they really expect you to defy odds when they give you such little support to go off of
2025-10-24 06:35:04
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★ laurelei ꩜ :
my parents definitely set me up for failure, they neglected my health concern with bad periods for a majority of my life. I could’ve avoided the level of endometriosis I have now if they didn’t call me “dramatic” for throwing up, passing out, beating myself from the pain.. when I had an emergency visit and they diagnosed me they were shocked when they asked me how long has my symptoms been going on and I said all my life.. not to mention they supported my abusers and STILL live with them, over my college education so they left me homeless without a care in the world when I was 19. my partner had to tell my mom to stop contacting me by all means.
2025-10-24 10:44:35
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⚡️amantha :
My parents are the reason I don't want children
2025-11-07 15:04:46
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sherrylikewine :
Go get your piano..and play it, and enjoy it..Start making some peace for yourself!!
2025-10-23 12:18:02
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sajlosy :
The number of women who haven’t read The Silent Feminine Power by Lana Cressel is wild. This book changes your confidence and aura completely.
2025-10-30 15:27:30
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Randall Coyne :
Narcissistic parents never want you to do better than them. Teach you nothing hoping you’ll fail. They sick.
2025-10-26 17:58:29
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youraquariusbestie :
They have high expectations of you whilst stimultaneously doing nothing to help you to get there, and in fact doing the absolute most to cut your wings and then complain why you aren’t flying like the rest. It’s truly sinister
2025-10-27 09:54:50
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uname107ppp :
literally they put you up for failure and then shame you for the effects of their neglect. they would not let me pursue sports and then shame me for the effects
2025-10-25 21:16:14
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Chiko :
imagine if Indian-American parents were like this, how much worse it was for us mainlanders. my parents wouldn't even let me go for the classes i wanted (badminton), only things that they decided i should be good at (painting). and i had no freedom to make myself any food or even use the kitchen. only mom was allowed to use it because she liked it spotlessly clean. we only ate what was served to us
2025-11-14 19:37:49
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Amina :
It's all about the control. They feel safe when they keep you in their mental cage and know you are not getting anywhere or defy their world view.
2025-10-26 12:54:04
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chipthetabby :
IT ALWAYS THE PARENTS FAULT
2025-10-24 23:08:17
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Diva Rana :
I was a fat child who was really isolated from going outside overate as a way to regulate my emotions :(
2025-10-23 14:26:21
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Winnie Ullulaq :
Mental abuse is worst then physical abuse, you’ll struggle with mental health all your life but helped to recover is speaking to elders will help you.
2025-10-23 16:22:22
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bigdeezy :
Girl you are so pretty
2025-10-24 00:11:42
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user4703750432349 :
They want to keep you small so you think nothing of yourself and stay and take care them
2025-10-27 03:48:50
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yuriology lawyer :
body shamed me so much but never guided me to workout or eat healthier they’d just bully me 😭😭😭
2025-10-26 00:08:25
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ada 🌙 :
It really is next level cruel and evil to create obstacles for you and then put you down for struggling. Lunatic behavior actually.
2025-10-26 14:22:38
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Mr.Handsome :
You are a beautiful woman !
2025-10-23 11:57:33
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chelly⁷ :
I resent my family so much, it’s so frustrating how they shame me for turning up this way when they were the reason why
2025-10-26 18:29:14
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Alpaka_julia :
I've recently blocked my parents and my entire family. My life is so much better since then 😭
2025-10-26 00:12:49
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theinnerchild :
It's so weird to see that I'm not the only one who grew up in circumstances like this. I'm so sorry
2025-10-24 18:38:37
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pif :
i daydream about my fathers death.
2025-10-27 02:55:50
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Angie Jamal :
My mom ruined my life. I've spent years trying to undo what she's done
2025-10-28 23:09:26
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beeberry :
I’m saying this as a child with lots of trauma and my own abuse story - at some point in adulthood you have to rewrite your story. Speak to your inner child and nurture her. You can process this grief but at some point you’re just retraumatizing yourself and continuing the hurt. Stop focusing on the “why?” And focus on healing little you. Look into EMDR and IFS.
2025-10-23 14:54:35
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