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𝑁𝑜𝑛𝑡𝑜 ❀ :

Ok so how do I fix it Katerina?

Mystical🧚🏾🍄 :

Damn!That hit a nerve ngl!

Serge :

self-abandonment final boss

cousinlighterfluid :

I just threw my phone and screamed “shut up” because how dare you on MY phone?? 😭😭

ildikó :

no one values me lol 💔 i'm so ignored, left out, no one ever reaches out first, matter of fact, people chose to dislike me before even meeting me. i just don't know for how long anymore...💔

Nesne :

I feel like this is a big sign of someone that has trauma. They always try to prove they’re lovable to people that don’t and never will love them the way they deserve. It’s like it’s a way of affirming their self shame. It’s a shame cycle.

AtlasKaizen :

… wait.

salman :

so how I fix dis

👸🏻 :

I value myself a lot but it still hurts and bugs me when people don’t

ᴇʟʟᴀ 🧸🤎 :

Thanks for this video

ela🇨🇩🇵🇸🇭🇹 :

and those of us who value you will seem unnatural, perhaps even untrustworthy to you. Because we're adjudicating more value to you that you believe you have.

Faith Kisa :

The way I have lost interest in everyone except the ones who show me they value me I’m so proud tbh

✨8WEEZY✨ :

I’m unlearning this… ugggggh, hate this.

AlphaElyshian :

myrsjohrs :

yeap! self respect is the foundation for EVERYTHING in life

Yerba.Negra :

Hey so why are you yelling at me???

Artemis :

T H I S!!!! This is more profound than many can comprehend. People spend their entire lives trying to escape this conundrum.

maya :

medusa_D1 :

This is actually true. I am so happy I am over this behaviour. You don’t realise that you’re doing it, you just think you’re being a “good person” who is actively trying to prove it. No more

Dana :

I also really don’t like people who “value” me thats bad tooi guess

aleeeeesssaa :

Spot on.

kevin :

what if you do the opposite

kat :

this just cleared everything up thanks queen 🫡

FRED :

Had this realization to myself on my morning walk and this vid came at the right time 😭 def something to work on after growing up seeking for validation and approval from family, so im having to actively work on this w my relationship to work + dating aaaaah

Mahmoud | Cultural Critic :

On the opposite side of this is when i continuously value myself and honor it, the anxiety and fear from disappointing others doesn’t overwhelm me much anymore 💕