@girlthepoet: #creatorsearchinsights Plus size dating comes with a weight that has nothing to do with the body. You learn to scan every moment for rejection …will the sweatshirt fit, will the chair hold, will they still want me if I’m not “easy to love.” These are the fears most of us never say out loud, but they shape everything. If you’ve felt this too, you’re not alone …pain doesn’t mean you’re unlovable, it means you’ve been trying to be loved in a world built to make you doubt you deserve it. #plussize #plussizedating #plussizewomen #foryoupage❤️❤️

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scarletstainedglass
scarletstainedglass :
I never believe that anyone finds me attractive. I think this stems from kids in school doing the “my friend has a crush on you” prank.
2025-10-19 19:28:38
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elevatedpenguin
Tiff :
Not even dating. Just living
2025-10-20 11:35:25
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andreawood5228
Andrea :
Making sure I'm very low maintenance because I'm scared that if I come off as needing/wanting something you'll realize I'm not worth the price/effort
2025-10-21 04:37:47
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midlifetomfoolery
Midlife Tomfoolery :
Every. Single. One. Every single time.
2025-10-19 22:47:33
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tinarobertson6681
Tina :
I have lost over 100 pounds and for the first time in decades am a size 10. I’ve recently started dating again, and I still have these intrusive thoughts. When they tell me I’m beautiful or a gorgeous woman, it’s hard for me to accept it as a sincere compliment. My mind tells me that they really don’t think that, they’re just being nice. So I don’t know that these feelings will ever change.
2025-10-20 11:01:47
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blankspace0520
blankspace0520 :
Being told I have a pretty face and good enough to hookup but not for long term. I’m worth more than that and I refuse to let people treat me like that anymore. I don’t like people enough to deal with a disappointment; I’m happier being alone
2025-10-20 01:09:22
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idkidk12354
idkidk123 :
I feel so disgusting. I can't sleep with somebody bc I know they'll be so disappointed in my body. My body is fat, full of stretch marks, cellulite and it's all an absurd amount too... I can't get close enough with somebody to the point of intimacy bc I know they'll leave.
2025-10-21 01:18:08
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kami.b20
Kami 📚📖 :
Literally. Almost crying cuz it legit is so spot on.
2025-10-23 10:40:41
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beardedbovel
BeardedBovel :
Hard relate! And I'd add - I'm afraid that I'll hurt you when intimate if I accidentally put my body weight on you. I'm afraid that when I meet your "friends" you'll be made fun of because of me.
2025-10-23 21:20:13
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rnurse78
Nurse78 :
Oooo yes ma’am. All of this.
2025-10-20 13:59:56
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natascha_apticar
Natascha :
I can tell you even after losing weight I still have these same thoughts 🫠
2025-10-19 23:10:39
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megalicious02
Megalicious :
Truth! And I constantly telling them how big I am before we meet so they know. Smh
2025-10-20 00:50:03
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medusa_oblongata
Medusa_Oblongata :
Get out of my head! 😳
2025-10-19 21:49:12
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indiea_a
indiea_a :
I relate to all this all so much that it feels like a personal attack.
2025-10-20 00:58:39
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missalexdiva18
Alexandria Crawford :
I 1000% relate to ALL of this.
2025-10-20 18:48:53
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irishcubbie85
☘️irishcubbie☘️❤️‍🔥🤘☠️ :
You are very much not alone. You just voiced every single fear I have carried with me for years.
2025-10-20 02:06:02
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merletsi
Mer 📚🕯️🔥 :
I’m plus sized and my husband is a twig. I honestly don’t think he finds me attractive even though he tells me otherwise. I don’t believe him. I understand how you feel and send you a hug. 💜
2025-10-19 22:38:23
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rosieinarcadia
rosieinarcadia :
For me, dating isn’t worth all this. id rather be alone. Not chnaging myself for a better chance that a man will accept me. No man is worth this kind of self torture
2025-10-20 07:39:25
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cwelch8520
Christine Welch :
I’ve never felt so seen.
2025-10-20 11:39:30
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crystalmill2002
Marissa :
Thank you for saying that out loud. Because I feel the same way
2025-10-20 00:54:53
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hollibwrites
cemeterywitch :
I'm 41 and I've been fat my whole life. I feel every one of these. I'm afraid I'm going to die alone because not only am I fat and getting old, I'm chronically ill... who the hell would want me?
2025-10-20 19:05:04
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sara.sup
sara.sup :
AH, I simply don’t date. I’m suffering enough as it is
2025-10-23 18:24:54
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novakore98
Gabs :
I truly cried… this is what I fear so much…
2025-10-20 11:43:37
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gg_draws_4_u
GG :
and at the end, I apologize for merely existing, because i know the world doesnt want to make space for me. the least i can do is make myself as scarce and humble and kind as possible so people will just leave me alone.
2025-10-22 11:01:37
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genesis_mike
Mike :
you're attractive tho...Just saying
2025-10-20 00:09:22
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