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When a partner keeps hurting you and never seems to understand why, it's easy to slip into over-functioning, devouring books and videos and searching for the one approach that will finally make the relationship work. A simple set of reminders can help pull you out of that loop: you didn't cause it, you can't control it and you can't cure it. You may hear that your behaviour set them off, and perhaps it sometimes did, but emotional manipulation, a lack of empathy and an inability to take accountability are long-standing patterns, usually rooted in childhood and shaped by beliefs that leave the other person seeing a different reality to yours. They may insist they'd stay calm if you stopped provoking them, or keep returning to a sore spot, your drinking, your family, your mental health, as the explanation for everything, until you start believing you're the problem in the relationship. You aren't responsible for someone else's emotionally manipulative behaviour. You also can't control it. Adjusting yourself to avoid setting them off might buy the odd calm moment, but looking back over the relationship, the withdrawal, the gaslighting, the blame and the victim role probably carried on regardless. And you can't cure it. Real change only becomes possible if they choose to do long-term work with a therapist who properly understands these behaviours, and holding out hope for anything else simply drains you while you keep reading and analysing. That's where a second set of reminders comes in: get off their back, get out of their way and get on with your own life. Stepping back isn't selfish, and it isn't giving up on the relationship. Acting as your partner's therapist and trying to make them see patterns they aren't looking at is not the same as kindness. You can still listen, care and be compassionate without carrying responsibility for their emotions or trying to repair behaviour that harms you. Let them decide whether to get help. Whenever you catch yourself fixating on solutions for the relationship, pause and turn your attention to something that matters to you, whether that's exercise, reading, work or your children, because it's far too easy to lose yourself in the effort of making things work Official accounts and resources: www.ellyanastasiades.com #relationshiptok #relationships #relationshiptips #relationshipproblems #relationshipissues
When a partner keeps hurting you and never seems to understand why, it's easy to slip into over-functioning, devouring books and videos and searching for the one approach that will finally make the relationship work. A simple set of reminders can help pull you out of that loop: you didn't cause it, you can't control it and you can't cure it. You may hear that your behaviour set them off, and perhaps it sometimes did, but emotional manipulation, a lack of empathy and an inability to take accountability are long-standing patterns, usually rooted in childhood and shaped by beliefs that leave the other person seeing a different reality to yours. They may insist they'd stay calm if you stopped provoking them, or keep returning to a sore spot, your drinking, your family, your mental health, as the explanation for everything, until you start believing you're the problem in the relationship. You aren't responsible for someone else's emotionally manipulative behaviour. You also can't control it. Adjusting yourself to avoid setting them off might buy the odd calm moment, but looking back over the relationship, the withdrawal, the gaslighting, the blame and the victim role probably carried on regardless. And you can't cure it. Real change only becomes possible if they choose to do long-term work with a therapist who properly understands these behaviours, and holding out hope for anything else simply drains you while you keep reading and analysing. That's where a second set of reminders comes in: get off their back, get out of their way and get on with your own life. Stepping back isn't selfish, and it isn't giving up on the relationship. Acting as your partner's therapist and trying to make them see patterns they aren't looking at is not the same as kindness. You can still listen, care and be compassionate without carrying responsibility for their emotions or trying to repair behaviour that harms you. Let them decide whether to get help. Whenever you catch yourself fixating on solutions for the relationship, pause and turn your attention to something that matters to you, whether that's exercise, reading, work or your children, because it's far too easy to lose yourself in the effort of making things work Official accounts and resources: www.ellyanastasiades.com #relationshiptok #relationships #relationshiptips #relationshipproblems #relationshipissues

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