@theanxietyhealer: LETS CELEBRATE US. not a pity party, promise 😂 just a reminder that being single in your 40s is equal parts peaceful and lonely sometimes. both can exist. #singlewomenover40 #HealingJourney #datingover40 #midlifewomen

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ryo_darien
Mel :
I missed those marks. It’s not going to happen. I stopped caring honestly. It’s gotten pretty lonely so nothing seems worth getting excited for.
2025-10-17 20:25:10
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blacksunyellowmoon
Yeah_its_me :
I celebrate you for being vulnerable enough to post this. 🥹
2025-10-17 17:28:21
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sherrihasley
Sherri Hasley :
At 48 the only person who claps for me & celebrates my wins is me. Maybe my dog, too. ❤
2025-10-17 23:08:24
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ll_cc_vv
💄🔮🧛🏻‍♀️ :
I’m turning 50 in February and 10+ years single. I don’t have the energy to off anything for myself. I will attend other friends” 50th celebrations but the idea of asking people to celebrate me is nails on a chalkboard.
2025-10-17 03:07:47
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skirmyyy
Skirm :
Celebrating everyone else but when it’s my turn everyone’s busy.
2025-11-10 03:40:58
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debbielynn71458
Debbie :
What was the last thing you did that was awesome? You make your own milestones and accomplishments.
2025-10-17 00:31:32
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auntiedawn8
auntiedawn8 :
I know the feeling! You will survive!!
2025-10-27 19:58:47
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theonlymattyk
theonlymattyk :
I’m 43, lost my husband unexpectedly in February. Learned that my friends weren’t friends and that my 4 dogs are my best friends and are always there to celebrate me even if it’s just pooping.
2025-11-28 03:39:40
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mitzie0338
Mitzie0338 :
Yup. 56. It's all over.
2025-10-19 18:11:51
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lonestrtiger
LoneStr Tiger :
I hit 60 and realized I have had no real life yet. No friends, no family, no future. My fault and anxiety issues. Lots of regret.
2025-10-18 23:54:38
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marybethortwein
Mary Beth Ortwein :
Girl same! I just can’t relate
2025-10-17 03:48:06
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newyo111
jerseygirl06 :
me now
2025-10-19 00:11:21
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lovepoppy88
lovepoppy623 :
Even if I did have something to celebrate, there’s no one who cares enough to celebrate with me.
2025-10-18 21:31:14
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denisegutierrez350
Denise :
I can relate
2025-11-26 15:53:14
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rhduran
RHDuran :
Holidays can be hard since they are all family oriented. Made my peace celebrating on my own.
2025-10-19 00:51:00
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lululaur
Lulu :
I feel so validated thank you
2025-10-19 00:52:45
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cerealouslyweird
🔹CerealouslyWeird🔹 :
I get it. I've had this exact thought. For me it's like now no one cares because I'm old so it doesn't matter. I've been married, divorced, have my daughter....so fore,y birthday doesn't even matter now. I just get told "you're over 40, why does it matter?". 😕
2025-10-19 11:40:28
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meggieb536
MeggieB :
Yep!
2025-10-17 00:40:55
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desireesommer0
DesireeSommer :
I think even partnered ppl feel this as they get older. We set it up so that there’s very few milestones after marriage and kids… retirement is the very last one. When youreyoung, it’s becoming an adult graduating high school, going to college, graduating, first job, engaged, etc… it’s all front loaded. We need new things to celebrate all along.
2025-11-24 18:44:24
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pro.bear
Sophia Petrillo :
I never even got to celebrate any of the things....it's been a sad life
2025-11-16 02:58:25
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warlockcommon
WarlockCommon :
yep
2025-11-15 03:54:57
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user4824143828861
LunarElegance :
You absolutely killed it.
2025-11-13 03:17:09
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chaosandcalm1
chaosandcalm1 :
The storytelling is brilliant.
2025-11-13 01:58:31
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