GirlthePoet
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Tiff :
Not even dating. Just living
2025-10-20 11:35:25
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scarletstainedglass :
I never believe that anyone finds me attractive. I think this stems from kids in school doing the “my friend has a crush on you” prank.
2025-10-19 19:28:38
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Andrea :
Making sure I'm very low maintenance because I'm scared that if I come off as needing/wanting something you'll realize I'm not worth the price/effort
2025-10-21 04:37:47
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idkidk123 :
I feel so disgusting. I can't sleep with somebody bc I know they'll be so disappointed in my body. My body is fat, full of stretch marks, cellulite and it's all an absurd amount too... I can't get close enough with somebody to the point of intimacy bc I know they'll leave.
2025-10-21 01:18:08
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Kami 📚📖 :
Literally. Almost crying cuz it legit is so spot on.
2025-10-23 10:40:41
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rosieinarcadia :
For me, dating isn’t worth all this. id rather be alone. Not chnaging myself for a better chance that a man will accept me. No man is worth this kind of self torture
2025-10-20 07:39:25
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blankspace0520 :
Being told I have a pretty face and good enough to hookup but not for long term. I’m worth more than that and I refuse to let people treat me like that anymore. I don’t like people enough to deal with a disappointment; I’m happier being alone
2025-10-20 01:09:22
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BeardedBovel :
Hard relate! And I'd add - I'm afraid that I'll hurt you when intimate if I accidentally put my body weight on you. I'm afraid that when I meet your "friends" you'll be made fun of because of me.
2025-10-23 21:20:13
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Nurse78 :
Oooo yes ma’am. All of this.
2025-10-20 13:59:56
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Midlife Tomfoolery :
Every. Single. One. Every single time.
2025-10-19 22:47:33
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Natascha :
I can tell you even after losing weight I still have these same thoughts 🫠
2025-10-19 23:10:39
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Medusa_Oblongata :
Get out of my head! 😳
2025-10-19 21:49:12
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Megalicious :
Truth! And I constantly telling them how big I am before we meet so they know. Smh
2025-10-20 00:50:03
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elias :
I’m really sorry that there are a lot of plus size people feeling that way. I have a plus size partner and I feel helpless when they say they have no idea why I’m attracted to them. I always try to assure them that they are beautiful and amazing either way. So I have something to say to all of you who feel that way - you are a person just as much any skinny one, and you DESERVE so much more than people you have to “sell” yourself to. Remember to never settle for less than what you deserve.
2025-10-23 23:47:38
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indiea_a :
I relate to all this all so much that it feels like a personal attack.
2025-10-20 00:58:39
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Mer 📚🕯️🔥 :
I’m plus sized and my husband is a twig. I honestly don’t think he finds me attractive even though he tells me otherwise. I don’t believe him. I understand how you feel and send you a hug. 💜
2025-10-19 22:38:23
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Daphne :
You've just took my own inner monologue and said it out loud
2025-12-19 10:54:58
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☘️irishcubbie☘️❤️🔥🤘☠️ :
You are very much not alone. You just voiced every single fear I have carried with me for years.
2025-10-20 02:06:02
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Alexandria Crawford :
I 1000% relate to ALL of this.
2025-10-20 18:48:53
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Tina :
I have lost over 100 pounds and for the first time in decades am a size 10. I’ve recently started dating again, and I still have these intrusive thoughts. When they tell me I’m beautiful or a gorgeous woman, it’s hard for me to accept it as a sincere compliment. My mind tells me that they really don’t think that, they’re just being nice. So I don’t know that these feelings will ever change.
2025-10-20 11:01:47
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Christine Welch :
I’ve never felt so seen.
2025-10-20 11:39:30
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Marissa :
Thank you for saying that out loud. Because I feel the same way
2025-10-20 00:54:53
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cemeterywitch :
I'm 41 and I've been fat my whole life. I feel every one of these. I'm afraid I'm going to die alone because not only am I fat and getting old, I'm chronically ill... who the hell would want me?
2025-10-20 19:05:04
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sara.sup :
AH, I simply don’t date. I’m suffering enough as it is
2025-10-23 18:24:54
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GG :
and at the end, I apologize for merely existing, because i know the world doesnt want to make space for me. the least i can do is make myself as scarce and humble and kind as possible so people will just leave me alone.
2025-10-22 11:01:37
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