@thechrishinton: Most people think they’re fighting about dishes or the trash, but they’re really fighting about value. This breakdown shows how love and relationships are two completely different systems — one is who you are, the other is how you exchange. Listen with your ears, not your triggers. #SelfAwareness #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalIntelligence #HealingJourney #PsychologyFacts
“Listen with your ears, not your triggers.” Best life advice ever!
2025-11-01 15:07:35
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krnnatasha :
Love is what we are and relationships are how we exchange value! 👏🏽😮💨
2025-10-30 19:05:57
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TinaD825 :
THIS: “You are love” “Love is what you are” I am worthy because I am love. Full stop. My worth is not tied to how someone perceives my transactional worth. Thank you for putting into words what I could not.
2025-10-31 13:50:08
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Bonolo.moek :
This has LAYERS of mind f**ks. Human dynamics are so complex, I think we’re going to blow our selves up by trying to understand each other.
2025-11-01 07:50:00
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SuzieHomeHacker :
SOME of us function without transactional expectations… we usually get burned - I’ve never met a man who isn’t transactional… I loved freely… they liked all I brought into their lives… now I choose me and friendships that enjoy me as much as I do them and who also hust know how to connect and hear !! Some people know how to be good friends. Some don’t.
2025-10-30 21:57:40
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User7839393 :
You don’t fall in love with people, you fall in love with the version of yourself that person unlocks.. So with that in mind you have everything you need within..
2025-11-01 10:38:14
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Defining Me :
I want peace, comradery, my mutual partnership with someone who wants to explore and experience life without sucking the ever living life and energy out of me.
2025-11-04 23:59:04
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Salem86_X :
That’s what I love about my partner. We listen to understand, not to convince.
2025-10-31 03:14:17
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Rachel78 :
So when we “fall in love” with a person, are we actually just falling in love with how they make us feel when we are with them? And how do you explain continuing to love someone, romantically, even when they’re not in your life anymore? Like you’re no longer receiving any sort of value or transaction or anything, and yet you still have love for that person.
2025-11-01 19:16:33
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Emptypyrexdish :
Love is an energy you can find anywhere. A relationship is a contract. For me, I’m looking for companionship and reciprocation of intimacy !!
2025-11-02 15:03:44
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mscarpetta :
What happens when there is no longer any exchange ? One wants to part and the other stay?? Goes back to triggers I guess
2025-10-31 03:21:24
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.Amy :
We all have an “invisible” bank account emotionally. It works like your real bank account… you must make more deposits than withdraws.
2025-11-01 13:32:17
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Drakovia Exotics :
I appreciate your way of thinking and mindset that forces me to think outside the box by looking inward. Could you do a video over resetting the nervous system. A baby steps video of sorts.
2025-10-30 17:48:33
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Jessica :
that's alot of info....
2025-10-31 09:00:54
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ricardosuavez :
Reciprocity seems to have been forgotten nowadays
2025-10-31 23:05:10
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1Puggleworld :
wow man...that's one deep talk brother 🙏
2025-10-31 18:52:27
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alaskajen907 :
That essentially described my 26 year marriage. Thank you for educating and bringing awareness.❤
2025-10-30 23:52:26
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mariag.author :
This describes all my relationships. I’m always performing.
2025-10-31 05:21:06
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user5472097969837 :
Do you have a book that you’ve written explaining your outlook on relationships and love? I’m new to the page forgive me. I’ve seen you once or twice and I thought wow this is really great. You finally came back on my page so I’m just asking cause if you do, I’d really like to buy it thank you for youroutput. Take care God bless.
2025-10-31 23:53:25
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sierramia21 :
Yes! Love isn't the problem. We all give to the level we are able. When we are mismatched in our abilities to exchange value, the relationship suffers. When I adjusted my expectations and stopped overfunctioning to fill the gap, things shifted. That shift probably looks like pulling away, but it is just balancing the exchange with grace and wisdom.
2025-10-31 15:42:10
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Tepid :
the only part that feels gross to me is why does the foundation of relationships have to be framed as a transaction of values. like connection seems to be a natural thing to give and receive
2025-10-31 13:44:41
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larrylizard5967 :
Thank you for clarifying the difference between love and gratification.
2025-10-30 20:22:52
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Jenna :
I love this deep understanding!! Thank you for helping us see our own BS ❤
2025-11-02 00:04:08
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lisaarmornor :
1 Corinthians 13:4 Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous. It does not brag, does not get puffed up, 5 does not behave indecently, does not look for its own interests, does not become provoked. It does not keep account of the injury. 6 It does not rejoice over unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth. 7 It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 8 Love never fails....
2025-11-01 20:07:47
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Hailey Baker :
Okay, this made so much sense, but I’ll be watching this for the next three hours while I take notes because you sir, finally put everything I know but have had jumbled across my life
2025-11-04 07:09:03
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