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Pikachu👽 :
I responded with peace for months while he was secretly connecting with a new girl. Im sorry, but us acting soft doesn't change their mind, if they wanna cheat and leave they will.
2025-10-23 00:47:09
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Nellie Krokstad :
ok but what about your needs?
2025-10-28 15:45:33
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user6620424291366 :
Yeah so none of this works.
2025-10-27 09:17:00
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cammie07 :
I acted with compassion at first, but there was only so much I could do before I felt like I was giving too much leniency and he wasn't taking accountability for his avoidancy nor trying to fix it himself and it led to me getting so frustrated with him
2025-10-24 16:35:46
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heather.p :
I tried so freaking hard
2025-10-26 03:28:54
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kingfluffeh :
Trying this now, thank you
2025-10-23 00:48:10
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tia :
you get it. it's so hard though 💔
2025-11-03 10:42:40
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Chelsea :
This all worked until he moved in 🙃
2025-10-24 17:55:39
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WhatMyEyesSee💜 :
Love this
2025-10-23 16:53:49
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Loki :
Think of them as trying to gain the trust of an alley cat. It’s gonna take patience & time
2025-10-27 04:52:41
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iseduardoz :
I think that would be healthy if it focused on helping the partner find a safe space to start walking in.
2025-11-04 22:42:49
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Nicole Ciccone :
why is it we are always looking out for their needs.. i never see posts about how we BOTH can work together….
2025-11-04 06:25:50
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maison999_ :
Too late I lost her
2025-10-26 13:40:08
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𝔟𝔦𝔤 𝔡𝔞𝔴𝔤. :
Insanely helpful actually
2025-10-27 17:00:18
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The Relationships Coach :
Love these♥
2025-10-24 22:44:07
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Lady E :
Thank you
2025-10-29 22:18:41
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Kimberly Dawn :
I pray now and say my frustration. It sucks being a anxious but I’m working on it
2025-10-24 15:42:19
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SoftlyMarie 🌸🐾 :
I've learned this too 👀👏 I see you and i understand I will not force anything
2025-10-25 17:23:59
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miso :
what if he (an avoidant) tells me how he’s not good for me and he doesn’t know why i keep talking to him but he’s the one initiating convos, sending more texts, reaching out first, opening up about things he hasn’t before, and even called me baby after months? we used to date before back in Jan but he ghosted me after a month and we’ve been on and off in terms of talking as friends since because i kinda seeked to be more than that again and he got overwhelmed. i’ve been more calm with this turn now and sending shorter and quiet responses and he’s seemingly opening up more than the other times 😞
2025-10-24 11:27:09
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Gray ♥️🧡🤍💗💜 :
So good 🌈🦋🌈
2025-10-24 01:39:06
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AFE SHOPS :
Number 3!!!!!
2025-10-23 23:54:12
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Tracy :
I absolutely love this. I had to figure out these things on my own and I’m now securely attached to an avoidant and we’re closer than we’ve ever been.
2025-10-24 14:29:15
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angelo cabrera :
The number 1 on the list is the point of view that I have. Which explains a lot since I know the story that led to the present situation. It was not used as an excuse.l, it wad the reason that I puzzled out personally.
2025-11-06 08:30:03
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Amanda :
The scared toddler is accurate. Mine acts like an insecure little boy that craves validation.
2025-10-22 23:43:41
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Alina Buzulan :
No, they’re just not interested. They don’t have the capacity to be in a relationship with YOU. Find you someone on your level and let him find someone on his level
2025-10-24 22:29:19
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