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I learned that one of my closest friends of 30 years had secret animosity or relational aggression. She hid it so beautifully until I could tell in the last few years something was off. Cut her off this year without a word when God revealed it. This has so hurtful very hurtful to me. 💔
2025-11-04 21:06:34
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Nicole courchee :
I think a huge sign of secret animosity is how someone acts when a friendship ends. In my case, endless bitter reposts showing how the person truly felt all along and shows exactly who they were all along…
2025-11-07 12:58:50
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Eve_ NedGo :
The moment I feel like I don't like someone, I immediately distance myself from them. It's okay not to like people. It's okay to walk away if you feel resentment and jealousy. You don't have to pretend; you don't have to try and fix it.
2025-11-05 10:09:04
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khaled Mohmood :
90% family and friends 😂😂
2025-11-06 06:18:27
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Jan C :
I ended a friendship because of this, I ended up just feeling wrong when we had met to 'catch up'. I felt my happiness bothered them and they were trying to 'prove' I wasn't happy 🤪
2025-11-05 16:00:54
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Benet Asuku :
Easiest way to find out is to hit them with good news unexpectedly while watching them for micro expressions. You will catch that face change.
2025-11-12 04:07:23
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CapturedBy_Janneth :
What do you call it when your friends hates on things you get and a few months later gets the same thing and swears she’s the first one to have it 😏
2025-11-12 04:56:39
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BlkNtvTerraFFVI :
I met a lady in a group today who started hating on me *instantly* and then started copying my mannerisms like immediately
it was so creepy!!!
2025-11-07 04:39:45
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DN :
Jealousy is as cruel as the grave, stay away , from envious people .
2025-11-07 12:35:32
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Jay_Jay :
Exhausting....if you don't like me, just don't talk to me. 💯
2025-11-12 14:02:33
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jonson :
Hating someone is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die …. Just let it go
2025-11-06 06:40:48
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dirtyydiana :
what if your mom has secret animosity towards you...
2026-04-28 17:29:03
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Shay the They :
YES SO MANY PEOPLE. JUST FASCINATED! 💯
2026-01-08 05:03:31
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Deep :
Literally had a married friend who was so upset her other friend was getting engaged she tried to sabotage it and then when she defended herself kept saying "shes going to end up married and unhappy like us" I was like who is us?!?!?? Then the same year my husband threw me a surprise bday party and she ruined it and told me all because she was so jealous my husband was doing something nice for me. This is sooooooo real! And no I do not talk to her anymore kick rocks in white socks with that behavior.
2025-11-07 14:12:02
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kevinamorgan 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇬🇧🇬🇧 :
thats actually sad and scary at the same time . if u sense it from anyone cut them off
2025-11-05 21:35:20
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Not Another Tik Tok Here :
my sister
2025-11-11 05:39:19
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N Waters :
it must be exhausting
2025-11-05 15:06:31
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DN :
Narccists or narcistic people are like this
2025-11-07 12:49:48
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bRay🍉 :
Keep your enemies close 😀
2025-11-04 18:49:27
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user4031540141079 :
yeah but I can always tell when someone doesn't like me though 😅
2025-11-05 21:03:40
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wesavemoney,notspend. 💰 :
we went on holiday. Came back and she lied to another friend saying i ruined the holiday but in fact we were on the beach having an amazing time. people are strange
2025-11-08 12:21:14
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Beans :
omg I know a few people like that especially at work - I've blocked those outside of work, but how do you manage this at work?
2025-11-12 01:43:19
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txm_gymm :
My half siblings and ancouple of ex friends. Ive made it easier for them and walked away
2025-11-05 19:01:12
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André Smoge :
I have already had so much encounters like this, now I have cut the contact, but it's kind of 20years to late, and it makes a lot of easy things very hard.
2025-11-05 14:26:12
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ThePinkLady :
I’ve recently distanced myself from someone I thought was my friend. She started asking mutual friends questions about my wellbeing, but never messaged or approached me with the same questions. Gradually, she began making backhanded comments or little “digs” towards me during group conversations. She was watching my social media stories but never interacted with me online. Silent when I achieved anything positive. I realise now that she has never liked me, she just couldn’t keep up the facade after 10 years.
2025-11-06 12:10:10
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