@missclairebenjamin: Handling the colleague who pushes your buttons👇 There will be certain people and situations that you might notice really push your buttons/ trigger you. We become triggered when a person or situation reminds us of something from your past. Feeling disrespected by someone triggers everyone to a lesser or greater degree. People who have mastered emotional management and have taken time to explore their triggers can regulate in the moment and ensure they remain in control, NOT their emotions. Part of this mastery is depersonalising other people’s behaviour. Someone disrespected you is about them not you. The more you personalise it, the more triggered you will be. In situations where you feel like your emotions are taking hold I recommend taking space from the situation like I show in this video. 💬 Have you ever been in a situation like this? How did you handle it? Share in the comments. 📌 Please remember the advice offered in this video is generalised and will not fit every situation. Therefore, please use your own judgement when using this advice and adapt it to suit your situation. ➕ Follow Claire Benjamin for more strategies on navigating tricky work dynamics #worktips #leadershipdevelopment #emotionalintelligence #corporatelife #assertivecommunication #difficultconversations #conflictmanagement #boundaries
Can remember having an argument with one of my previous managers somewhat like this in a previous job. I can say I took the defensive approach at first and we had to discuss it another time. I had a lot of passion to explore projects further when I earned my first promotion from my first project. They said unfortunately Lee you can’t do everything, which I was not what I was expecting, I was trying to show an interest. Did feel we’d still have had the same problem if I showed no interest at all.
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Amosa :
Love this 👏👏👏
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phyllis :
you remind me of Anna from Downton Abbey!
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user8985081820524 :
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allshellsnobells624 :
😳😳😳
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PyroOZ2 :
Your so good at these. Nail the toxic boss every time.😁
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