@thevalerieadams: This is what avoidant men will do when they ONLY want a situationship with you (and not a committed relationship) ⬇️ If you have a pattern of dating emotionally unavailable or avoidant men who just want a situationship… This is 100% something you can do the inner work around and heal so you can attract the relationship of your dreams! I’d love to support you inside of a 1:1 Coaching Session where we’ll help you create some shifts now to begin attracting secure, emotionally available men! ❤️ Go to my profile to book your 1:1 Session 📆🔗 . . . #situationship #redflags #dating #datingadvice #anxiousattachment
My boyfriend did all of this and now at 4 months we are official.
2025-10-28 16:54:47
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caroline :
Been there never again
2025-10-29 02:52:33
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Kat 🐱💕❌ :
Exactly my circumstance now. But, since he’s keeping me as an option, I’ll do the same.
2025-10-28 17:40:32
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TiffTok💫 :
Isn’t that the definition of an avoidant in general tho? They’re like this with everyone aren’t they?
2025-10-28 09:20:15
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Queenisback :
You pointed out all the things rightly.
2025-10-28 08:58:51
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iamthatcoral :
You KNOW when you’re wanted or an afterthought. If you are even thinking “what’s going on” RED FLAG. Don’t let yourself reason away these huge issues. Nope. “Go go gadget turbo boosters…I’m out”
2025-10-30 13:00:24
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user7573578437390 :
wasted 4.5 years😢
2025-10-30 02:27:52
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Lærke Thaysen :
Doesn't it also depend a little on when you ask these questions? If we take things slow, I would not assume they know yet - but what should the answer then be?
2025-10-28 11:58:21
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Chris :
Tick, Tick and Tick
2025-10-30 07:36:19
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xantha :
suddenly I can’t hear
2025-11-04 01:04:02
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galleryofrose_ :
Their always sooo busy and not “ready for a relationship “ but the with you is silent
2025-11-12 08:52:45
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dolly212x🦋 :
I miss him. But he’s gone
2025-10-28 17:42:06
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Honey 🍯 :
Everything will be so surface level
2025-10-31 00:10:44
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Nushkibaby :
What if he’s polyamorous?
2025-11-14 22:47:26
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Jess :
ESPECIALLY #2 when it comes to avoidants!!
2025-10-31 00:41:17
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Raquel Perez :
2 years … and still “I don’t know… I want to make sure you are the one”.
2025-10-30 02:05:21
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Mili :
He’s trying last minute with me but it never works, so we meet when it’s convenient for me. Also, they should never be asked to put a label on a relationship, that’s on us to decide. It’s what you allow, they either step up or step back.
2025-12-01 01:49:25
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tov4ijr3at5i :
who dis?
2025-10-29 09:24:53
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Sana :
The guy I spoke too. I only want marriage I don’t date just to date
2025-10-29 00:10:36
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Pats.629 :
These are not traits of an avoidant that just wants a Situationship. These are trades of an avoidant person altogether. I’m not telling anyone to stay if they’re not happy but even if they want a relationship with you, these are the things that they will do.
2025-12-10 04:20:46
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wrightagain25 :
The truth to this!!! 💯
2025-12-11 04:24:25
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Nicole :
You forgot to hold my hand before you told me this
2025-11-03 17:31:16
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Cheyenne Wadena :
Damn maybe I am also an avoidant man oh no
2025-10-30 02:33:26
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TaliaDivine :
awwwe okay so its me im the avoidant man got it
2025-12-16 05:58:16
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