@anxiouslyalej: He didn’t tell you because he knew there would be consequences for his actions. I had a client whose partner kept relationship-changing info from her. And When she confronted him? He said:“I knew you’d get mad.” No. He knew it was wrong which was why he hid it. He knew if she had the full truth, she would have been empowered with the information to do what was best for her. That’s not love. That’s manipulation. #feminineenergy #womensdatingadvice #blackcatenergy #datingforwomen #relationships
When someone withholds information, they take away your ability to make an informed decision.
2025-10-19 20:06:19
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kerijagal :
When I found out, I didn’t even argue. I just left.
2025-10-19 16:10:32
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Amie Wilson :
Question for you- we were in an argument and I said a not nice something to a mutual friend that got repeated back to him. He asked if I said it. I was honest with him, of course. My issue is that he won’t tell me who told him. He says it doesn’t matter. Ultimately I guess it doesn’t matter but something feels gross about the fact that he won’t tell me. I’d love your honest perspective.
2026-07-09 22:38:12
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Jelly Pancakes :
That’s what I think about when someone does something to hurt me- the thought process and active steps they had to take to do so.
2025-10-19 01:42:57
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KaizenPronoia :
And they get offended that you’re mad
2025-10-22 09:52:47
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Vernari :
BIG emphasis on ROBBED.
2025-10-19 03:32:27
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beaufortgrey :
The common fleeing from accountability.
2025-10-21 04:59:43
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connecticutvalleygirl 🇺🇸 :
Oh yeah, that was my last one. Finally when I caught him, I left. He knew that was the response.
2025-10-19 01:15:35
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xgodsgirl :
I always say give me the opportunity to walk away so if I stay it’s because I want to and not because I was lied to.
2025-10-20 15:52:53
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Sheirjbenwiahwbw :
Absolutely. He is gaslighting you
2025-10-21 05:29:45
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Susana_hopkins :
The best response is “it’s easier to ask for forgiveness than permission “. Been told that soooo many times. I walked away and never looked back.
2025-10-31 00:28:15
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I AM Universe Love :
That PART💯WE ALWAYS KNOW✔️✔️✔️✔️🙄
2025-10-19 04:56:04
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zzlpz711 :
Take away my right to choose for myself in any situation? Yea...no✌🏽🖤
2025-10-20 16:08:59
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Hallana :
RESULTS over intentions—every-time-period. 💚
2025-10-19 09:41:56
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The Finance Baddie® :
Period!!!
2025-10-22 21:52:11
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kuvyogkojtusnkaujnplaim :
Exactly. Let me have my peace without you now. You ain’t worth my time.
2025-11-04 15:02:41
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KaizenPronoia :
Yup! And I walked away
2025-10-22 09:52:27
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Heal With Heather :
My 22 year relationship/18 years married lying by omission and once I figured it all out I left, he still believes he was doing me a favor.
2025-10-22 10:03:44
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Micaela Jackson :
Facts
2025-10-19 01:14:34
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Leslie-Esthetician/Pro MUA :
my entire marriage 👀
2025-10-20 20:31:49
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Panda.Beah :
Truth!
2025-10-19 04:08:25
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Michelle Lorne :
Mine said: "I didn't tell you is because I knew you're smart and you'd understand this is just a test to see how dangerous this person could be for our relationship" ☠
2025-10-21 15:35:51
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make your own memories ✨ :
Omg this reminds me of my ex and when he said in therapy he didn’t want to tell me stuff because he didn’t think I couldn’t handle it 🥺
2025-10-22 18:51:49
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