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Bridget :

You can't get abandoned if you leave first 🗣

nailsandmirrors :

I’m naturally the chill girl in the beginning then I get to know them and want more

Jess :

Quickest way to un-chill girl yourself is to TRULY believe that a man choosing you is the lowest priority on the list. You & your goals/needs/desires MUST come first

oregontamara 📷 :

But why do some pursue me and then I’m not interested, but the ones I want end up being avoidant?

amandaaaa_bunny :

I can’t even meet a man I like 😩

Shelby Jeter :

I have always been told I’m the chill girl. The guys always say they like that “I’m so chill” but on the inside I’m not chill I’m going crazy! Depression and anxiety wondering why I’m always just good enough for a situationship and nothing more! I’m tired of it!

Kaï🩷 :

Hate when i feel seen on my fyp

Danielle V :

This was me for years until I became honest to the high maintenance girl I always was and now I’m in the best relationship ever and I don’t lift a finger. 💅🏾

Travel_With_Brightside :

in other words: be genuinely inconvenient instead of being convenient.

Yubi :

Yes but I actually do express my needs then they say my standards are too high and go away

Izzy :

i’ve never heard someone explain so perfectly exactly how i feel. this was super helpful, thank you <3 interested in learning more!

Aaliyah 🦋 :

oh…. you might’ve ate with this one

Bibi Lopez :

But social media has taught us not to react to his avoidance and to act like you dont care, so we will chase you. So am I a chill girl or am I pretending not to care?

Kailey :

yesss!! I was a chill girl for awhile (still kinda am ngl) but it’s so much more freeing when you communicate your truth & stick to who you are. Easier said than done tho 😌 I’m trying!! Haha

Myranda Sylvestre :

I feel like I am doing all of this, holding standards, communicating, but I’m still attracting the same type of men 😅

Love❤️ :

Kayla Edmonds :

i fear i’m the chill girl 😭

Holly :

Situation ✨chips ✨ I actually love that

Ali :

The moment I can afford coaching with you, I’m booking! The nervous system regulation is a huge selling point for me.

Rachel Mufasa :

Girl read me for FILTH (thank you)

highpriestess300 :

When I am actually, truly not attracted to them, they chase. Ugh

MuchLoveLyndi :

Well drag me to filth next time 😆😭

Steph :

This described the exact situation I’m struggling with currently. Hit home hard.

cjmk6 :

This is me 😩 I’m so chill , zero boundaries, yes girl , afraid to speak up . All

The Wanderlust Girl :

I find certain men bring out my chill girl … and some don’t