, gentlemen, I use my outgoing personality to make sure that I compliment men without (any) intention, other than brightening their day. It’s precious!, They’re usually shocked and dumbfounded on how to say ‘thank you’.
2026-02-07 14:01:33
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stinafit :
I think people are more brave to give attention online 🤷🏻♀️
2025-11-16 23:53:18
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Nikki ❌ :
It’s the same for women. 🥰
2025-11-19 12:40:19
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Jamie :
I feel like this is true for everyone, save some just ridiculously conventionally attractive people who get attention no matter what. I get NO attention in person. Never approached in person. Ever. Online I get lots of likes, comments, DMs, etc but it’s mostly all fake, IMO. The “options” that appear online aren’t real at all. I’ll never understand how people blow up relationships for “online” options bc IME, there are no options…anywhere 😂
2025-10-16 02:06:07
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Rich Auntie 💋 :
If you're attractive and dressed decently, I always assume you're taken but will say hi out of respect.
2025-10-16 14:38:58
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Contour Club :
Location, location, location! 😏
2025-10-16 15:17:04
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DodgerBabe74💋 :
Come n check that out in California 😎😉
2025-10-15 21:36:31
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kmela77 :
Leave Utah and come to NY
2025-10-30 01:04:33
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Thee_ONLY_LP :
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 not the big black dude in Utah?! I'm dying bc I understand 💯‼
2025-10-16 02:08:00
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Palace :
It's the polar opposite for me! Not even close actually. No one pays attention to me really or makes a big deal out of me online 😅 but in person it's celebrity treatment everywhere I go, tbh, like...it's always shocking even though it's frequent 😮
I always wanted to know how the reaction & attention could be so extremely different online as opposed to in person🤷🏽♀️And, not to be arrogant, but like one guy said on here, that's the best way to know your true level of attractiveness, cuz ain't no filters to hide behind, no special angles you can use, no special effects, just the real raw you.
irl>social media
2025-12-02 19:01:17
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Your Mother Hen :
Me too Sir👑👑 Over Whelming on this app but not in my home town once in awhile 😂 👍👍👍
2025-10-16 11:33:56
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Whiskey nights :
I go through same! Never get asks out but guys way brave online!
2025-12-16 13:41:57
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Dr. Shanna :
We are all in the same boat, we just feel more confident approaching online than in person. Rejection is easier when no one sees it. 🤷🏽♀️
2025-12-14 21:33:27
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pamelaw534 :
Dime or a dozen. I honestly prefer face to face although the risks remain the same.
2025-12-10 03:45:06
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pamelaw534 :
People on social media are behind a computer and feel more confident and are easily to approach who they’re attracted to, let alone you are seen by millions providing more options. On the other hand, people are more shy in person and the options are limited. People are to busy coming and going these days, people don’t have the time to stop and court each other like before. Men use to approach the women back in the days with no problem. Not anymore. It’s easier on social media where rejection comes a dime and ad3
2025-12-10 03:43:35
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OneofFew🌺 :
Sir,..you are in Utah. Mystery solved
2025-12-09 17:20:59
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coachj.jbs :
It’s the intimidation factor. People are more likely to send a DM online than they are to smile and say hello in person. The virtual world we live in 🤦🏽♀
2025-10-15 20:22:50
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