👑 Amanda 👑
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OneTwo3LockBox :
Let them spend down their money then apply for Medicaid. Don't ruin your family's future because of your parents' lack of planning. You have to put your own family first
2025-10-19 15:07:03
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Lauren :
At least you have your sister, I'm an only child dealing with this 🥺
2025-10-29 01:44:10
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Diana Sunshine :
THIS is why they cut Medicaid - so the cost burden of elder care would go back to the children and families. So now the kids will be bankrupted so billionaires can pay less tax
2025-10-19 19:08:03
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gtrkev3 :
Be careful. The kids should let the parents pay for their own care. If they run out of money, that's what Medicaid is for. If you try to support them in a nursing home you could be looking at $10k/mo. That will sink many families quickly. ChatGPT may help guide you and then consult with pros in the field.
2025-10-19 10:16:50
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Rochelle S :
I never want to do this to my children.
2025-10-18 14:26:09
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BrookeCrochets :
Time for senior income based apartments 😁
2025-10-18 22:04:15
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morgancarter013 :
Consider all the times your parents cared for you (whether you acted responsibly or not). Perhaps they're in this place financially due to raising and providing for their family. I know it's tough, but regardless, it's your turn now.
2025-10-18 18:45:13
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ovarB :
So sorry you are dealing with this. The Venn diagram of the lack of emotional regulation, hoarding and financial literacy for this generation is almost a flat circle.
2025-10-19 10:04:15
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Horror Artist :
It’s so crazy how our parents turn into children overnight who refuse to change their bad behaviors
2025-10-19 15:22:49
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Maga_Cult_45_17 :
My sister and I just flew out to WA state to bring my Mom, who is a widower back to TX so we can care for her. We found out she had 40+ cats in her house. She’s also a hoarder.
2025-10-18 06:18:49
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colettebennett683 :
this is the story of millions
2025-10-19 13:08:40
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ommagoodness :
Parents have a responsibility not to be a burden. We've done our estate planning, gotten LTC insurance and have our house cleaned out and in order.
2025-10-18 18:34:20
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gingermoo14 :
I hope this comment isn’t offensive bc I’m not trying to insinuate what you did or don’t do. To me this highlights the importance of having candid conversations with our parents regarding their finances and also things like prepaying arrangements, long term care expectations , etc.
2025-10-21 22:16:11
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lablady219 :
the best inheritance parents can leave to their children is a paid for funeral, and having a paid for home so they are not homeless.
2025-10-19 22:48:08
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Joy :
As a Realtor, I deal with this ALL the time. Kids, I implore you to start checking in with your parents in their early 60’s to see what their plans on before it’s too late.
2025-10-20 20:51:35
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Lori Eppe | Mom of 6 💕 :
I don’t know if it’s just that generation, but my parents house is also a low key hoarding situation. And, we are in a situation where it’s now empty and we need to figure out how to clean it out to sell. It’s overwhelming. I feel for you. Luckily, the finances are not an issue here. I can’t even imagine that extra stress. So sorry. Thanks for sharing. I hope it helps. ❤
2025-10-19 03:35:46
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lyncan7591 :
My parents are both dependent on me . I care for both . My mom literally gives her money away to a variety of “friends” .. then my dad will go to casino and spend all his money .. I’m at my wits end with both
2025-10-18 17:15:43
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imdonna :
Let me say, you are NOT alone.
2025-10-21 21:23:00
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Maine Coon Brothers :
I have one who gets an A+++ and another who gets an F. It’s no wonder they divorced.
2025-10-19 22:54:48
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GinnytheNana¹ :
I lost my parents in my 20's and I swore I would NEVER leave my kids in the situation I was left in. That being said, the current administration is taking away safety nets that are needed for the elderly and I have no doubt that a lot of people are going to be in the same situation. I have no advice to offer. I wish I did.
2025-10-19 16:26:50
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amby_bamby :
Am I a bad person for feeling relief that my parents died when I was young so I’ll never experience this 💔
2025-10-23 02:27:45
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EvenFlow Automation :
My parents are immigrants. Worked multiple jobs so we could live a great life and get an education. They have no 401k or savings. Everything was put into their house. My brother and I will take care of them. They scarified so much.
2025-10-20 01:44:47
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Ann Beale :
My mom gambled away what little money she had. Got sick had to go into a nursing home. I facilitated her care by helping the process of Medicaid. I visited her a lot. Managed everything. But I did not spend my money. I hope that helps.
2025-10-19 23:26:20
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Stephanie Whitacre Schurr :
I hear you. I would share but it's shameful what they have allowed to happen.
2025-10-19 23:19:35
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wfountain62 :
My biggest fear is not to become a burden to my kids. This is awful, I’m sorry
2025-10-18 13:36:15
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