@steven: True belonging means being brave enough to stand alone... Dr Brené Brown explains that real belonging isn’t about fitting in, it’s about showing up as your authentic self, even when it means standing apart. She says the greatest threat to belonging is the desire to be accepted by everyone. Do you think most people are brave enough to stand alone?
This is very honest. Once you are comfortable being you, society will not like you. Society like people who follow the norms especially when they sacrifice self.
2025-11-03 22:59:07
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Ody553y :
“And do not be conformed to this world”
Romans 12 : 2
2025-11-04 00:29:38
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JayDee :
“In order to fit in, the first person you betray is yourself.” SHEESH!!!!
2025-11-05 16:46:26
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KYLIE 🧜🏼♀️ 🌴 🌊 :
Gosh I just love Brene Brown!
2025-11-04 09:33:29
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Motable_Thoughts :
“beling to yourself first” also means standing up for your beliefs and have enoufh conviction in those beliefs to cut those out that have exposed themselves as completely antithetical to your moral compass.
2025-11-04 20:12:50
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🫧Deizzy • Finance • Business :
Society likes people who agree with them! When one stands for something different then theirs they immediately label them as an outsider! We can clearly see it in our political division these days!
2025-11-04 05:25:11
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Sunny✨🫶🏻🫶🏼🫶🏽🫶🏾🫶🏿✨🕊️ :
I don’t disagree, but I also believe that separating ourselves from those whose decisions affect us in harmful ways is healthy within that distinction. I find I gravitate toward solitude as I have never enjoyed the transactional nature of most people. Doesn’t make me feel righteous. It makes me feel peaceful.
2025-11-04 11:02:44
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vineparkmedia :
This has been the day to see this clip because I’ve encountered at least two different areas of my life in the past couple of days, alone, that are just not working out.. and they’ve both had me kind of stifling myself so that I would fit in with them ….and it’s making me incredibly unhappy. So I love that it goes back to realizing that I abandoned myself to fit in… when I really don’t need to! 😊
2025-11-04 04:17:02
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kathytownsendbooks :
Can’t tell you how many times I’ve called myself a chameleon
2025-11-05 04:41:27
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PitschPlease :
Counterfeit connection. Nailed it. I love her terminology. She’s amazing.
2025-11-04 21:32:41
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keerabageera🤎📸 :
our light is so bright - and it shines truly when we respect ourselves first.
2025-11-03 22:59:24
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FreeAF🇺🇸 :
I’m glad she is speaking, I know she has had her own struggles since 2020 man have we all but her work has made a huge difference in my life… I wish I could break down her arena and a possible different lens because the arena was my cage.
2025-11-04 02:53:38
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MeggieMcMeg :
📣 eldest first daughters 📣
LISTEN UP
2025-11-04 04:57:29
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Wittoria Collection :
“True belonging requires us to be who we are” not fitting in
2025-11-03 23:02:06
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Jodes :
She nails it every time! 💯👏
2025-11-04 02:08:15
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basetsanamolobye :
You can't truly belong to anything or any group if you don't belong to yourself first
2025-11-04 01:58:43
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Trisha Stacie :
Love Brene Brown 🥰
2025-11-04 05:06:10
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le cœur poétique :
I just adore her wisdom! Her work has changed my life ❤
2025-11-04 00:28:21
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Kacie - AwesomeHuman ✌🏼🧡 :
Love this! 100% we need to be our own Awesome Human 😉✌🏼🧡
2025-11-03 22:49:20
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For Love With Love ♥️ :
I’ve never really had more than one or two relatively close friends. I’ve lived alone my entire life, struggled, feeling connected with the people I dated as everything felt very surface level with people never being curious about who I was, and I never felt like I belonged anywhere I lived in the US. Fitting in never worked for me because I always felt strange bending into something not authentic to me. I just cant do it.
2025-11-04 02:14:54
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v_jul_creative_space :
That’s the hardest part — realizing that belonging starts the moment you stop chasing it.
2025-11-05 18:46:36
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Abigail Eernisse :
“True belonging requires us to be who we are.”
2025-11-06 06:30:30
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✨Faith.Famiy.Fitness.✨ :
"counterfeit connection" is 💯!!!
2025-11-05 20:04:43
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Kim :
WOW love this
2025-12-02 10:39:11
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