People are saying “why have a bf? Husband? Family?” My reason was kids. I wanted my kids to have 2 parents in the home because of all the studies showing how much more successful and happy those kids are. Otherwise I would’ve been single
2025-11-03 18:34:14
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OhioGuy :
Well, I’m an honest man. Never cheated. But I’ve been cheated and played by multiple women. LOTS of women suck. I’m just not going to write an article blaming women I don’t even know.
2025-11-04 18:39:42
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ItsMe :
The other guy who was really tall seemed so right for you. I am happy you moved on if it wasn’t right.
2025-12-03 02:35:03
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Sunflower Rachel 🌻 :
Totally agree with you. Hook up culture is so tacky and disgusting. No, having a boyfriend isn’t embarrassing. When God created man and looked at Adam he said: “This isn’t good.” So he made Adam fall asleep and created the Woman from Adam’s rib. Thus creating Eve, Adam’s helper. I firmly believe I have my man’s rib and the right man will recognize me as his, my Adam 😇♥️Relationships are sacred and should be protected.
2025-11-03 20:22:51
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Gail_sk_can🇨🇦 :
After years of learning, my niece now says "I am looking for a man that wants to be a husband & father, not a man that wants a wife & kids. There's a difference. I'm not settling."
2025-12-25 17:27:28
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user3362092969 :
Is it hard to commit to someone when you're STANDARDS are still about Me, Me, Me and My, My, My?
2025-11-04 00:10:53
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Libby :
@Gabbers I am loving and enjoying your content! As an older woman it can sometimes be hard and a little lonely being single. I think a lot of that has to do with what has been expected of women, that we are not whole unless we have a partner. I have had enough not so great relationships, and I am so glad that we are moving more towards being and working on ourselves and not settling. It is so refreshing and liberating, and it makes me so happy to see younger women embracing this mindset as well. Everything falls into place. Keep doing what you're doing, and ladies, we got this. 🤩
2025-11-15 15:03:29
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Shan :
💯 agree to this!! Smart young lady, I wish I knew this at 22!!
2025-11-03 19:57:48
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MimiSaidIt :
Preach!
2025-11-03 18:33:44
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rachelelounigro :
You are absolutely right. ♥
2025-11-03 22:13:42
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no one :
Where did you find that sweatshirt? It’s so cute
2025-11-04 08:17:23
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SkepticsLoveIt :
This part❤
2025-11-04 17:10:48
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𝑴𝒊𝒌𝒆 𝒃𝒓𝒖𝒄𝒆 :
You deserve me 🤔
2025-11-03 20:16:09
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Sandra :
You are so wise beyond your years. love this.
2025-11-06 23:46:37
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Steph Grassett :
I am so happy for you! You deserve the world! 🩷
2025-11-03 18:49:19
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Juana Robison :
Agree
2025-11-06 03:48:45
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user8634307215512 :
We need to know ourselves before we can be our TRUE selves with others.🙏❤
2025-11-05 02:15:54
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Neha Joy :
Well said 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
2025-11-03 21:44:34
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Family, Friends, Dogs :
Who is this man the tea
2025-11-04 00:44:17
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Antonella Malca :
i love u
2025-11-03 21:29:27
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Becky boo :
Great take 👏
2025-11-05 04:31:13
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LOM04301024 :
You are wise beyond your years!!!
YOUNG LADY! 💖 So happy for you!
I think you saw EXACTLY what you didn't want from that last relationship!
2025-11-04 02:56:07
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greentree :
It goes both way. Men and women in general treat each other pretty terribly and both sides need to do better. The male bashing of the article proves my point.
2025-11-03 20:29:10
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Cindy :
Yes!!!! We must, as individuals, set standards for those we allow in our circle or to sit at our table!!!! I am having a tough time with this at 62!!
2025-11-03 18:43:26
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