@rewirewithrach: “The more I love the more I get hurt” is a painful fear at the core of the FA experience 💔 #attachmentstyle #relationshiptok #Love #rewirewithrach #fypシ

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theunkarenkaren
Karen (but a cool karen) :
We grew up with conditional love
2025-10-23 19:10:31
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moira.jo
Moira Jo :
Fearful avoidant can have dating issues. Thoughts are like “what if they leave”
2025-10-24 02:14:26
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laurencaviar
Lauren Caviar :
As an FA, this was spot on
2025-10-24 05:00:42
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umas.moons
Umas Moons :
Feeling sorry for them when understanding them is dangerous though. Especially for the anxiously attached people out there thinking they can save them. You can’t. They have to get there themselves.
2025-10-24 12:06:56
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maxameddaahirisma
MÐI :
fearful fall in love with dismissive avoidant.dismissive avoidant ghost them and they become anxious.only they get love those hate and ignore
2025-10-23 19:45:27
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brii717
Bri :
Being a kid with a chronic illness my parents were the ones giving me my multiple daily injections starting as a 1yo. I think it plays a part bc the ppl I depended on were hurting me and I didn’t understand
2025-11-03 19:05:16
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ranidejonghe
Rani De Jonghe :
I have never been loved as much as i have loved.
2025-12-20 17:02:55
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hellothian
hellothian :
whOA -
2025-11-03 08:15:25
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rikansoy
Bori :
HOW ARE YOU GOING TO KNOW THE OUTCOME IF YOU DO NOT GIVE IT A CHANCE INSTEAD OF THINKING NEGATIVE FROM THE START???????
2025-10-24 04:20:26
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_leannalindsay
Leanna :
How do you get them to come closer though. I know they run away ans why.. I know it’s for protection he’s told me outright.
2025-11-27 03:26:05
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ricardombaraujo
Rickyvw :
if they're the biggest feelers, how come they " lose the spark" and are not able to access the feelings?
2025-12-19 16:19:18
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endwhiteness
️ :
you have beautiful eyes 🥺
2026-01-21 07:10:04
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user3555537929356
user3555537929356 :
Can u talk about the fear that u can’t love? Like ur never gonna feel safe and able to connect back?
2025-12-21 00:22:43
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userdh033
userdh033 :
Ugh this is so real. And unfortunately I used it as a wedge. I wanted to lean anxious but found myself running.
2025-10-23 16:32:20
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alicoca13
Aline Coca :
How do i heal?
2025-10-29 23:46:02
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bettypusseboots
Betty :
I literally made 10 scripts in my head about the guy I told I wasn’t ready to be in a relationship he already moved on with no evidence. 🤦‍♀
2025-10-25 13:08:41
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jezebelsdiary.yt
Ivy :
Thank you for these videos, Rachel. They are truly insightful, i’m trying to ‘heal’ what was instilled in me from early childhood on and you have really helped me. Much love.
2026-01-05 22:16:45
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cheddar.wood
intersmellar :
are you one of Amanda Lehan-Canto's sisters
2025-11-28 18:54:57
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elise_mxo89
elise_mxo89 :
So ugh what do we do as the person in love with this FA and we are being pushed and pulled.. I let him have space but then he randomly blows up the cycle is crazy
2025-10-24 15:30:39
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feisty.raccoon
trashedpanda🇨🇦 :
we got super close and had a very vulnerable conversation, he went silent for 2 weeks before telling me he thinks we know each other enough for now. what do I do? we clearly really like each other 😔
2025-10-23 21:24:26
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livthatw
ٓ :
☹️☹️☹️that's really on spot
2026-01-19 20:37:16
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naomic677
Cardinal :
how do I heal and nove forward after my fearful avoidant just asked gor me to end things but I gave a self respecting respond and calling him out for his manipulative behavior and his mind was already ready to leave me
2025-11-23 21:47:53
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lavenderbloom70
LavenderBloom ♏️ ❌ :
He sounded like he was done during this last discard. He ran after a trip to Europe and talking about marriage. It's been 6 months but had one last talk recently. I am at a loss as to what to do from here.
2025-12-21 20:41:53
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madisaidso
madisaidso :
I’ll one up this… one of my dads common sayings growing up “the person who cares the least in the relationship has the most control”… why are you telling me this when I’m 11? I don’t know. But it stuck. Thanks 😅
2025-11-01 19:48:40
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