Boomer narc moms are the absolute worst abusers of their daughters. Their misogyny is a catch 22 along with the expectation they parent perfectly (which will cause them to groom their daughters to attain the male gaze and validation, but then immediately trigger their shame and jealousy the minute the daughter starts to gain the male gaze, and male validation). My mother's abuse was literally supercharged when I became a teenager, and she saw me as a grown woman competing with her in her house.
2025-10-29 06:55:45
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christy_813 :
Same! My mom would say to my sister and I all the time “I never wanted daughters”. She treated my brother like a king and savior of the family. And then would act like she was bffs with my sis and I for the public, while also refusing to raise us and be our mother. My sister raised me and taught me all the things a mother should.
2025-10-27 21:44:27
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𝕣𝕒𝕖 :
my mom is 72 and i’m 28 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
2025-10-29 16:10:40
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Hilarie :
My mom was anorexic through most of my childhood. That was all that generation of women had to achieve, being as thin & petite as possible. Here I come, a 5'8" in 5th grade, meduim/large size build girl with size 11 feet 😂 I tortured her unknowingly with my tomboyish antics. I was a mirror to everything she disliked about herself. I love my body now, but there were some very dark times
2025-10-28 17:42:59
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Sadie Zombie :
She fought the child who saw through her charade from the very beginning
2025-11-21 15:27:39
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myfamily.is.being_hunted :
I keep trying to tell people about generational gaps between child/parent. People act like having kids too young OR too old doesn’t affect the dynamic 🙄🙄🙄🙄
2025-10-27 23:51:58
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Andrea :
*nods knowingly in Irish-American with boomer mother*
2025-10-28 17:21:25
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Krissy 🧛♀️🌈 :
Elder Millennial with a boomer mom. Sadly, I can relate 🫂
2025-10-28 17:03:47
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Musiclvr74 :
Omg I had a boomer mom she had me in weight watchers at 12 years old
2025-10-29 06:08:04
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thisbearbites :
I have 4 brothers, only girl. The misogyny never stops.
2025-10-28 21:01:05
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not.elidas.aunt :
I hope in my next life I get to raise my mom, and love her like she deserved. I often thought about what a different person she might have been if her parents actually loved their children. "im still angry at my parents, for what their parents did to them "
2025-10-28 17:17:59
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Evatron :
“Life’s not fair” or my favorite “because I said so, because I AM YOUR MOTHER!”
2025-10-28 12:11:55
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🧜🏿♀️⛓️sirenthomas 🧜🏿♀️⛓️ :
don't get me started on if you're more girly than them
2025-10-28 19:30:46
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alazysunday :
My mom was also 38 when I was born. I’m now 37 with no kids 🙂. I relate. I relate. I relate.
2025-11-04 04:42:57
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KatieCat 🆘 🇺🇸 :
Omg I’ve struggled with a lot of the same stuff too! My boomer mom also had me at 38 & I have an older brother 🙃 I was largely ignored except for when I was being criticized.
2025-10-28 15:27:40
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HoochieMonk :
Damn we had the pretty similar moms
2025-10-28 12:36:16
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Keara :
Same experience except my birth giver was hyper feminine, 98lb & 23yrs old. Being a tomboy was a no no and I did to hide my giant boobs. We were also lace curtain Irish so as long as everything appeared ok from the outside and we didn’t talk about it; whatever it was didn’t exist.
2025-10-28 13:06:55
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🧜🏿♀️⛓️sirenthomas 🧜🏿♀️⛓️ :
yup and she still does this ...crash out and she backs off for a lil bit DON'T CAREGIVE is my elder millennial advice also sis skincare routine I would've thought you were an elder gen z at most 🥰
2025-10-28 19:24:38
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KittyKat :
Yep. It’s wild.
2025-10-28 04:38:43
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Natalie 🌸 :
My boomer mother had me at 23 but it still didn’t save me from being completely messed up…she fat shamed me, blamed me for my illnesses, never told me about periods or bought tampons ….that generation of women had daughters just to hate and abuse them…
2025-12-25 04:14:47
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meghanweisenburge :
My mom also wanted me to be a beautiful feminine super popular homecoming queen without giving me a single tool or example of how to do so.
2025-12-17 20:59:49
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myrigotchi :
The whole patriarchy and internalized misogyny has so so much hurt all of us 😔😔😔 same with my mother. No contact with anyone in my family.
2025-12-10 05:14:14
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WhiteCheddar :
Hear, hear!! 🗣
2025-10-31 17:08:29
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🌠 :
wow same my mom was 39 when she had me, turned 40 when I was 3 months old. I'm an only child. I learned before puberty that if I tell my mom anything private it wouldn't stay private she would tell all her friends and they'd all make fun of me. she was my first bully. she would make fun of me for being scared in a normal child way, like being scared of the movie the Grudge when I was like 8.
2025-12-19 22:46:49
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supermommarket :
Thank you for sharing. My experience was similar. Especially with the blatant favoritism towards the bother.
2025-10-28 17:49:00
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