@bet: Can a man really keep the family together and stay happy at the same time? Karlous Miller opens up about the sacrifices men make to hold the family down, even when it costs their own peace. The Fellas push back, saying women aren’t the only ones who need reassurance and words of affirmation. Watch a real, honest conversation of #ForTheFellas with Karlous Miller, Ollie Sutherland, Mendeecees, and Brian McIntosh on @BET’s YouTube channel NOW! #LinkInBio #Family #Father #kids
I disagree. Happiness is subjective, you have happy moments, sad moments. Peace is what we’re not addressing. Being at peace supersedes happiness because within that peace you find moments of happiness.
2025-10-29 19:29:01
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MoneyOverU787 :
this hits home. I was miserable and accepted being misery for my family. I did this so I can ensure my kids were good. I did this to make sure my kids see their dad trying anything at all cost. in the end she still left and now im going through child support court because she's bitter.
im sure yall wont read this but shout out to the dads that are trying. thanks for this interview!
2025-10-30 13:11:35
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Shani Brown :
As if moms don’t sacrifice. Both sacrifice, why it it a battle of who sacrifice more.
2025-10-31 06:55:22
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♉️ SIRBAYNES910 ♉️ :
Dayum I'm feeling this now, all for my family but empty.
2025-10-29 16:32:35
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UncleTos | Fitness•Lifestyle :
It’s the price of being the leader of the family
2025-10-29 17:57:25
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GhostFace Chilla :
For me its not about validation per se...Just dont take what I do for the family for granted.
2025-10-29 18:11:19
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Greg :
Being from the South as Karlous. Growing into a Southern Man is different. In the south you are raised to carry the load and make sure everyone is happy and comfortable. I just want my kids to get it mentally.
2025-10-29 22:13:17
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kiss_my_sass0 :
This isnt to change the focus because I LOVEEE these Black men having this space. But just know men aren’t the only ones having to make that sacrifice. Many times BOTH parents are feeling resentment and they BOTH need to speak to one another about it. Life is happening to everyone at the same time.
2025-10-29 13:55:28
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wheresmyk9 :
He can’t even say that wholeheartedly.. that’s why our living expectancy is 50 years or so give or take.. bro be happy no matter who it don’t benefit
2025-10-30 03:08:33
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blackdynamite005 :
Not healthy but necessary
2025-10-30 05:24:09
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Will216_ :
I’ve Learned This As A Dad Thus Far. You Will Lose Yourself, It’s Inevitable. You Will Have To Find New Avenues To Happiness After A Child, Find It And Find Your Balance.
2025-10-30 04:53:42
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Armsteady21 :
once you realize that it’s not suffrage or sacrifice its purpose its meaning it’s championing the things that mean the most to you and that’s what leaves the legacy and the legend that is the MAN
2025-10-30 02:20:22
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Mz.Pink Legacy 💋 :
I disagree with this. He deserves to be as happy and as straight as the family do
2025-10-31 02:43:07
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talmyke :
shyd been doing it for 25 years
2025-10-29 19:32:14
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Tam tam :
Every partner in the relationship will have too.
2025-10-29 16:19:34
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BOSSMAINCEO :
I disagree because I have to function as well💯
2025-10-30 04:03:56
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Pope :
Is it worth it? Putting everyone’s happiness ahead of your own, when so many of us don’t even make it to 70.
2025-10-29 23:06:12
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Samson718 :
What Karlous said was facts! I told my pops how much i appreciate him and love him having kids myself.. second time i seen him cry.. first time was for grandma.. but he a man man he don’t cry.. but i realize what i said he held that in for a Longgggg time
2025-10-29 21:01:08
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🐍 Medusum🐍 :
You think the woman not sacrificing happiness?? 😳
2025-10-31 01:08:27
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TRUST :
FACTS
2025-12-11 12:17:16
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doc.banks :
A lot of man live this everyday. We deal with hell, disrespect, and give up our happiness for the family, etc… but as soon as a woman is unhappy or not getting what she wants it’s our fault she cheated
2025-11-23 09:26:08
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jeanmcdonald35 :
I disagree, this is why so many men crash out, walk out on their families and other stuff. Men, head of household need to be happy also. Sacrifice is needed but not at the expense of happiness. Because it will come back around. This is a no
2025-10-31 12:54:40
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FiveFiggaDee :
Karlous so MISSISSIPPI
2025-11-01 04:24:47
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Drcookies :
Its a sad day this is NOT productive discussion
2025-10-30 08:13:29
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infoseeker :
If you believe it's not your job to make your woman happy, then it's not her job to make you happy.its not a sacrifice if it makes you happy. when you do what you want, it's not a sacrifice.It's only a sacrifice when you're doing what you don't want to do but you do it anyway to someone else happy.
2025-10-30 15:54:47
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