Another one that’s so weaponized is “be the bigger person” 🙄
2025-10-29 12:18:42
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Asanthi G :
Totally agree. I've been grappling with this for the longest time and been telling all my friends that I don't need to forgive a narc abuser. It never felt right.
2025-11-09 02:54:31
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Skiball_953 :
Great video. 100% agree. All you are doing is invalidating your feelings.
2025-11-19 05:47:00
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Lolitsallrelative :
Acceptance....that is hard, but you're so right, it is a decision.
Love your work Trish!!❤️
2025-12-29 14:25:25
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Clifford D :
I have accepted that I’ll never forgive what they’ve done.
2025-12-16 22:58:26
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Lovingwins 🇨🇦 :
Ouuu, that hurt a little, but I needed to hear this. Thanks, signed your new spiritual friend 🤣
2025-12-30 14:01:56
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mlada.baba :
finally someone said this ❤ i will never forgive them for what they did to me but I dont think about them any more.
2026-01-04 14:47:43
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mayuma_curbelo :
Thank you so much , I love your videos and it’s helping me on my next steps ❤️
2025-12-29 23:52:04
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Katrina | Wellness 40+ :
Healing is to forgive yourself before forgiving others, accept yourself as you are.
2025-12-16 14:33:18
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✨Kaylyn 🌷 :
I needed to hear this 🫶🏼
2025-12-29 05:54:54
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Robert Debison :
Acceptance is the path to healing
its extremely hard but necessary
i know now that not everyone has the same heart as me and same capacity to Love like I do
2025-12-21 12:51:44
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Savage Stylist :
First of all love this video… I work at a psych ward… I’m 12 years clean and sober so I’ve done the work on myself and yes, this whole… forgiveness thing… Oh my goodness, but you had me at all the way to the river that book puts us all in the same pool. Thank you for this video.🎁
2025-10-25 13:00:31
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Sarah Bannon :
I will Never Forgive 🙏
2025-12-30 10:42:28
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Yvonne Hoey :
I can not forgive
2026-01-04 14:33:24
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Amanda :
Beautifully said, got to feel it to heal it ❤
2025-11-09 12:28:41
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KarmaChakraIntuitive :
Love your straight up ness it’s vital to healing ❤
2025-10-25 17:07:37
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Yvonne Hoey :
Going through that now
2026-01-04 14:30:27
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Yvonne Hoey :
Totally Agree.💯
2026-01-04 14:27:16
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AnMaR :
It’s a back door for a retry the tray
2025-12-25 20:49:20
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ciperez :
THANK YOU TRISH!! PLEASE NEVER DELETE THIS POST, the world needs to hear your wisdom…after 15 years of trying to “force” forgiveness I finally realized that “acceptance” and a different “emotional response” is the key to healing. You made a HUGE impact on one human being, love you! ❤️❤️
2026-02-04 14:48:35
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Ania :
I’m having an aha moment right now. It’s all about acceptance, embracing who you are and everything you feel. So peaceful!
2025-10-24 21:01:58
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KK- LIVE HOST 💃 :
I used to think that forgiveness was necessary to move forward…but maybe not. It’s not forgiveness if u still have a resentment…it’s dishonesty to one’s self.
2025-10-25 00:27:39
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Nina :
PREACH!!! this is absolutely TRUE. When they no longer cause any reaction, that’s when you’ve healed. Have you forgiven? Maybe not. But you aren’t affected and that’s your freedom.
2025-10-25 03:34:17
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Amy :
Fuuuuuuuuck… THANK you. That makes so much sense and feels so good. ♥
2025-10-25 03:02:46
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🤍Noelle🤍 :
I love your vocabulary. It sounds like mine. 😬😘
2025-10-24 21:41:36
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Miriam Rachel 🇨🇦 :
Indifference is it, not forgiveness. I don’t forgive I just stop caring 🤷♀
2025-10-25 01:45:05
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Ania :
So true and incredibly refreshing. It takes away all the guilt. Thank you !
2025-10-24 20:53:35
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lisatufano :
"SPIRITUAL BOTOX AND YOU'VE SHOVED IT RIGHT UP THE @$$ OF YOUR OWN RESENTMENT" 😂😂😂 YAAAASSSS!!!!
2025-10-25 00:34:56
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Jennifer Jopling :
“I’m done arguing with it” 💕. I’ve said I wish forgiveness was a feeling like stubbing a toe or crying. Wishing that if you thought or said “I forgive you” there was a feeling like a release. Instead they are just words and we carry on. Your perspective makes so much sense for me right now. I’m carrying a huge weight of having to forgive but I need to focus on healing.
2025-10-25 12:01:33
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Joy Page :
I like the way you put that. Forgiveness is the receipt from healing. I am in it and it takes work every single day. It’s so worth it.
2025-10-25 01:36:44
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hello_everyone_hello2 :
Can you forgive and still have boundaries. Meaning that trigger ignites a nah, not here for that.
2025-10-25 01:17:05
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🌸Kathy🌸 :
Amen 🙌🙌
2025-10-27 15:42:05
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lαmα 🕊️ :
You are Great 100% right ♥✨
2025-10-24 23:49:44
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WordGirl 🇨🇦 :
I’m not forgiving anyone and I’m really tired of the superiority of those placard carrying advocates who think they have ascended to a higher level of being when in truth they have just discounted their own experiences and subjugated their own feelings.
