@whatwouldfallonwear: I have THE most respect for stay at home moms who don’t have any help. Trust me I’ve been there, and it’s so isolating and draining. It feels like a huge weight has been lifted since our au pair has come and I truly don’t ever want to live life without her! If you have the means and the space for it, I highly recommend it! 🫶🏼 #aupair #aupairlife #aupairusa #aupairnewyork #nycaupair
As an Aupair it’s so much easier when the parents aren’t in the room!
2025-10-23 12:55:57
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Vvalentinamsc :
If you make her work 45 hours a week then yeah
2025-10-22 15:13:30
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Ruth :
As an au pair, it’s actually so much easier to care for the kids when the mum isn’t there in the room watching, so she’s actually probably grateful, I know I was
2025-10-23 10:51:25
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FRANZI🌟 :
We as Au Pairs we are so happy, when you are happy
2025-10-22 14:40:41
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Aura :
happy mums have happy kids and happy au pairs
2025-10-23 14:22:03
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laura.etudiante.eje :
@Laura: As an au pair, we prefer when your not in the room, and we are not judging you at all, i mean, that’s why we’re paid for 😂
2025-10-28 23:55:24
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Feli 🩷 :
As I experienced; if you give your AuPair something back and show her that your greatful for what she does/ do her a favor if she‘d like to do a trip ect. - if it‘s like that, we love to do everything and don’t even call it „work“ but if it‘s the way that she‘s doing everything and works 45 hours, get‘s nothing back then it‘s just not a nice feeling for us aupairs as we feel like you aren‘t apprechiate what we‘re doing and we would feel like your maid instead of being included in the hostfamily. If y’all know what I mean. 🙈😊
2025-10-22 16:24:58
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Yael Paknoush :
Omg same! I also feel guilty but enjoy it 🥰
2025-10-22 13:52:09
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Rafa :
I’m an au pair and honestly I love when my host mom takes time for herself!!! Is soooo important to have balance and we know that this is why we are here for… to help you guys to be the best version of yourself
2025-10-23 23:09:12
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Noelle :
How does it feel to live my dream
2025-10-22 14:19:23
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Aiisjsnsiwnsjs :
Where did u find ur au pair?
2025-10-22 17:19:20
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gabx26 :
Wow you are blessed! An au pair and your parents watch her frequently!
2025-10-22 23:29:10
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Jennarose :
I’m a nanny to a stay at home mom and she knows when I am there she can stay in her room as long as she wants cause I have everything under control. It’s also easier for me because I have my routine with the kids, especially in the morning, getting them ready for school it’s just easier that way !
2025-10-24 03:07:24
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Amber Nicole Diaz :
Love this for you !! Dont feel guilty you deserve a breaky!!❤
2025-10-22 17:57:04
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Valentina 𓅰 :
I'm an aupair, and every morning, they hand me the baby so they can rest, I love spending time with the kids, so I'm always happy when it's my turn to be with him!
Also, I would never think they are lazy, I see how hard caring for kids is
2025-10-22 20:28:26
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sof :
As an au pair I ask myself the same thing when I'm free hahaha I could ask you the same thing, will it be that the host moms judge us when we are having lazier days?😳😂
2025-11-05 21:47:50
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h :
Definitely not. Being an au pair, we know going into it, we are filling a little parent role.
2025-10-24 14:18:56
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FRANZI🌟 :
Just make sure, we are also happy and we love you! I love to have an Au Pair mom
2025-10-22 14:41:14
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Caro H.🧃 :
As an au pair, I wanna be your au pair😔🤣♥
2025-10-23 15:44:12
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Cgk :
Im a SAHM with 4 kids and a full time nanny! No guilt necessary! If you can afford it, take the help. Good quality and loving help is the best thing you can do for yourself and in turn makes you a better mom! The hate usually comes from a place of jealousy unfortunately
2025-10-23 14:38:01
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AllaC :
I’m so happy that you have more balance and have a lovely au pair that you trust and P loves ❤
2025-10-22 23:31:14
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bbbbbslnm4x :
Lazy
2025-10-24 23:30:57
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Sam🏵️🌺🌻 :
I'm an au pair and I love it when my host parents feel helped and get to have time for themselves. We don't judge, we just want to help you 💗
2025-10-24 01:03:03
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Taylor Mastronardi :
Same I'm a stay at home mom and I have an au-pair and I do the same sometimes. I do give my au-pair free time in the am because sometimes I miss that one on one time with my toddler
2025-10-23 00:40:13
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Glory :
am looking for a host family
2025-10-25 23:08:26
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