“I don’t know what i want, i don’t know what that looks like” is where I’ve been the last two months 💔 he is learning and changing in therapy this month, but is ready to reconnect and I’m still processing and deciding..
2025-10-24 04:45:34
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McKenzie :
I love your channel! You say it differently than the usual content!
2025-10-23 20:46:29
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Jaimebeth :
When I think about repair I feel like it will never work- I’ve tried did so many years to express my frustrations and needs and nothing has changed. I have a lot of resentment and I’m not sure that is repairable.
2025-10-24 01:31:13
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kristinajhunter :
Is it possible that BOTH partners feel that they are the inner circle of the top level? Where both partners feel enmeshed by the other and that they are both warping their own emotions and behaviors around the other. Example - both people pleasers. Vs just one partner feeling engulfed.
2025-10-24 06:28:44
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canpakes :
I like to think of myself as the non-judgmental observer while in the detachment phase. In true detachment I am not emotionally triggered; I am safe and protected by the space between us, therefore I can watch and take notes instead of managing reactions.
2025-10-25 11:54:35
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Amanda :
I’m in this space now. We’ve been separated for 3 months while he works the aa program. Nothing has changed so the detachment has been what I’ve been fully focused on. And now I’m like… I’m not sure I want to move forward.
2025-10-24 01:44:29
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RoZena | The Belief Trainer :
I thought of you earlier and you showed up on my fyp 😂🫶🏾🫶🏾 needed this video btw. Thank you for all that you do
2025-10-25 02:22:27
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DrMonad :
Yeah. That’s a big shift for me. Vulnerability feels conceptually like a sharing—an opening up. But you’re absolutely right. It’s only vulnerable if you are receiving the other person’s perspective on those parts of you.
2025-10-23 21:25:29
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Abby :
Love yourself more than you love them. be honest and okay in the gray
2025-10-23 23:12:06
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Mili96 :
Kate out of 25 y abusive marriage in April (still youngish kids) I may not date till they are adults but when I do how do I set it up like this from the beginning?
2025-10-24 02:06:52
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Jeanette I - CSR :
Thank you for speaking on this 💯
2025-10-24 18:10:28
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samwise_i_am :
I just left a comment on this very topic on another of your videos! The algorithm is algorithming tonight. I’m gonna bookmark this and listen to it again. And again.
2025-10-24 05:22:12
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giorgospapaposto0 :
After a long separation, I realized how much I love my wife. Thanks to a spiritual practitioner, I was able to reconnect with her. I’m so grateful.@Dr. Agumba'
2025-10-25 13:18:24
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McKenzie :
I appreciate the point that “a lot of vulnerability is *Receiving
2025-10-23 20:47:01
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