@itsdavidmurdock: What is performative grooming? (Why you clean mostly when expecting company) #life #behavior #advice #MentalHealthAwareness

Greyson :

executive dysfunction is a factor too.

DARE 80 :

Nah damn I got depression and ADHD executive dysfunction

oAtMeAL :

PAUSE✋🏻 Rewind…⏪ you said, “It’s not that you don’t care. Your brain learned to associate self maintenance with being seen, not being well.”

syl :

did you kiss the brick before you threw it?

Loop :

The minute the basic are routines are gone —red flag — depression knocking

Hannah 🔮 :

No actually I have adhd and find it hard to do things without external motivation

Cas 🐙 :

bruh ..ANOTHER THING I GOTTA HEAL?! 😭

moonlitgnome4 :

Yeah I def don’t do any of that

maddie 🌼 :

Algorithm specific as hell damn

Frankie :

100%. I knew I was healing when I started looking forward to showering and dressing because it FELT GOOD TO ME.

Megan Erica :

"im good today" Fyp:

jazmine nicole marie :

You’re worth caring for 🥹

☭ Grymy🔻 :

I’m not afraid to admit I genuinely needed to hear this

sporkchops :

Now why would you say that to me

Destinysheree :

Wow, I feel attacked lol

lexi_ludell :

“I’m not coming at you sideways” you sure about that?

Leah :

you are a sweetie pie! ty for sharing 🙏

Keely Seward :

This is actually genius and I do appreciate it

user6599347513280 :

“Days without showering “, can’t relate papa 😭

Donovan Hardee :

and he made me reflect my life at 11:01pm in a minute and a half.

Cherry 🍒 :

I think this makes sense bc growing up I was told to clean my room because people were coming over and it had to look good. They never came in my room but I always associated being clean with being seen.

ProfEclipse :

Dawg it’s hard, it’s like I give myself a set schedule to do it. It feels more like maintenance or a chore than anything else

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Ni :

No but it’s cause I literally don’t care unfortunately😭