@lorimoulton17: Subtle Abuse by the Narcissist- Redoing your household chores when they never participate otherwise

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iiastral_owl
Jayden :
My nan does this but she's not a narcissist in any way, she just has OCD
2025-10-28 06:09:33
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baddiemom4u
tgif8585 :
Treating you like you’re incompetent or can’t ever do anything right. Nothing is ever good enough for them. They can’t appreciate the hard work you put in while they do nothing. Changing the goal post.
2025-10-27 02:39:21
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teresatrixielynntracy
Tracy :
Biggest pet peeve my ex husband would refold what did so now I do it the way I want
2025-10-27 17:57:59
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penfold_123
Whatdiddaniellesteal :
Is that narcissistic now? To like (or need) things a certain way? Neurodivergent people especially struggle with having things done ‘the right way.’
2025-10-28 08:59:00
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paranormal_soldier
paranormal 🪖 soldier :
My mom does this 💀 - if she wants to create extra work for herself, by all means, go right ahead. 😂
2025-10-27 12:05:45
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justshell7
shell :
"Great! Since you're so good at it, that's your job from now on"
2025-10-27 16:56:04
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rositsa.prokopieva
rositsa.prokopieva :
Ok I am genuinely curious. So I do re-fold my fiancés clothes sometimes and re-order his wardrobe when it gets messy. But I don’t tell him that he is going something wrong. I just like order and he has asked me one why i re-fold and I said that I think I am on the spectrum. Because it does matter to me how they are fold and if they are ordered, but I don’t expect that of him. We have divided our house tasks so I take care of this. Am I narcissistic for this. Is it the putting them down part that is narcissistic?
2025-10-27 08:07:07
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zoeeyx.x
ᶻ 𝘇 𐰁ºë :
This is a close one with weaponized incompetence where the partner intentionally does something really sloppy to get out of the task and you will have to redo it properly
2025-10-27 16:25:13
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franklyfina
Fina | 🤍 :
Tbh my husband “folds” our daughters clothes and then piles and shoves them into her drawers bc “they won’t fit” except they do fit if he would just fold them properly 🤷🏽‍♀️I get that people do things differently and sometimes that’s ok, but when there is a clearly correct way to do things and you haven’t bothered to learn how, it results in others having to come in and correct what you’ve done.
2025-10-27 21:16:00
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sair4321
Sarah 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 :
i dunno on this one, i feel like its more purposly folding sloppy so yiu have to go re do it and then you look like the one with the issue
2025-10-27 19:47:08
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shayla_433
ShakeItUp :
This is a lot of things. Not narcissism.
2025-10-28 00:31:17
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pamskiiy
Pamski :
omg I'm so glad you did this video! i spent so many years hearing this type of stuff!!!
2025-10-27 03:39:29
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alyssaverrett
Alyssa :
You’re not snapping it loud enough!
2025-10-27 02:31:25
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kirbmeister
nos3um :
OOOOOHH MY GOD “bc you didnt fold it the way mom did” … i worked at macy’s and mens wearhouse 😭😭😭
2025-10-27 06:38:34
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jonathanduler
Goat Press :
I’m like this when my clothes are folded wrong, but only after I’ve repeated 3 times to not bother folding them for me, just dump them on my side of the bed and I’ll do it.
2025-10-27 02:50:34
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user1786762714605
user1786762714605 :
Oh, I see you've met my mom 😮‍💨
2025-10-27 02:44:31
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misssusiesticks
MissSusieSticks 🪡 :
I refold sometimes after my husband folds because he leaves the kids clothes inside out and it's easier to put them on the children when they are the right way around. Am I a narcissist? if I saw a video about weaponised incompetence it would look like that too 🤦🏼‍♀
2025-10-27 17:09:29
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lakegirl403
Lakegirl :
and you can fold everything from now on
2025-10-27 02:19:54
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colourinthecorners
Colour in the Corners :
I don’t think this is always narcissistic. Sometimes it’s particular. My partner is particular about laundry and the dishwasher, so he handles those things. I do other things.
2025-10-28 08:53:55
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patticonover
Lady willow :
Yea I’ll do mine. You do yours.
2025-10-27 13:28:20
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jamie.kowalski
Jamie Kowalski :
Had this convo almost to the word, hard to fit in perfection on folding when you are doing everything else in the house.
2025-10-27 02:22:26
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sami.lee01
Samantha Lee :
apparently in our house, we have a magical dryer, where only, ONLY, his clothes shrink in the dryer. Not mine, not our 2 children's, just his. It's a very clever dryer and knows to only shrink his.
2025-10-27 05:33:36
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crzychknlady612
crzychknlady612 :
The last time- he showed me how to clean the sink. And clean out the drain. He made sure to tell me every step. Every step he never does.
2025-10-27 12:40:42
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thegraydandelion
Thegraydandelion❌ :
My dad used to do this to me with the dishes. To this day at 50 years old I hate doing the dishes.
2025-10-27 05:42:08
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