@thechrishinton: You give great advice to others but can’t follow it yourself. That’s not weakness, it’s Solomon’s Paradox. This is the moment you learn how to stop letting fear and old wounds run your emotional peewee football team, and start coaching your own life from the sidelines. Watch until the end — your timer moment starts today. #emotionalintelligence #traumahealing #selfawareness #shadowwork #innercoach
Always afraid of abandonment, or not being liked. This is why sometime I am too nice and allow people to step over me.
2025-10-16 00:24:17
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Casey :
yes! 😳🥺
2025-10-15 23:14:19
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evalen8 :
Man thank you, you have no idea how much your videos and your book have helped me. It’s not easy as I keep returning and harming myself but I continue to push myself to remind just that, “I am not the voices in my head”. I appreciate what you have done for me.
2025-10-16 00:05:23
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Boo 💟 💫 :
“I’m not good enough, that’s why they always leave” - it’s definitely the loudest
2025-10-15 23:38:13
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Katrina West :
Afraid of fear and loneliness. I love your videos , your book, and workbook! Much appreciated
2025-10-16 15:52:56
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nikki_s_d :
The voices in my head that would tell me I’m not worthy or good enough that I had to be perfect and be a people pleaser and if I did anything for myself, I was just being selfish
2025-10-16 16:25:22
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bohizzy985 :
I really enjoy that you speak from no script.
2025-11-03 23:50:52
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nikkimarie :
Needed this one! ❤️
2025-12-10 22:15:54
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Connie Bennett :
Grief. She shows up everyday to remind me of our loss. She see’s, smells, feels his presence like no time has passed. She falls to her knees begging to just stop hurting. The coach doesn’t seem to know how to help. Years of therapy & grief is still running the field. 😞
2025-10-17 02:54:43
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user8372981785714 :
Thanks Chris… you are a gift from God; yes from God🙏; but it’s you who is helping 🙏🙏🙏
2025-10-15 23:22:50
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Christine K :
Now I'm curious if Solomon's paradox happens to you. A cute gecko appeared above your right shoulder half way through.
2025-10-15 23:53:43
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Destiny Hollon Dunn :
I'm the adult child to the parent who is always looking for approval and knowing that it's never going to come the way that I want and I need to learn to speak my mind let her know that I love her and that we are not always going to agree I learn how to stand up for myself because I never have
2025-10-15 23:37:04
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Rhonda :
Does this apply to trauma and guilt as it applies to the death of a spouse?
2026-03-06 17:52:40
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user1991267231329 :
Been there / done that🤷
2025-10-15 23:13:55
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Holly :
711 🥰🥹
2025-10-15 23:11:18
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Pleasant Inspired Apparel :
Thanks for this advice
2025-10-16 00:36:52
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TikTokDianatoday :
Facts 💯💕
2025-12-14 16:18:35
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Doreeng222 :
Wow!!! That is amazing!!
2025-10-15 23:19:01
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Kimberly Baggett985 :
11:53am
I am the one looking at old texts and wondering how the heck did it get this bad. And wondering why it isn't fixable.
2025-12-06 18:05:08
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kat :
I’m not seeing the pinned post about trauma. Any assistance finding it?
2025-12-28 09:18:14
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Marina :
mine is always one that tells me I'm not smart enough. a fear of inadequacy. when someone tells me anything to that effect is like a validation to my fear and my trauma response is triggered.
2025-12-12 15:48:58
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Caroline#7 :
Another solid analogy 👏🏻♥
2025-10-24 22:30:32
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Nico :
Thank you
2025-11-08 23:20:17
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meghancross555 :
Thank you so much for sharing. And strange when I looked at my clock it was 513
2025-11-05 22:14:03
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La Reina💜🇵🇷 :
Fear and resentment.
2025-10-20 22:39:24
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