@missclairebenjamin: How to respond to devious comments… Sometimes people share information with you to undermine you or make you feel unsteady. We can often sense when someone may not have the best of intentions. There is information that’s helpful to share with people and there’s information that is only going to cause harm. If you need to share difficult information that you know could cause upset then it needs to be delivered in a supportive way. Always ask yourself “Is sharing this going to be helpful or harmful” If you are on the receiving end of information you can sense could be being shared to belittle you or undermine you then I would recommend asking the person to clarify their intention for sharing it and if you feel uncomfortable move the conversation on. You can always explore what they shared directly with the people involved. 💬 Have you ever been in a situation like this? What did you do? 📌 Please remember the advice offered in this video is generalised and will not fit every situation. Therefore, please use your own judgement when using this advice and adapt it to suit your situation. ➕ Follow for more strategies on navigating tricky work dynamics #worktips #leadershipdevelopment #emotionalintelligence #corporatelife #communicationskills #assertivecommunication #boundaries

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itismeallie
itismeallie :
I had a colleague tell me, "They really took a chance with hiring you!" 😳
2025-11-07 03:43:51
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ironflowerink
Sarah :
“Are you looking to be helpful or hurtful in sharing that?”
2025-11-07 08:35:01
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amistilljill
Jill :
Claire finally had enough
2025-11-06 23:13:07
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habarae
🐸 :
oh my former boss that hired me told me that :) FORMER
2025-11-06 19:58:20
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catladycrin
Corinne :
“That’s an odd thing to say out loud, are you trying to be helpful or harmful with that statement?”
2025-11-07 21:02:47
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almostartabby
Abby :
"oh gosh, I wonder what happened to the first two. maybe they missed out on the role because of their workplace etiquette. anyway.."
2025-12-24 10:47:44
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florabella_2025
Florabella 🌸🌺🌸 :
You never give examples of the solution 🤔
2025-11-17 12:09:47
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missclairebenjamin
Claire | Work people tips :
Have you ever been in a situation like this? What did you do?
2025-11-06 19:39:08
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oksanaschimnowski
oksanaschimnowski :
If I’m 3rd place but I got the job…seems that I’m actually in 1st place, no? 😂
2025-11-07 20:03:23
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user3447683844310
user3447683844310 :
I complained about how a colleague spoke to me and my manager instantly defended even tho they weren’t even there.
2025-11-07 16:03:45
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leafy_addiction
leafy_addiction :
in UK i had few " sarcastic" comments like this from uncomptetent managers
2025-11-07 07:31:29
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edeasykingston
EDeasyKingston :
Ooof definitely not helpful 😂
2025-11-14 00:21:57
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phoebecat99
Phoebecat99 :
Great response
2025-11-07 05:05:25
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audballbealea
Audrey Beale :
I love your accent sooooo much
2025-11-07 04:30:30
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kayessbea
_ksb_ :
If they didn’t want to give Claire the job they wouldn’t have done. It doesn’t really matter if two people were offered it beforehand and turned it down. She wanted it and they wanted her so sounds like a good outcome to me!
2025-11-07 11:41:38
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rachellizjohnson
rachellizjohnson :
Instantly in my mind I already thought calmly “well, I’m a big believer in everything happens for a reason so I’m here now”.
2025-11-07 15:52:01
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edenjayb
Eden Jay :
These videos are so helpful
2025-11-06 19:41:45
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missclairebenjamin
Claire | Work people tips :
If you are on the receiving end of information you can sense could be being shared to belittle you or undermine you then I would recommend asking the person to clarify their intention for sharing it and if you feel uncomfortable move the conversation on.
2025-11-06 19:39:27
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sarah822791
user2042075925937 :
I’m a retired doctor, previously in higher management responsibilities. I was always very kind, and that was my default position. But it cost me loads in the form of my mental health. If we had only been given some training as leaders it might have helped xx
2025-11-09 10:09:29
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tik..tok496
TikTok :
I had a colleague slip ohhh well I like you anyway I could care less if they like me or not I am there to do my job pay my rent not make friends
2025-11-07 08:13:33
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nokies.kitchen
Nokie’s Kitchen :
I was in a job share with someone who told me that her and my manager hadn’t even wanted the job share. Manager was there and didn’t say anything. I didn’t react but reported her. She got away with it though and I decided to leave
2025-11-07 09:15:13
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naomihickman4
Naomi Hickman :
Why would they say that?🤣
2025-12-08 13:44:02
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mootnell
mootnell :
“Well third choice is better than lucky last, did you apply”?
2025-11-15 07:31:12
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leuka_
Leuka :
What if I'm having to "manage"/train my peers and I'm not a manager? 🙃
2025-11-11 12:37:43
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georgiaharrison96
Georgia :
If there is an employee gossiping about Claire with a situation trusted with said empolyee who was considered a friend how would it be addressed without snapping ? Please
2025-11-07 18:56:32
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