@abbyrodmanpsychotherapy: Thinking about getting married? Wondering if you’re with the right person? Choosing the right person to marry is by far the most important decision of your life. I’ve been a psychotherapist for decades and I’ve worked with countless couples. What time and experience have taught me is that many of us follow the same script — and ignore similar red flags — to our detriment. Let me know in the comments what you would add to this list.
Number 11 don’t get married because you are pregnant!🤷♀
2025-10-30 10:58:54
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Vicki :
don't marry them because you're lonely
2025-10-30 11:44:02
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NameYourName :
Don't marry because of parental pressure and traditional expectations.
2025-10-30 23:36:50
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Cristal Jones :
#11 Don't marry them just because you've dated them for a long time, and it's 'obviously' the next step. Great list! Wish I had this kind of info when I was in my 20's.
2025-10-30 13:04:52
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Sam :
Commitment ceremony, do not get a marriage license. Seniors been doing it for years.
2025-10-30 13:31:35
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2shelfran222 :
I agree. Do not ever get married anyway.
2025-10-30 11:52:29
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Jo :
Basically never get married
2025-10-31 00:40:37
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JoePlumber4_1 :
Don’t marry someone if they carry a lot of debt. 😏
2025-10-31 04:11:16
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McGookin :
#11 don’t listen to people on the internet
2025-10-30 08:05:26
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kellypaul :
or if you are pregnant.
2025-10-30 02:13:25
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ሐbesha :
This was so good. Everyone should watch this before they marrying someone :
2025-10-30 11:54:30
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SteveAY60 :
wow, there is a lot of wisdom in this post.
2025-10-30 06:05:18
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DCP :
💯 To all she says. We were inseparable from the first date and still are 43 years later. We both believe we are very blessed
2025-10-30 02:14:15
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Gus :
Just don’t get married!!
2025-10-30 19:55:08
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Larry :
Co-habitate but dont marry One contentious divorce is enough for me
2025-10-30 16:36:18
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Gummy Bear :
#11 Make sure they are not in debt up to their eyeballs!
2025-11-01 05:17:14
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rb :
it's either hell yes or hell no
2025-10-30 23:56:23
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Ken :
excellent points but I was thinking you were going to tell us why we shouldn't get married at all
2025-10-30 06:48:47
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Toya🖤💙 :
This is a great list.
2025-10-30 10:30:35
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Maries :
Never! Ever! Get married- the world is full of narc abuser
2025-10-30 14:52:21
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Savanah Truelove :
#7 really hit home. I wish these ten reasons would have been presented to me before I made mistakes marrying three times. Now I’m happily single for life.
2025-10-30 18:16:39
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jimshoimm2z :
Don’t legally get married until it make you worth twice as much, Not half as much💯👍
2025-10-31 04:10:17
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Steph Palermo :
This is great!!! 💯 I’m 59. Divorced. I wish I heard this at 20. And I’m not even sure I would have listened.
2025-10-30 12:20:47
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kknewmanrn :
#7
2025-12-22 03:04:53
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