thank you. :) i just broke up with him cause no matter what i said, he didn’t want to change and he still constantly chose and made time for everything else in the world except for me.
2025-10-19 02:22:02
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mancasala76 :
Self flagellation and lengthy self-punishment are often self indulgent ways to try to avoid facing difficult feelings or doing the real work of accountability, recovery and growth. It’s important to be able to sit with our guilt and be accountable for the things we have done. This doesn’t mean punishing ourselves, this means accepting that we were and are capable of harm and committing to learning from this to prevent similar harm in the future. This means doing what we can to make amends and share our learning. I'd strongly recommend reading Healing Isn't Pretty by Mira Hartson for anyone who REALLY want to see positive changes in their life.
2025-10-20 13:02:22
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90210 :
Did this and left with 0 friends
2025-10-19 02:34:48
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Ale Villegas :
Broke up with him last weekend and it’s all bc he couldn’t meet me emotionally. And I feel so free now
2025-10-20 09:53:15
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cyn | pieces of peace ✨ :
The timing of my fyp is diabolical (thank you 🫶)
2025-10-19 07:56:08
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samantha :
acknowledging I abandoned myself for someone who never chose me/ told me I wasn't a priority, the shame and guilt and hurt and sadness I felt nearly destroyed me
2025-10-20 11:03:39
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🥠 :
thank you. every word spoke to me so loudly. I had to break up the best and worst relationship I have ever had.
2025-10-19 16:34:46
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Shakira 💌🤸🏻♀️ :
Yes no more shrinking. 🥺
2025-10-20 20:51:47
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🍒 Pau Pau 🍒 :
I was told that I asked for too much, that it never was enough for me, I just wanted to be a priority, I just wanted him to show me he loved me but no, apparently I’m trying to control him and bullying him he said, it hurts cause I love my hubby but I had to end it
2025-10-19 13:22:17
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kenziesimmonss :
Each word spoken…. was my life 6 months ago! So thankful I walked away
2025-10-19 02:35:19
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Ruth 💜🫶🏼 :
I hear you… and it is definitely one of the hardest things to do. And I think it might feel worse because maybe they are genuinely good people but still can’t meet us where we need to
2025-10-20 15:19:31
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jordan :
You shouldn’t have to ask somebody to meet you in the middle - the right person is just there
2025-12-15 06:52:13
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🤍 :
This with friends too, I love the way you said all of this
2025-10-19 05:01:24
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alexa_ligaya on IG :
Thank you so much for this, cause i have been questioning myself if i did the right thing🥹
2025-10-19 15:17:19
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AC | CREATOR. :
the realesttt I’ve ever heardddd 🙌🏻🥲 it’s better to walk away & find ur own peace than being around that typa negativity
2025-10-23 03:30:37
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koi :
"you can care deeply for someone and still realize that they're not capable of showing up in the way that you need" 🎯💯
2025-10-24 23:08:12
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Michelle | In real life ✨ :
Sheesh …love or history alone isn’t enough 😮💨
2025-10-20 18:24:22
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heyj.xo :
“Because walking away isn’t giving up. It’s giving yourself back everything you kept giving away.” 😭‼
2025-10-25 05:20:56
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Meesh :
Totally needed to hear this. I need to find the courage to part from this 7 year relationship… we started dating when I was 21. I’m about to turn 29…. 🥺
2025-10-19 23:04:33
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Viduni G :
Thank you needed this today! At the end of the day you have to take that hard pill to choose yourself and that shows how strong we are.
2025-10-19 05:19:34
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April Kensington :
So proud of you for sharing this. It’s a battle that we struggle with until we realize we were just abandoning our own needs
2025-10-20 20:39:36
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clarissaaa♡ :
thank you! appreciate this.💗✨
2025-10-18 23:33:50
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M E L B :
I kept loving someone who hated me
2025-10-20 02:26:03
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zei 🍜 :
badly needed this today, thank u sm ❤️🩹
2025-10-19 08:10:39
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Belle :
Beautifully said and applicable to all relationships ❤
2025-10-19 15:15:40
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