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Vada :
having bpd and being super self-aware is so incredibly hard.
2025-12-12 19:14:07
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Life :
The hard part is they split very easily
2025-11-24 01:04:58
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🏳️🌈SapphicBean🏳️🌈 :
does anyone else have memory loss?? i never see anything about it while having BPD & it really scares me.
2025-12-08 19:11:21
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independent woman :
I feel like a child in a adult world ŵĥèn ìm triggered xx
2025-12-07 16:01:33
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laurfarts :
The toughest part of having a loved one with BPD is always having to be the calm, patient, rational one. I have feelings, too. When they get upset, I need to be the rational one. But when I get upset, they split and villainize me.
2025-12-18 18:47:57
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Tiffany :
I have BPD, my ex was an avoidant and he discarded me like I was nothing. It felt like I was dying. I couldn’t work for a week. Had to postpone the start of my school cuz i was stuck in limerence.
2025-12-03 02:56:50
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cgp :
tired of being told i’m too sensitive
2025-12-09 18:24:57
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bug_huul :
Diagnosed Bipolar and BPD. Soooo fun.
2025-12-04 05:41:34
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batty_mama_ :
Well I couldn’t take being emotionally abused daily.
2025-12-05 16:36:59
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Wolfpack :
there comes a time when the person needs to start taking accountability and start doing the work to better themselves. it is draining for the other person to constantly put up with it . I have bpd I've been in those shoes I did the work, I learnt how to regulate my emotions to a degree, I learnt my triggers and how to avoid them or what to do if I'm triggered, healthy coping mechanisms, he on the other hand says his trying but not making active changes, he keeps beliving those negative thoughts, even when I tell him I cannot be there for him when I need to be there for myself otherwise I will have a breakdown myself he then believes I do not love him or even care despite the fact always telling him I love him and that his feelings matter and his allowed to have feelings etc. there comes a point the person needs to make a choice to either heal or stay away from people if you choose not to .
2025-12-02 20:20:53
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paris :)) :
i literally feel unlovable all the time
2025-12-10 20:49:24
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kyle_thegirl :
This was refreshing to hear. Most people online only talk bad about people with BPD and that feels frustrating at times.
2025-12-08 21:39:36
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Boneybitch :
to people with bpd: try to observe which of your thoughts are yours and which ones are fears from your bpd. give your bpd thoughts a name. talk to your bpd. it is a protection mechanism and you most likely don't need it anymore. talk to it like its a child that tries to protect you. thank it for it's service and tell it that you'll try to move on. if you successfully do that you will most likely get better and feel more balanced
2025-12-03 13:04:50
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michaelboelton3 :
RUN! DONT walk, but RUN!
2025-12-27 03:38:58
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dani :
I feel like I’m possessed. Like I know I’m back there but I’m so so deeeeep back I can’t resurface.
2025-12-30 16:28:22
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ShacklefordServices :
how do I get over hyper vigilance. I'm so tired
2025-12-22 08:54:44
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b :
put this on his fyp😭
2025-12-25 07:59:18
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Kirsten :
It’s not that I don’t feel lovable, it just makes me highly enraged that I live my 24 hours thinking of how my decisions will affect the next person while everyone else is making excuses to why they “didn’t think about it like that”. When we get to the point we’re raging, it’s the moment our brains like to show reruns of how this happens from everyone. Small inconveniences like “I wasn’t thinking about like that” become patterns of choice. My brain hits the eject button and I split
2026-01-19 14:27:29
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peterpiperpickledpeeter :
yet you tell them you love them every day and no matter what they don't believe it or appreciate it.
2025-12-09 15:00:38
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chris.nic :
my husband is diagnosed BPD and its truly heartbreaking 💔 hes the most generous, loving, loyal, supportive,handsome man in the world but he believes he is worthless and unlovable and carries so much shame. He has a grossly distorted self image. its so unfair that he can't see his value. it almost destroyed our marriage, but thankfully we both got in therapy and I Learned everything I could about bpd, and learned how to better support him and hes learning how to manage his thoughts and emotions. its not perfect but its more manageable now ❤
2025-12-18 16:45:57
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Jellyfish :
my Girlfriend has BPD and I really need help on how to handle it I love her with my whole life but I don't know what to do when she split
2026-01-21 23:45:39
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promnightdumpsterbaby :
this comment section didnt pass the vibe check
2025-12-04 23:19:10
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Sheep :
I often cry because I feel completely crazy. I experience my mood shifts knowing that it's insane and I try so hard to not "overreact". Generally immense shame comes after. It's fun, guys 👍
2025-12-06 21:04:38
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