@itsmarknichols: You can be a giving person and still feel hurt when people don’t reciprocate #reciprocity #fyp #friends #relationships #real

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thatfoxrox
That 🦊 Rox :
I don’t want back from others what I do from my heart but damn… all I ask is for consideration.
2025-11-05 20:49:33
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majoreyeroll
⋆˙⟡₊˚⊹ 𝕽𝖆𝖛𝖊𝖓 ⊹˚₊⟡˙⋆ :
I want to be considered like I consider them.
2025-11-07 18:24:29
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faeriemamas
Faeriemamas :
They have every right to not want to reciprocate but we have the right to say then you ain’t my type of friend. If you don’t value the importance of reciprocity
2025-11-05 20:09:38
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rastaferrari_829
Lone Ranger :
"nobody owes you anything"... yet they still took with no intention of having RESEPCT. hate that saying so much
2025-11-07 13:00:32
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arrogant_gay
Arrogant_gay :
Transactions ain’t the same as reciprocity! Don’t let them take advantage!
2025-11-06 00:07:40
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chelleasme
Chelle💖 :
Sometimes we just want to feel important. Feel seen. Heard. Receive a nice gift or gesture. Just sometimes .. we want to feel loved and appreciated. 🥹
2025-11-05 20:37:52
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lianna.nez
Lianna.Nez :
Thank you for clearing this up. A lot of people who are takers love to say we hold things over thier heads or like to bring up the things we do for them. Not keeping in mind that most of the time we waited so long to express how we feel and the relationship lacking reciprocity. We are not bringing up what we do for you as a way to belittle, but a way to shed light on the imbalance.
2025-11-05 21:45:58
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paraisosalrosa
zzzzz… :
It’s always “I’m sorry I made you feel that way” and no actions being changed. LIKE ACT RIGHT !!!!
2025-11-05 21:00:37
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life_and_wisdom
💄Life_And_Wisdom💄 :
Givers should have the limits Because shameless takers dont have any. I no longer do unbalanced relationships/friendships. If i see myself constantly putting effort and getting no reciprocity, i back off. Unbalanced relationships are bound to break off because they giver gets tired of giving…
2025-11-06 12:31:03
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moniquejaxx
MJ 🦦 :
It’s a gut punch, like damn… I’m not even a thought in your mind….
2025-11-25 23:42:42
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morohachan
MorohaChan :
That’s when I knew I had to walk away you cannot teach someone to care about you to have empathy, to show up. I have those qualities innately so it never feels not natural.
2025-11-05 20:59:57
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westcoastdummy
Hi :
Growing up is realizing that most people lack basic empathy and consideration of others.
2025-12-18 16:09:16
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aminideluxe
Amini Deluxe 💅🏾 :
Some people are just takers and they’re put in our lives to teach us boundaries ‼️
2025-12-31 10:44:59
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stringbeanjim
Sarah G :
No because I have a friend who was homeless and couch surfing at periods of her life and when I would help her out (drove to and from Colorado from KC in a night to get her one time) she ALWAYS found a way to give back with her Time, Warmth, Advice, or she'd use her limited funds to make me home made cookies. That's a good friend right there!
2025-11-05 21:31:27
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mel_an_eyez_d
MEL :
That's why I don't feel bad when I dead the friendship 💯
2025-11-06 01:22:25
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jade.moon1903
Pink diamond :
I’ve finally been setting boundaries and keeping my distance it’s hard😭
2025-11-06 18:26:26
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dayviar
Dayvia R :
I just can’t carry these types of relationships bc they drain you overtime. I have enough to tend to in my home for someone to always be taking.
2025-11-05 20:24:12
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melmoonz
💫 :
even if you don’t ask for the thing i do for you, do you as a friend not wish to help me in my life as well?
2025-11-06 11:46:43
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titancipher
Titan-Cipher :
I just cut them off.... no wasting myself again.
2025-11-05 21:32:09
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breaaa_x
Breaaa 🦋 :
Its truly the thought that counts. I’m the type of person that goes out of their way for my friends and family. You may not have the resources to reciprocate but just doing small things to show you care or showing up when needed! It’s simple.
2025-11-05 21:19:27
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rosey_dosey
rosey_dosey :
I always spend so much money and put in so much thought into Christmas and birthday gifts, why am I so horrible for feeling sad that almost none of my friends age ever gotten me a gift? I don’t do it out of expectation for an exchange, but it would be nice to be shown the same amount of appreciation for once
2025-11-06 01:25:26
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alexthemultifandomnerd
Alex G :
I've been dealing with this with almost every single person in my life. I used to be so sweet unconditionally but i've been getting bitter BECAUSE OF THIS
2025-11-07 00:44:00
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xopearlieo
Pearl :
Time is the world's GREATEST currency
2025-11-09 06:14:46
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mw0rlxd
Duckie :
I stop pouring into those who don’t pour into me. The first day of November I stopped responding first and since then no one has checked up on me or texted me. Which only tells me I was the holder of the friendship
2025-11-06 13:17:25
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vrydels
Daniel :
Exactly when you give all the time, you need to get some of that energy back or you will inevitably be drained and probably begin to resent the other party
2025-11-05 20:49:41
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