Glad you said this because women get gaslit so much by being branded as shallow. If I, a black woman, can succeed despite patriarchy why would I want someone who isn’t up to my level WITH the backing of patriarchy? And I’m also supposed to submit? Downgrade?
2025-10-16 02:46:49
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Jayla :
Most relationships fail due to financial problems
2025-10-16 22:12:23
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username13885489943 :
I don't bother trying to push back. I simply ignore the men that don't meet my criteria and atp I'm grateful for women who are deluded by Hollywood romantic ideas. If it wasn't for them, there'd be more bitter, stingy men on the prowl.
2025-10-16 19:33:33
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The Good Narrative :
what i know today is that, I will not choose a fool. I will not listen to a fool. I will not birth children for a fool. The worst that can happen is still better than my whole life with a fool.
2025-10-21 23:12:09
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fluften :
love your directness
2025-10-15 20:32:55
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MakintsMind | Artist Systems :
Nah your a wordsmith and your tonality suggest wisdom based on your experiences in life that has allowed you to be clear with your thoughts and direction. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
2025-10-15 19:50:35
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sacrificial.lamborghini :
You & people who speak/express themselves like you, this style, is my favorite - clarity, directness, no sugar coating, assertive, charge/aliveness behind it. That’s not anger in my books.
2025-10-15 21:08:54
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Freedom, Life, Love & Locs ✨️ :
The joke is, I think a lot of women wouldn't even mind so much a man that isn't there yet financially IF he had the ambition and drive to get there. But I for one can't be more ambitious FOR you THAN you! Some don't want more for themselves but then are angry/resentful that you have enough ambition for the both of you.
2025-10-19 01:58:13
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xxchazzxx21 :
My nan used to say "when hunger comes through the door, love goes out the window". Never a truer word!
2025-10-22 22:03:35
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JusttrulyJulie :
I appreciate it when people are clear and direct. ❤️🙏
2025-11-02 01:08:05
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Dash :
“Lack of sober conversation” 😅😂😂 yessssss
2025-12-17 15:05:05
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Helen.O :
Round of applause. It’s so simple 👏🏾👏🏾
2025-10-16 11:40:32
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thoughtdemand20 :
You are so direct..... It's refreshing
2025-10-17 08:39:49
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TyTy :
Rah you came into this strong. I felt like I needed my hand held 😂. But i tell you what I didn’t miss a thing you said ! Concise, to the point and hearddddd
2025-10-16 21:52:36
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Wanjikũ wa Njĩhia 🇰🇪🇨🇳 :
The simple act of existing needs money, even without luxury. To get basic needs which are food water and shelter, those need money too!
2025-11-30 04:48:29
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A N E S U ✨ :
I AM JUST CLEAR AND DIRECT! 😍👏🏾
2025-10-22 12:08:08
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walyas.world :
Basic MATHSSSSS 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
2025-10-19 15:19:55
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Zedwestw9 :
We love your communication skills — clear, concise, and straight to the point. I, on the other hand, learned that lesson the hard way. At one point, I felt like the mother of a grown man I didn’t give birth to. Needless to say, it ended rather abruptly.
2025-10-15 21:53:22
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comptedefee.x :
This is SO crucial !!
2025-10-15 21:18:49
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okey :
That’ll be the people who don’t understand the difference between passion and direct communication about a subject and anger!
2025-10-15 20:40:25
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KB :
so true totally agree with you. I feel like people who lack proper emotional intelligence or lack a sense of taking badic accountability, take direct communication with no sugar coating defensively. I can listen to your talks everyday as it's very helpful.
2025-10-16 01:20:29
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A N E S U ✨ :
Oh you are SO SPOT ON!!!! Instant follow!!!!!!!!!!!
2025-10-22 12:11:59
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manifesttam :
preeeeaach !! like what are they not getting 😩
2025-10-16 22:00:34
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Yalliz | Beauty & Fashion :
I hear you 💯… cos lack of proper financial planning will humble you! but on the flip side is it reasonable for a woman who also can’t afford her current on perspective lifestyle to expect that from a man? I’m curious 🧐
2025-10-21 15:45:04
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