@ask_julia: The way a man handles conflict tells you everything about how safe you’ll feel in love. Anyone can be charming when things are easy, real character shows when run high. Don’t mistake romance for respect. 💅 #AskJulia #women #datingadviceforwomen #highvaluewoman #selfworth
Not only punishment, but if he walk way, procrastinate difficult conversations ou refuse to take accountability for actions in conflict, he’s not a good partner. He’s not mature enough. You won’t fell safe with that man, better walk away from him
2025-10-27 17:25:13
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𝔎𝔦𝔱𝔱𝔶 𝔎𝔞𝔱 :
yep, he punishes me every time he's uncomfortable
2025-10-27 17:29:39
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njk :
Explodes without reason or explanation. Insults, name calls, false accusations, mocks, patronises, intimidates, gaslights, guilt trips, silent treatment and if I don't submit after all that he uses physical aggression
2025-11-07 21:52:30
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🎀 NINI 🎀 :
He just apologizes, doesn’t matter who’s wrong. Man doesn’t like conflict 🤦🏽♀️
2025-11-07 08:38:34
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lifeofroxieheart :
Is it silly of me to believe when he says he can change?
2025-11-09 07:20:04
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BarryForBreakfast :
This applies vice versa too right ? How a woman treats you during an argument ?
2025-11-06 02:42:47
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ddayana.k 🇱🇧 :
He threw me out the car and said it was ok bc I crashed out
2025-11-07 09:45:13
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2.0hmylife :
Exactly that's shows the real them.
2025-10-27 02:27:12
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Kate :
This is such an important thing to understand. Conflict shows their true side, and you should believe it.
2025-10-27 21:36:22
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Aligann🇬🇧 :
Silence that’s what I get , walking away
2025-11-25 18:38:17
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Pam_8301 :
Married to a narcissist who always thinks his right and believes he has power over me
2025-11-09 08:03:06
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VivianKhor :
No he screams n yells n rages .. cannot hear what I say, no validation, it is speaking to a wall.. he needs u to follow his ways..love control n no responsibility
2025-11-07 17:49:43
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Ellie :
He becomes such a victim
2025-10-29 02:04:43
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cutest thing 😍 :
his so gentle each time we have a fight.i am more the silent one in conflict.but then again I feel like there is no intentionality in the relationship each time I ask for clarity he deflects then I end up crashing out.i feel like his a nice guy but just not a good partner .
2025-10-25 16:46:45
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Samantha | Savage Wisdom :
How you treat your partner when times of chaos is more important ✨🔥
2025-10-27 15:26:18
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The light 93 :
what if he is a taurus🤣
2025-10-28 14:36:28
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geovannyx :
his fyp, not mine
2025-11-12 07:22:07
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Jess| Unfiltered Midlife❌🗝️ :
Yes, this is so true. And you need to learn this early on because he will not change once you let him get away with it in the beginning.
2025-10-27 21:13:03
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xmari.wgrx :
He tell me he is going to “lose it” when he thinks I’m sulking because I asked for more time with him and he made excuses to not see me
2025-11-07 19:01:53
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tc2674 :
He doesn’t even do the easy part
2025-11-19 12:11:41
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diana faith 🦋 :
Conflict tells me everything about a man and his emotional maturity.
2026-01-19 01:34:24
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Shopping addiction :
Yes maam
2026-01-03 01:29:12
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Rebecca Boerstal :
Iknow I’ve learned it now 💀
2025-12-11 18:31:26
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Rokorri :
i'm afraid my man is good and i'm the bad one in conflict, i tend to react on emotions a lot and avoid healthy conversation until my emotions settle :/ anyone know how i can work on it ? it's genuinely a struggle
2025-11-11 02:09:43
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jen@rose :
how to deal with him if his angry then offer break and within 5days his back again like nothing happen
2025-11-19 09:59:54
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