2025-10-25 19:48:53
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Maz :
I won’t forgive my parents for abuse that still continues. They’re still dangerous! I’ve removed myself and will have nothing to do with them again. And I’m okay with that.
2025-10-25 10:54:43
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hi, i'm Carlos. 🇨🇦 :
I’m glad we had this convo too 🙏🏻
2025-10-25 12:23:15
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Lighthouse-discovery :
Awesome awesome message!!❤️
2025-11-18 11:36:57
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Eleanore :
Thank you thank you thank you thank you! I've been hit over the head for not being able to forgive my abuser. I'm at a place in my healing journey where I can move on and accept it, and I feel at peace with how I can alchemise it.
2025-10-25 13:06:26
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Ceri James :
👏🏻 it took me YEARS to figure this out … feeling I had to forgive was TOXIC! When I found my way to acceptance … there was a calm within my body … and eventually, quite some time later, the forgiveness came. But, I so needed permission from the outside world to say I didn’t ‘have’ to forgive to heal … and sadly, I never got that. I had to go my own route and trust in my body and what felt right - I chose not to forgive but still accept and close the situation in my head. amen to you, for sharing your truth! (I am spiritual … my business is spiritual … but, I don’t advocate bypassing our healing, our truth or our emotions AT ALL)
2025-11-01 07:44:29
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Snowana777 :
Thank you for this, I’m glad I saw this video today.
2025-10-25 07:24:13
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user09492736968 :
I have to agree with you. I’ve never felt right about firgiveness in my spiritual walk. It so is just a religious ritual. It’s never sat right with me.
2025-10-26 11:59:43
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Jamie_Michealle🇨🇦 :
Thank you, I have felt this way for almost a decade. I have to fight for my right to be in acceptance with people who think they have the right to judge my experience. I actually fear forgiveness, in the way it might allow me to forget and I would allow myself to let the abusers back in.
2025-10-26 11:57:26
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ᨰׁׅꪱׁׅᥣׁׅ֪ժׁׅ݊ :
I will not ever forgive anyway. They dont deserve it. They never asked for it. Im healed and at peace.
2025-12-02 08:51:46
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lee :
Thankyou. This helps me understand I’m getting there .😇
2025-10-25 03:36:59
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Linder :
it was such an eye-opening session today! This sums up so much! ❤
2025-10-24 21:37:53
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JayzyD :
😂😂 Love ➡️”Shoved right up the ass of resentment” I think it’s rarely done genuinely, and superficial & pretension the majority of the time. I know I’ve overcome when I stop seething & the open wound has eased.
2025-10-24 21:14:24
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Douglas Medlock♏️❌ :
Wow! Once I truly understood what you were saying, you’re right! The receipt of healing is forgiveness. Powerful!
2025-10-30 21:47:12
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ladyliberty002 :
Hello Mam how can I get a personal meeting with you I need help 🙏 I don’t know why I fine it so hard to forgive people please 🙏 talk to me please 🙏
2025-10-25 02:30:20
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TaniaLaCariaStudio🩵 :
This was so empowering. Thank you, what a gift this message is. 🖤
2025-10-26 00:15:47
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oliver :
I love that you curse and throw shade. It makes you real. It brings about how allowing yourself to be totally honest and flawed and connected to your emotion is the most spiritual thing you could do. Compared to this ”attempt to be above” you’re addressing.
2025-10-25 17:44:35
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✝️ Amber R ✝️ :
Thank you so much for this!!!! 🙏🎉💜
2025-10-24 23:28:40
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Mina :
I totally agree
2025-10-25 00:18:32
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Beverley Bradley :
I don't forgive my ex, I doubt I ever will. I've done 6 months of therapy and coaching....
2025-10-30 07:10:22
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GiGi :
Boom!…Another powerful truth!!…💝
2025-10-25 00:23:54
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HIsurfAdvisory :
Healing through Acceptance- i cannot wait for the byproduct experience
2025-10-25 00:23:43
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J Austin :
If I may use the quote which sums things up so beautiful and understanding of what it means is from Dostoevsky’s “after such forgiveness then what“ do you even need to forgive? Or be forgiven if you understand what you did and you’ve done some work, you can try and forgive yourself. And vice versa. However, much easier said than done.
2025-11-06 19:29:16
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Pontus Värld :
Weaponize… Like narcissists that ”require forgiviness” in order to lay down an argument.
2025-11-07 10:06:45
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paulrubino3 :
I freaking love this. This is awesome and much needed. 💯💯💯
2025-11-07 18:02:08
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LeviCan'tBeBoxed :
GOD I LOVE YOU TRISH LAW!!YOU'RE THE TRUTH.❤
2025-11-01 23:02:29
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Amber :
I absolutely adore u and ur teachings. Thank u for being u✨
2025-11-12 02:09:53
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COMFORT ZONE :
🥰🥰🥰
2025-11-11 14:50:58
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ליאת גולן :
😁😁😁
2025-11-08 06:48:09
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Greg :
Your content speaks volumes
2025-11-10 21:46:39
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cseace1975 :
of course!!!
2025-11-08 16:07:53
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Sage88 :
Thanks for this message I love it .. it makes so much sense. ❤️❤️❤️
2025-11-10 14:58:21
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