Em | Trauma & Abuse Educator
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samantha :
he caused me pain constantly, and yet I only wanted him to comfort me.
2025-10-17 08:24:29
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UpAndAdam :
And nobody realizes it could happen to anybody. I always considered myself pretty self aware and secure. Went almost 40 years without experiencing a narcissistic relationship and the few years I did nearly destroyed me, literally.
2025-10-17 16:21:17
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Bouri1111 :
What a perfect analogy
2025-10-16 21:27:05
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AIDEN :
we stayed becos we thought we could change them with the love we had to offer .....we mainly stay cos we in competition with our own self....not give up on them and make it work....then oneday u realize that ur love has being replaced with emptiness
2025-10-17 00:03:38
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CJ :
Yup, as much as I’m aware of the situation and how much it hurts, I’m literally addicted to her. Even though I know she will never change.
2025-10-16 19:22:13
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pannamanna0919 :
and the bunny hopped far from their friends😭
2025-10-19 02:25:08
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Suzette Poulsen :
AND …you can’t even imagine, that he could do all that stuff on purpose!! But he can🤥🤥
2025-10-17 17:48:54
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✨️Shauna | Heal For Real✨️ :
Trauma bonds condition you to abandon all logic in favour of dopamine highs and cortisol crashes. Intermittent reinforcement is so insidious. I am someone who studied psychology, helped other people feel empowered, yet it took me so long to leave
2025-12-12 19:05:19
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britt :
the people under his influence swear i’m the problem and can’t be that bad or abusive if i’m “always going back to him” and say i’m abusive too…like it makes me feel crazy that they don’t see the deception and manipulation that happens behind the scenes.
2025-10-17 10:12:36
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Fairy :
This should be taught to teens at school - more useful than algebra….
2025-10-17 18:17:58
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b r i t 🎱♦️ :
i got tf out. i had to. idk where my strength came from. i just got the hell out of there.
2025-10-18 13:54:36
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SiX2SoHo :
The stick on their back also serves as a block from leaving the cage.
2025-10-17 20:24:40
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Peppermintmuffin :
So well articulated
2025-10-17 20:00:41
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Natsu :
i am in fact a sad little bunny rabbit at this point
2025-12-02 03:51:53
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Vanessa Campbell :
Did he even like me?
2025-10-18 04:52:41
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healingloudly94 :
Thank you for explaining this! More people need to get the dynamic of a trauma bond!!!
2025-10-16 21:22:16
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Margreet Brands :
future faking🙃
2025-10-19 04:57:02
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Raj—> :
The narcissist is the bunny. That’s the scary part
2025-11-04 05:54:13
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Ashley :
THANK YOU for explaining this. It hurts me that most people don’t understand this BUT I’m happy I’m out and healing❤
2025-10-16 21:03:50
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PhotofliesphotographyLaRae❌G7 :
Yes! Great take on it with the trauma bond. We were ABSOLUTELY conditioned for this behavior.
2025-10-17 02:30:46
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Amanda In Chaos :
Mine literally would not let me break up with him. I broke up with him at least 10 times over 6 months before it finally stuck. he'd come back then blame me for something, making it my fault, and my response would always be "If I'm this huge problem, then just let me go"
2025-12-26 08:09:23
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imoallak :
Never thought I’d be in the situation I’m in now. Can definitely happen to anyone, don’t go back after the first breakup is all I can say 🙃
2025-12-13 01:54:43
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𓋼𓍊Han 𓍊𓋼 :
Being with a narcissist is like being a marionette puppet, while the strings are on fire, but the show has to go on for the audience he set up to watch you fail..
2025-11-18 21:42:33
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Sel :
Exactly
2025-12-18 04:18:56
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