@.aunty.jo: They were fine when you over functioned. Now you’ve got boundaries and suddenly you’re the problem? #alignednotavailable #selfrespect #glowupwithgrace #discernmentisdivine #softnesswithstandards

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tia.patrice
Tia :
Yep 👏 A lot of people can’t handle others growth
2025-10-22 09:32:44
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niaoya7
Nia-Oya :
I started a new job in April and was said to 'light up the room. 6 months on, my 'presence is large and that is good but some find it intimidating.' Im now 'fierce.' They better start wearing sunglasses when I enter the room.
2025-10-22 13:26:23
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talktot
The Soft Life by Tamara :
They hate when you have boundaries
2025-10-24 13:41:43
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nickolai_finn
Nick :
Thank you very much for this reminder
2025-10-22 13:45:46
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rsa_386
rsa_386 :
Do not dim your light for others 👏👏👏
2025-10-23 08:06:38
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autumn_unmuted
Autumn Unmuted :
Say it louder for those at the back! 🗣️👏🏼
2025-10-24 07:11:18
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freeandunseen
Desi Whistledown :
so true!!! they never get used to it.
2025-10-22 11:10:37
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digialmarketingnix
DigitalMarketingnix :
Cut a lot of friends and most of all family off for this very statement, never felt happier, thank you for the reminder!!! 💪🏽 “growth” xx
2025-10-26 07:17:13
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recoveringyesgirl
RecoveringYesGirl.ai :
Being nice or kind doesn’t mean being available for misuse
2026-01-14 08:03:10
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clairebostock1
Claire1776# :
having this at work now! was fine when i said yes, now tho im not flavour of the month. 😂
2025-10-23 08:50:29
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x_love4wanderlust
rain :
Last 2 yrs so many folk drifted away from me 😂🤣😂because I'm no longer a people pleaser or yes person even mum ain't happy for me 🤣🤣🤣🙄
2025-10-23 12:10:18
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heidihi96
Heidi’s Healing Hacks 🫶🏻 :
I’m not wasting my energy anymore 🥰 🫶🏻🫶🏻
2025-10-24 08:08:45
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nicflynn68
nic 😝🌈 :
Needed to hear this 😢😳
2025-10-22 14:34:20
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blehbleh18888
Jay_xo :
I stopped being a doormat oh my days my lifes im shambles
2025-10-22 13:03:56
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lucywiththegoodhair_
Lucy :
Well said 👌 it’s like you’re describing my past six months! I’ve put in boundaries with people draining my energy and focused on myself. It’s been entertaining watching people wondering what’s going on and why I’m not pandering to their manipulation 😂
2025-10-23 21:54:07
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thimble_and_doll
Thimble and Doll - Alisha :
"Now you say 'No', without a paragraph" a POEM, by auntyjo 👏🏾
2025-10-24 10:51:10
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kim83x
Kimberleyx :
THE RELATABILITY ON THIS RIGHT NOW. BEEN MOVING LIKE THIS FOR LAST 2 YEARS, IM GOOD ✨✨✨✨✨
2025-10-23 10:58:34
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user909942803657
Just me :
THIS. People acting like I'm moving mad because I finally say no to things that are too much for me.
2025-10-22 15:16:42
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i.0.love
iOLove :
Exactly! 💯👏🏾
2025-12-03 13:03:15
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aliciaminusthekey
Aliciaminusthekeys🇬🇧🇧🇧 :
No but it’s still so hard to say “no” without adding “sorry”. Some days I can do it and others the sorry is still jumping in 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤣🤣🤣
2025-11-01 10:33:16
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whine_and_shine
Michaela | Mumma | Whine lover :
This! 🔥
2025-11-22 08:05:00
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douglvzp87d
DugVibe :
Respect!
2025-12-29 05:26:51
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trixterphoenix
KAYLEIGH LOVE :
exactly thank you 👍💃
2026-01-15 09:54:43
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anghilus
Anghilus :
thank you pretty lady
2025-12-09 00:13:59
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losoftlyblunt
LoSoftlyBlunt :
MY GIRL 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
2025-10-30 07:14:42
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