@iamhoniakader: We've turned healing into a performance. Like peace needs to be proven. Like growth needs to be posted. But healing isn't pretty, it's quiet, it's messy, and most of it happens when nobody's watching. When you stop posting for the people who no longer have access to you... that's when you've truly healed. #honiakader #pourtoii #fyp #viral
What if we actually moved on and don't care what anyone else thinks?
2025-11-18 21:05:10
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Patrick :
Healing has nothing to do with posts or silence. Real healing means first identifying your own unhealed, unhealthy parts usually identified by a therapist...not yourself. Only then can you use the tools to recondition your brain and rewire unhealthy patterns in yourself that also contributed to the relationship falling apart. Relationships dont involve only one person if you are lucky enough to find that person that recognizes they also have unhealed parts and willing to do the work with you rather than point a finger at you...you take turns being patient with each other while you are both healing and realize its going to be messy. Healing is growth and growth is not easy its messy but everything you grow through together will only strengthen your bond and relationship.
2025-11-13 11:58:19
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Vanessa sibanda :
well said,but sometimes we post for fun
2025-10-23 16:56:39
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Jennelle :
Healing is not showing other people that you're healed. It's choosing to protect your peace and grow quietly at your own pace. It’s becoming better for yourself, not for anyone’s approval.
2025-12-01 10:06:57
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CAREN~FAITH❤️ :
Our exes are already in block lists ,we don't even have their contacts.
2025-11-06 02:49:26
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Chantel Mofokeng|Empowerment :
Totally agree😇
2025-10-20 17:47:04
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ugbosanmianthony :
who's this lady?
2025-12-04 15:49:22
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thobzmadlangs3 :
Couldn't agree more, healing is definitely NOT a show 🤞🤞🤞🤞
2025-10-25 06:16:31
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munier 786 :
that is a good woman and she pretty mashllaha 😍🌹
2025-11-19 04:45:13
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Kenny's beauty :
thanks you so much
2025-11-05 14:14:56
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🦁🖤…NO IDENTITY…🦁🖤 :
The truth is you’re actually at peace 🖤and sometimes you just want to post about it
2025-10-31 07:32:20
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Princess Lomaplazi :
Well said 👏👏💯
2025-11-20 11:58:23
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joy rere :
you are in point 🔥❤️❤️
2025-12-20 21:06:28
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Martinez Johnson09 :
thats very true
2025-12-13 00:23:24
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Aminata ahja matenneh Turay 🧕 :
indeed 👍💯💋💪
2025-11-24 17:20:50
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queenslite1 :
you are absolutely right
2025-11-22 12:42:48
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Dio1115🇩🇴💙 :
Exactly! Well said! 🙏🏻
2025-12-14 19:28:34
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The Empress Olga✨🫅🏽🦁 :
Thank you 🙏🏾
2026-01-08 15:11:06
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Ruthy'sbraid.Abuja :
am hapy i learnt this a long time ago, now am really at peace. i dont need validations any longer,you feel it when you are healed and its the best..
2025-11-16 09:15:41
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Legacy Mom Marketing :
Wow that is so powerful girl!🥰
2025-10-28 22:31:57
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hunner 📍 :
true
2025-11-09 14:28:56
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Hermosa :
True!
2025-11-15 06:36:58
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Luisa :
Beautiful
2025-11-18 23:20:50
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ms~momo ✝️🌸 :
Thank you for this am real blessed with you
2025-11-19 02:42:07
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Blanche Nicol :
Agreed!!!
2025-11-18 16:17:02
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