@katshortsleeve: ❤️‍🩹 a sad update on my move from the US to Switzerland, but I’m beyond grateful to my village at home helping me navigate next steps

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Friday 31 October 2025 12:23:48 GMT
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anannysplace
A Nanny’s place :
Soooo you couldn’t just start over in Switzerland on your own without the partner?!
2025-11-01 18:36:06
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needtoknowtea
PugloveUnite🐾 :
Why didn’t you just stay.
2025-11-01 17:55:48
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katcherink
k :
aw, even if you guys broke up you could’ve stayed in Switzerland 💔
2025-10-31 20:24:57
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whitecoffemug
whitecoffemug :
so no job or plan in Europe. just playing: friends, classes, gym....is the accountability in the room with us?
2025-11-19 06:15:14
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shadycrusade
Shadow Crusade :
im so confused, like why leave Switzerland over a man? I understand wanting to go home for comfort but the u.s.? permanently? 😭😭😭
2025-11-10 13:33:25
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emilycanham
Emily Canham :
I hope you know how brave every single one of these decisions is 💘 you’re doing great 💗
2025-10-31 21:22:37
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1blondeaussie
1blondeaussie 🦘 :
Why move back?
2025-10-31 22:25:39
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janedough1996
Jane D. :
Did they leave you? If so, they definitely had thoughts about it before you shipped your things over and that’s just cruel
2025-11-01 03:21:59
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its.heather_08
~Tay💋 :
Could you not have just stayed anyways?
2025-11-01 14:33:22
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themoonsunandthestars
*+°+ **Jen•+°÷ :
Ladies, friendly reminder, not to uproot your whole life for a man. Men and plans sadly change. And starting over is hard, but it happens and it gets better (live and learn). But also have him move lol
2025-11-03 05:41:48
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elleinprocess
Elle LaMarca :
So many unsupportive, not girl’s girls in these comments. She’s being vulnerable and you’re criticizing her. People make mistakes, and I’m sure she feels like she made some. Stop kicking a girl who’s brave enough to post this while she’s down.
2025-11-11 06:17:41
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poni4life
poni :
sounded like a lot of positive reasons to stay🤷‍♀️. maybe the man was the catalyst for the move, but not the reason to stay. everything happens for a reason. good and bad. but you are already home so...
2025-11-10 16:49:16
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carla_homeandaway
carlawithaC :
One foot in front of the other is the only way….and very deep breaths! I have a sign in my house that says “trust the timing of your life” 💗
2025-10-31 12:53:30
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smahtcookie
SmartCookie :
Trying something & plans changing isn't failure or taking steps backward. I've experienced this multiple times in 50+ years; life experience is invaluable.
2025-11-01 04:11:42
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lifeonmarssssss
Mariana, MPH ✨ :
Cheering you on!! Wherever you are!! 👏👏
2025-10-31 12:52:32
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madisonmorini
Mads :
Also posting this is so freaking brave and authentic and I love you for it and many girls can connect with you and doing that is real community 💓💓
2025-10-31 14:27:20
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astra.not
Not_sponsored Nell :
Girl release 20 part series about how he fumbled you
2025-11-01 10:05:31
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lmbralvbuop
lmbralvbuop :
You should have stayed. You were having fun!
2025-11-01 05:59:31
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thephoebekaye
Phoebe Kaye :
You should be proud of yourself for making the move, even if didn’t end up as you planned. ❤
2025-10-31 19:12:51
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jessdumonde
JessDuMonde :
People in these comments are being mean. Thank you for sharing this with us, people don’t talk about all of the challenges that come with moving abroad
2025-11-03 16:27:06
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g473349
Chuchu :
We don’t move for man!! Make them move for us because are more likely to change in the relationship when you do that big step for them I don’t know why but it’s more common
2025-11-02 05:24:39
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marinamarzec66
M Marzec :
10 steps backwards but hundreds of thousands steps towards a better life ❤
2025-10-31 23:54:12
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blondontheroad
Jess :
One thing to note is that so many expats move here for a man and in someway sacrifice their careers pop out babies and then after a few years or more realise that they’re not in a good scenario… However once you have kids over here you’re kind of stuck you can’t just bring the kids back with you to the US without the partners consent so really important to factor in everything before changing your life
2025-11-19 15:40:18
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sent_from_my_couch
Just Me :
I’m so sorry for your circumstances. You can certainly see the sadness in your face. I see people talking about staying in Switzerland, but I totally get it. Whatever happened between the two of you, you probably don’t want to be where your partner is. I get it …you will build yourself a great life. These things have a way of working themselves out.
2025-11-05 17:44:45
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woofinfoofin
WoofinFoofin :
Only the bravest and the boldest make international moves and so whilst this did not work out the way you intended I’m sure you’ve learned many lessons and a wiser as a consequence. Wishing you all the best for your next adventure.
2025-11-01 09:19:32
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