@jessicathoday: Gender disappointment is real.. and it’s ok 🫶 #genderreveal #boyorgirl #pregnancy #boymum #baby2

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the_random_dee
Dee :
It's also perfectly normal to experience gender disappointed!!! it doesn't mean you'll love your baby any less, it just means there's a part of you who has to let go of the idea of a girl!! That's tough and very normal 🩷🩷
2025-10-27 06:43:45
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kathstephens170
Kath Stephens🌻🌞 :
it's a natural human experience. and if anyone says different they are lying. no matter what at the end of the day we love the baby no matter what but we just had a dream of what could have been...
2025-10-27 06:45:24
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kirarj4
Kira :
I think struggling with infertility helped me bypass gender disappointment. Now I'm blessed with 5 month old twin boy♥
2025-10-27 10:25:04
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chloe_graceful
Chloe_Grace :
Just curious what made you feel disappointed?
2025-10-27 13:09:32
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alexandriareeve0
Alex Anxiety 🤷‍♀️ :
I had a therapy appointment lined up in case I found out the gender of our baby that I didn’t want. I got my girl, so I texted “Cancel my appointment, we are good”. I knew what would happen if I had gender disappointment so I had help lined up. It’s real, and you shouldn’t feel ashamed at all. If anyone tells you, “You should Just be happy it’s healthy” like yes Karen, I am, but I am
2025-10-27 10:50:59
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netherworldqueen
NetherworldQueen :
beautiful family 🖤
2026-08-28 03:52:02
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imy.lucy
imy Lucy :
I was hoping for a boy first got my daughter was gender disappointed but never will I not love her any less ❤️it's such a real feeling
2025-10-27 08:23:57
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yourworththetime
yourworththetime :
This is the nicest gender disappointment video I’ve ever seen 👏
2025-10-28 15:20:50
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lkswanson92
Lauren92 :
Gender disappointment is perfectly fine, I had two boys then went to my private gender scan for my 3rd.. ended up being another boy I burst into tears in the room and the whole way home. I wanted a girl badly! But I wouldn’t change my amazing 3rd boy for the world he’s now 9 and is perfect ! I was just meant to be a boy mum 💙
2025-10-27 12:18:29
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chaosinwaiting
NotADoctor🦆 :
I always wanted 2 boys, my partners family had only boys for 3 GENERATIONS, thought I was set! nope, had the first girl in 67 years. her sister 2 years after
2025-10-27 08:01:40
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rissypratt
Larissa :
Those two boys will have the most special bond 💙💙
2025-10-27 07:38:33
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nissa_rae
Nissa :
Raising brothers is so special. A little hectic….sometimes dangerous but so so special 🥹🩵
2025-10-27 07:25:03
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vi78910
vi78910 :
Just think about all the women who can’t have children. A baby is a baby, the only thing you should worry about is if the baby is healthy.
2025-10-27 13:15:37
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pregnancy_to_loss
Beaus Mama :
I just found out im pregnant with our second boy . Before we had our first we suffered years of infertility and loss, never in a million years did i think i would have gender disappointment but it hit me! I cried ! Not because i wasn't so grateful and in love with my little boys but part of me is grieving that little girl i dreamed of and because this is our last baby i never expected these emotions and that's okay 💙 being a boy mum will be the best xx
2025-10-27 08:25:11
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mumtothemaxx
MumToTheMaxx :
Im a Mum of two boys and as much as your feelings are completely valid, there is something so so special about watching two little boys grow up together and become best buds. Their bond is unbreakable and it is pure chaos but in the most fun and adventurous way!
2025-10-27 08:31:01
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taliasamanthaa
Talia Samantha 💕 :
It's perfectly normal to feel disappointment. After finding out my 2nd was another little girl, I cried. I cried and was disappointed for all the things I would miss out on experiencing having a son, not the fact that baby was a girl. Its ok to mourn the life you had envisioned while being excited for the one thats happening.
2025-10-27 08:19:41
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kymberleebeth_
kymberleebeth_ :
I cried all the way home from the ultrasound appointment with my second son. I really wanted a little girl so badly and we only wanted to have two. They are 4 & 7 now and the bond they have is so special. I love having two boys more than anything but I get the disappointment too. Congratulations beautiful Mumma 💙💙
2025-10-27 08:14:07
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monica.angelina10
monica angelina :
Boys are the best !!!
2025-10-27 11:30:18
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christinephilippa
Christine Philippa :
Can completely relate ❤
2025-10-27 08:07:23
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_rae.ann_
rae of what sunshine 🌧️ :
As long as you love the child regardless of their gender, and treat them as you would any child you have, thats all that matters. So long as you don't treat them horribly because they weren't born the gender you wanted.
2025-11-01 00:50:25
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amandajane71089
amanduhhhh 🌞 :
I hate 2 boys & it’s honestly the best
2025-10-27 07:52:49
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yourfavalaria
alariaaaa! :
earlyy!! congratulations 💕
2025-10-27 06:44:37
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taylahhcrockett
Taylah Crockett :
I always dreamed of having a little girl. I have 2 boys 3 years apart (nearly 3 & 6) I don’t know if the feeling will ever go away. My boys have the most incredible bond that I’m so grateful for, seeing them together makes me so happy and so glad they have eachother for life! 🩵
2025-10-27 10:18:27
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sienna_main61
𝓢🤍 :
Early can I get a hi and so happy for you x
2025-10-27 06:42:24
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sophietoneguzzi
Sophie 🖤 :
oh dw I had it, our first was a girl, I then got pregnant with our son but we lost him... I then went on to have another girl then a surprise pregnancy I was sure was going to be a boy, we now have 3 girls, who I absolutely adore & love but definitely had gender disappointment. I get it x
2025-10-27 21:17:18
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