@.aunty.jo: They were fine when you over functioned. Now you’ve got boundaries and suddenly you’re the problem? #alignednotavailable #selfrespect #glowupwithgrace #discernmentisdivine #softnesswithstandards
I started a new job in April and was said to 'light up the room. 6 months on, my 'presence is large and that is good but some find it intimidating.' Im now 'fierce.' They better start wearing sunglasses when I enter the room.
2025-10-22 13:26:23
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The Soft Life by Tamara :
They hate when you have boundaries
2025-10-24 13:41:43
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Nick :
Thank you very much for this reminder
2025-10-22 13:45:46
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rsa_386 :
Do not dim your light for others 👏👏👏
2025-10-23 08:06:38
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Autumn Unmuted :
Say it louder for those at the back! 🗣️👏🏼
2025-10-24 07:11:18
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Desi Whistledown :
so true!!! they never get used to it.
2025-10-22 11:10:37
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DigitalMarketingnix :
Cut a lot of friends and most of all family off for this very statement, never felt happier, thank you for the reminder!!! 💪🏽 “growth” xx
2025-10-26 07:17:13
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RecoveringYesGirl.ai :
Being nice or kind doesn’t mean being available for misuse
2026-01-14 08:03:10
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Claire1776# :
having this at work now! was fine when i said yes, now tho im not flavour of the month. 😂
2025-10-23 08:50:29
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rain :
Last 2 yrs so many folk drifted away from me 😂🤣😂because I'm no longer a people pleaser or yes person even mum ain't happy for me 🤣🤣🤣🙄
2025-10-23 12:10:18
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Heidi’s Healing Hacks 🫶🏻 :
I’m not wasting my energy anymore 🥰 🫶🏻🫶🏻
2025-10-24 08:08:45
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nic 😝🌈 :
Needed to hear this 😢😳
2025-10-22 14:34:20
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Jay_xo :
I stopped being a doormat oh my days my lifes im shambles
2025-10-22 13:03:56
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Lucy :
Well said 👌 it’s like you’re describing my past six months! I’ve put in boundaries with people draining my energy and focused on myself. It’s been entertaining watching people wondering what’s going on and why I’m not pandering to their manipulation 😂
2025-10-23 21:54:07
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Thimble and Doll - Alisha :
"Now you say 'No', without a paragraph" a POEM, by auntyjo 👏🏾
2025-10-24 10:51:10
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Kimberleyx :
THE RELATABILITY ON THIS RIGHT NOW. BEEN MOVING LIKE THIS FOR LAST 2 YEARS, IM GOOD ✨✨✨✨✨
2025-10-23 10:58:34
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Just me :
THIS. People acting like I'm moving mad because I finally say no to things that are too much for me.
2025-10-22 15:16:42
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iOLove :
Exactly! 💯👏🏾
2025-12-03 13:03:15
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Aliciaminusthekeys🇬🇧🇧🇧 :
No but it’s still so hard to say “no” without adding “sorry”. Some days I can do it and others the sorry is still jumping in 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤣🤣🤣
2025-11-01 10:33:16
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Michaela | Mumma | Whine lover :
This! 🔥
2025-11-22 08:05:00
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DugVibe :
Respect!
2025-12-29 05:26:51
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KAYLEIGH LOVE :
exactly thank you 👍💃
2026-01-15 09:54:43
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Anghilus :
thank you pretty lady
2025-12-09 00:13:59
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LoSoftlyBlunt :
MY GIRL 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
2025-10-30 07:14:42
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