@healingwithemilyg: Lmk if you guys want me to talk more about discards/ what questions you have. I’m sorry so many of you have experienced this too. It’s inhumane. #narcissisticrelationship #narcissisticabuse #psychologicalabuse #abuserecovery #emotionalabuse

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j.layne :
People cannot fathom the cruelty unless they’ve experienced it.
2025-10-31 22:29:42
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violetmaile
Violet Maile :
It gave me cardiomyopathy, survived 2 TIAs, cortisol increase and a virtiligo. He then said “I’ll take our son if you move on” recently denying the protection order
2025-11-05 13:35:45
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whatev4ever
Kayleigh Cooper & Penny :
It gave me HEART FAILURE IN MY 20s!!!!!!!!!!!!
2025-11-01 07:13:44
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kayleighdurrant1988
kayleighdurrant1988 :
Even when they are in a whole different relationship they still want you to suffer xx
2025-10-31 17:14:39
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christ_is_king333
Jesus loves you :
DO NOT END YOUR LIFE! THERE ARE ALWAYS PEOPLE THAT LOVE YOU AND WANT TO HELP YOU. DO NOT BELIEVE THE LIAR!!!!
2025-11-01 00:22:18
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zerosomthing
zerosomthing :
That was the closest thing to murder ive ever experienced
2025-11-02 16:32:12
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rebekahmariposa
🫧🪽Rebekah🪽🫧 :
The cruelty is worse than anything you’ll EVER see on TV.
2025-11-01 21:43:43
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starlight_night10
Starlit Knight :
Yes!! And they will reverse discard you and they also bring out reactive abuse. Covert narcissists are dangerous and cowards
2025-11-01 09:10:59
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gray.slick
gray.slick :
you are not bring dramatic. they literally want to destroy you. you can't understand until you've been there
2025-11-02 05:07:37
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kage02871
Kage :
100% I was at rock bottom when they discarded me. No apology and no care at all. They are empty 🥺
2025-10-31 21:56:54
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laurahopeharris
Tofu chihuahua fairy peach :
They really hate us
2025-11-01 12:04:55
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julialoebe4
Julia :
It’s like another cycle I swear like they get worst each cycle but it’s brutal
2025-10-31 21:02:29
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tomuragoataraki
Visenya Worshiper :
And then when you finally pick yourself up, get your spark back and they see you after the discard, they glare at you with such evil eyes it’s insane…
2025-11-01 12:29:16
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dunkaroosie
Nic :
it should be a punishable offense that gets them put on some sort of registry to help future potential victims. It’s been years and I am still continuing to heal and finding new pain that has lingered.
2025-11-02 18:10:02
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supreme_aset777
Supreme_Aset777 :
I’m literally in the depths of this as we speak. But I refuse to let him win. I’m going to survive simply out of SPITE 💀
2025-11-04 20:15:23
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s3r3n1tyfl
ExploreFlorida :
They also Sabotage you financially , they want you lowest in every way possible
2025-11-23 08:22:14
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krosee
kat erardi :
1 week before major surgery while I was also grieving my brother’s death
2025-10-31 20:12:00
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ajourneyof.thesou
A Journey of the Soul :
So glad to be out… narcissists are truly the most broken, insecure, cowards on the planet.
2025-11-02 01:52:51
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mathmaniac777
mathemagican777 :
Just like how their parents abandoned them (physically or emotionally) when they needed them the most (to survive), not saying this justifies their cruelty in any way - if anything it makes it worse tbh, like they’re going out of their way to make others experience what they did.
2025-11-01 04:04:16
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kennedy_reilly
kennedy reilly :
My stomach hurt watching this and realizing the accuracy
2025-11-03 01:43:22
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idoex1st
idoex1st :
I agree. Their goal is to unalive you or pushing you to the point you unalive yourself and then they will play the victim how they were the only one trying to help you and save you. It's demons in them named Jezabel. Jesus Christ saved me from the grave the narcissist dig for me. God is good ❤
2025-11-01 08:46:16
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usersanbsb6d21
user33848753343 :
If you have any light left in you they are there to take it. If they are still there fighting for your attention or talking to you, you havent lost, leave them.
2025-11-01 01:56:49
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destinylaplant
Desi 💞 :
Then they no caller id a thousand times a week later
2025-11-02 19:46:48
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athena_neo2003
athena_neo2003 :
Facts🌺💕🌷💐 all the love and light that attracted them to you in the first place are the same qualities they want to destroy because they are actually jealous they aren’t YOU
2025-11-01 11:38:57
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basedsalma
based?? :
Explains why my ex was just laughing in my face everytime i cried in his face explaining how he hurt me
2025-11-02 09:12:28
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