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Wednesday 29 October 2025 15:07:35 GMT
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kenzieisreallyfun :
My best friend cancelled on me for my birthday this year and I haven’t spoken to her since
2025-10-29 15:32:34
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joeking575 :
I give them 3 strikes. I get stuff happens but I get that it’s a two way street
2025-10-29 15:38:38
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Autumn :
my last roommate (a friend at the time) got mad that we asked her to clean up after herself bc she causes bugs. She ghosted us and moved out and we haven’t spoken since bc she thinks she’s the victim
2025-10-29 15:45:01
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andie :
I used to get cancelled on by all my closest friends in high school multiple times a week for no reason. I can tell before it even happens when someone will cancel and I can tell if it’s genuine. Honestly yall do whatever you want as long as you communicate and didn’t blow me off
2025-10-29 15:39:04
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Aspen ฅ^•ﻌ•^ฅ :
I love talking to people with tons of failed friendships and relationships and realizing they might be the problem (and most of them are deathly allergic to accountability)
2025-10-30 07:57:44
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Inside Shea’s head :
My friend failed to pick me up from the airport bc she wanted to go drinking with another friend even tho we had planned to have her take me home from the airport
2025-10-30 09:22:46
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liminal scribe :
aren't the oldest gen alphas like... 14?
2025-10-29 21:17:33
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bellaa_musick :
if you're expecting your friends to care an watch out for you, you have to be prepared to do the same for them. friends aren't presents, they're two-way relationships.
2025-10-30 14:46:43
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liv :
my “best friend” always complains about doing things unless he gets something out of it at the end. my bday was this month, 10/14. i wanted to go shopping on my bday. i said to him “you’re more than welcome to come, but if you do, i don’t wanna hear you complain. not once. you even think about complaining, call an uber home”. i do whatever he wants to do, but when it comes to something i wanna do, it’s a problem
2025-10-30 14:32:42
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liz :
Yeah I’ve noticed this. I’m agoraphobic and i’ve garnered a lot of resentment towards my peers with this attitude because It feels like they choose the isolation while I fight with it daily. I try not to feel this way but it’s frustrating
2025-10-29 16:25:38
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Readily Roadkill :
I invited about 10 people to my birthday last year and only 3 showed up :,) I haven't talked to the others (aside from one who was clear they couldn't come due to work) but the rest had RSVPed!! They didn't even cancel they just no showed!! I had way too many snacks and just felt really disappointed :( now I'm trying to connect with new people
2025-10-29 17:17:52
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Maggie Parker :
my thing is yes you might be tired but if its a once a year celebration like a birthday, drink a redbull or get a coffee. if you care about your friends you show up for them.
2025-10-30 05:23:02
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Klepto Bismol :
I used to watch old black and white movies and therapyspeak was also very prevalent in there too (which makes sense with the ‘luded out 50s housewife trope) the vocab was different but it served the same function
2025-10-29 16:57:46
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Amberglazed :
I have anxiety and am super scared to go outside but I still push through just to see my friends. I promise it is not that hard to do guys 😭
2025-10-30 03:10:53
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Maeganrane :
I rlly need to set this boundary 😭
2025-10-29 15:44:04
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Kelly L :
Yep so many "friends" have done this so I just give the same energy I get now. If that ends the friendship so be it.
2025-10-29 22:07:41
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꒰ঌ𝓗𝓪𝔂𝓵𝓮𝓮໒꒱ :
gen alpha started in 2013 btw and genz started 1997 and ended in 2012
2025-11-08 08:39:24
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Human :
turns out, you actually DO owe people sometimes 🤦♀️if you don't think you owe anyone anything, you should not be shocked or crying to lose friends and fail to form strong relationships with others. it's a mutual exchange, you owe people your portion of the exchange.
2025-10-31 03:59:46
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erica benton :
i’m so nervous that’s going to happen at my wedding but i 100% show up for everyone i love.
2025-10-31 02:24:56
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Fox Afton :
Understandable, my only thing is is that I would let it go if it was an emergency
2025-10-30 13:10:08
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Hehehehehehe :
My problem is I’m chronic ill, and I always tend to cancel last minute in case I do start to feel better (it’s always possible) and I feel horrible when I do. Sadly this has gotten me dropped multiple times and now my only real friend is someone who never wants to go out. 💀
2025-10-30 07:36:50
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Celeste 🧬 DCTN1 Educator :
My supposed best friends have all had weddings and kids and I find out through 3rd party Facebook posts, I’m a 1994 millenial. When I have confronted these supposed friends and held them accountable for how they have been toxic and hurtful and I have felt excluded for the last 7-10 years they viciously attack me and tell me to go back to therapy… after being in therapy 25 years… I think I can safely say maybe it’s them that’s the problem
2025-10-30 06:58:58
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mackenzie 🌻 :
i’m older gen z and i agree with this. i had a friendship where i was always putting in more effort than she was and were no longer friends because i could tell she wasn’t going out of her way to support me in any way.
2025-10-30 13:59:27
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Ach :
I stopped having contact with my family friend and her family because she said for months she was bringing her and her 6 kids to my baby shower including who my friend that was supposed to be the god mom just to cancel a day before for her kids game. The only party I canceled on was a Halloween party because I was 8 months pregnant and was starting to have contractions and I didn’t want to risk going into labor at a party
2025-10-30 15:53:54
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August :
Dude NOBODY I get contact info from will return a message. I can’t even plan events within my school clubs because just WILL NOT text me back for ANYTHING
2025-10-30 17:11:33
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