@debkrevalincounseling: Have you and your partner become more like roommates? #dayinthelife #ditl #roommates #MentalHealth #relationshipgoals

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eatlivecookfood
Debbie C. :
That’s my life for 35 years we sleep in separate rooms too.
2025-11-08 08:35:22
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firefighter5408
user6704989222236 :
Married 2yrs now. Wife rarely comes to me for kiss’s, intimacy maybe once a month if im lucky doesnt ask about my day. She will literally talk about her job non stop every day. Feel like im 100% in the room mate stage
2025-11-08 16:01:23
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cb9953
CB :
Welcome to exactly my everyday
2025-11-08 14:32:15
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tamlynn45
tamlmartin :
sadly, this is my life exactly
2025-12-27 13:49:45
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dedexoxo1
DedeXoxo :
Better than arguing
2025-11-08 05:07:11
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scottyb64
scottyb64 :
Been married for 35yrs and we are simply room mates and I’m too scared to leave because of the kids and grandkids - miserable
2025-12-28 00:37:44
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rdskar24
rdskar24 :
And the solution is?
2025-11-08 11:15:15
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msmsm1019
MsMsm :
Been married 21 years, some days are like this and some are together doing activities all day with more affection/ interaction. It’s normal sometimes. Expectations about marriage are insane right now. Be happy , do your thing and enjoy the time you have together.
2025-11-08 13:01:11
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juliannedeely
juliannedeely :
I love my husband but sleeping alone can be a real luxury!
2025-11-08 17:54:54
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michelle34250
Mich Elle :
what if you're both genuinely happy living like this? genuine question... we're both neurodivergent and both require quiet space and simple exchanges just to function as parents to our son and do our jobs. we reconnect on holidays but sometimes this 'roommate' way of life can function too.
2025-12-28 06:47:35
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randolph5600
Randolph5600 :
This is why gray divorces are on the rise. After the kids are grown, emotional detachment, and physical attractions no longer exist, game over.
2025-11-09 23:50:43
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56yearoldmarriedguy
56yearoldmarriedguy :
23 years and i stopped asking years ago. she doesn't care and i got tired of rejection
2025-12-18 03:42:29
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rosebud1060
Rose :
I hate the phone ! No one talks anymore social media has ruined marriages . It seems very easy to disrespect your spouse .
2025-11-08 16:46:25
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slc1985
Sarah C :
This is me and my husband. It’s not necessarily bad. Neither of us are unhappy. I have friends and hobbies that fulfil me. He has activities he enjoys doing. What’s the point of splitting? I’m not interested in a new relationship.
2025-12-28 12:36:10
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pa_hunter_91
Matt Olson :
Why ask or try to talk when it just turns to fights because they can't have a civil conversation about a hard topic
2025-12-26 21:05:18
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user142293574119
Rebecca :
I will continue to stay single thank you very much!
2025-12-27 11:15:57
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laurie8178
laurie8178 :
Us, for 36 years now. Absolutely miserable.
2025-12-16 08:47:39
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greg.the.grey
Greg :
it's the best!!! no more pressure to be romantic or sexual! Celibacy is awesome.
2025-12-28 19:59:17
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martin252grady
martin mcquaide :
sounds like a great marriage, no bitching, or drama
2025-11-09 04:00:49
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lisachesher
Lisa :
After years and years of marriage what do you expect? So get a divorce split your assets and go look for a new partner that’s the answer? How about your both so comfortable it feels boring but actually it’s just life long partnership. Idk I have freedom, help with household, two incomes why do I want to start over with a new man? I don’t!!! I love and care about my husband even if it’s exactly what you just described.
2025-12-28 11:22:22
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notsandralee
Nana61 :
why are you in my house?
2025-11-11 02:45:03
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_heylorena_
HeyLorena🪬 :
Watching this in my room while he's upstairs in his room snoring 🧍🏻‍♀️
2025-11-08 09:41:23
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noyb4956
NOYB :
my wife hates me. I either take this or leave.
2025-11-20 17:13:45
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user273110024
Latch :
That was my married life. We’re divorced now.
2025-11-08 21:58:50
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jumpin.jack.flash2
Jumpin Jack Flash :
To me , Marriage is dead! We are either too busy making money to keep a float or too tired to make whoopie! We are both exhausted! love my kids but they took a lot of time and money and energy to bring them up. If your newly married , dont have kids until you are in a good financial position , like having a home paid off, makes a big difference in a relationship! Evenually we both gave up in the end. We lost the connection. It was just much too hard.😔🥺😔🥺😔
2025-12-28 03:51:21
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