@mamaa.casss: Should I help her? I don’t wanna be hurt or drag my kids through it but also my brother is in her care and it seems like she has the recourses to help herself how. I’m so conflicted. Watching your loved ones go through addiction is hard and knowing when to help them and when not to is also hard. 😭 #viralvideo #momtok #addiction #addictionrecovery #fyp
1/2 I am a recovering addict myself and I will say as much as it hurt me my parents cutting me off was what helped me get my ish together. BUT I also could not have done it without my parents help. I think as long as she is taking the first steps and putting initiative in…
2025-10-26 15:18:21
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Nautica|| Mama 🩷🎀👣 :
Protect yourself Cassy. Help from a distance. Get her some food. & take care of your brother ofc. Don’t give her money, anything you buy DO YOURSELF. If you want to pay for power etc do it yourself don’t give her money directly.
2025-10-25 15:25:45
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Megan :
I feel so bad for baby brother, how is it they took away other kids from her and leave him with someone who’s clearly not able to provide a safe home!? I’m so sorry 😫
2025-10-25 23:33:33
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Heather | SAHM 🎀 :
Help from an arms length away, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. But also, like you said, you can only do so much for someone who refuses to make the steps for themselves. Don’t let her take advantage of you.
2025-10-27 17:37:54
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Nicole :
I think the best thing to do is drop off Food. Make sure your little brother is clean and fed and safe. I never give money or anything that can be returned for money.
2025-10-26 00:17:23
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Jojo Baby :
Help your brother! Are you able to take him. I feel bad for his situation
2025-10-26 01:41:12
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jacqueline09151 :
I would still help your brother don’t confuse helping your mom with helping your brother he’s just a baby and doesn’t deserve to struggle cause of his mom
2025-10-27 05:07:26
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bruh2boys :
Help your brother first… I’m so sad he’s hungry 🥺🥺
2025-10-27 03:43:41
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Nash :
I resonate with you - I’ve gone through the exact same thing - don’t go full force with helping right away, gradually show your support - although help the baby as much as possible because it’s not his fault
2025-10-27 11:41:44
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Sarah :
Protect yourself, but if she’s ready, she does need support and don’t be afraid to randomly drug tester if you have to and tell her if she wants your help, those are the rules she has to follow because you have a little brother you have to think about it takes a lot to admit that you’re readyAddiction is very hard.
2025-10-29 19:13:09
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Mattison Hardin :
Yes you can help her but keep a tight leash so she don’t burn u again your a good woman
2025-10-26 00:15:54
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Jessica Valentin537 :
Yes girl help her stay positive pray fast and ask God what to put in your heart ! Praying for you! Following you 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
2025-10-26 04:20:30
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🐢 :
it sounds like shes trying to do her part. I have a close family member who was an addict for many many years, ive gone to the ends of the earth for her so many time for it to be BS. the last time I picked her up off the street was a little over a year ago, today shes thriving, working, and living on her own. they can change.
2025-10-26 21:24:59
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Haley :
Protect yourself, do what you feel comfortable doing. I’ll be praying for them and you.
2025-10-25 22:09:54
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nicolecoy800 :
Addiction is tough and sadly an addict will say anything, they will say whatever you want to hear. I work at an opioid addiction clinic, I see it everyday. That being said if she's clean like she's saying yes I would try one last time to help her. You can not stick around and let her bamboozle you. Every addict does need support. If she's not in counseling I highly recommend it, also NA or AA meetings.
2025-10-27 10:38:49
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cadance | Girl mama :
With my mom is the same and I finally gave her one last chance and it’s been amazing since!
2025-10-25 13:58:32
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The one and only TC :
Help her but with caution do not give her straight money
2025-10-27 11:12:38
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Mickala Carver :
My dad died from his addiction two years ago. I’d give anything in the world to have him ask me for help again.
2025-10-27 00:08:26
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Alyciaaa♡ :
make this the absolute last time to help , if same thing happens again. cut of all ties for your sake. but atleast you gave it one last shot. you TRIED
2025-10-26 19:40:29
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DJ❌ :
I would always have to help.
2025-10-27 10:24:15
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Usario_yos_ma :
Help her. 🥺 I’d tell her I’d help her and your brother ONLY. If her br comes back in the picture you won’t help anymore. Don’t tell your kids anything until atleast 6 months or depends how you feel/see your mom is doing.
2025-10-27 12:34:20
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Misty :
I completely understand the fear you may have of your moms storm getting your family wet !!! There is always a fine line between helping and enabling And I feel like you got a huge heart for helping People will make all kinds of comments without truly knowing what the situation is please don’t let them get to you
2025-10-27 00:58:48
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tracibrazil68 :
you do, what you can live with. a great book on Amazon. I've lived this & this book is great
2025-10-27 02:19:24
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Boymamax3 :
Girl I am currently going through this! I just got my dad and this is like the 500th time of trying to help and so far we have made it further than ever before!
2025-10-25 14:19:03
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