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wedontknoweachother :
how are they going to book anything if they don't know how many people they're booking for....
2025-11-08 21:14:51
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Jm :
So she sent out invites early so people can plan and when they plan and ask she is annoyed
2025-11-09 10:13:11
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Julie Thomson :
I don’t see the point of a save the date? Why not just send out invitations?
2025-11-09 05:56:46
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drinkcoffeerun :
For a wedding people need to travel to, a save the date is pointless until you know if your partner can come. You can't actually plan to attend until you get the invite, so you've gotta send the invites out EARLY.
2025-11-08 18:13:30
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JAÐEN CLAYMORE :
6 months is not long for a wedding. Get your invites out and allow people to sort their schedules.
2025-11-08 23:17:48
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John :
why do people need to ask and why is a "+1" even a thing? who invited just 1 person? a wedding invitation is for a couple by default. obviously that are bringing someone.
2025-11-09 07:16:31
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Rosanna :
I hate wedding culture 🤣 it's getting crazy
2025-11-09 07:50:15
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Pi (she/her) :
Only 6 months?! I need to request my leave a year in advance. If everyone is texting then it’s incredibly bad communication on the part of the couple
2025-11-08 20:53:05
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omgidkytho :
she should be pleased that ppl are organized and want to come. what a horrendous take when ppl have to travel for this wedding.
2025-11-09 17:05:45
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vicksj69 :
She just said it , giving people time to book /travel etc they need to know are they booking for 2 to travel , what about that did she not understand?
2025-11-09 08:36:19
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Branky :
if the wedding is in 6/7 months, what's the point in a "save the date" card?? Just send the damn invite!!
2025-11-10 08:26:53
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Dizz Harris (Djo's version) :
No, I put names on our save the dates and people still asked
2025-11-09 21:26:52
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Pat 🇵🇱🌴 :
Repeated question = your mistake. But with that attitude I wouldn’t go.
2025-11-10 14:28:34
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Amy :
You know 6 months out when sending save the dates of you are doing plus ones. People need to book leave etc. If you are expecting people to come give them the information they need as soon as you have it
2025-11-08 20:30:49
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kimagination2 :
we sent a little info card out with our save-the-date, not traditional I know but we nicely told people that children weren't invited, and that only the people addressed on the envelope were invited and we were sorry for any plus 1s that weren't. Wanted to give people as much notice as possible, and to avoid any confusion
2025-11-09 09:14:05
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Marshmelodyy :
why can't they save half of the drama by getting married back in their hometown where their friends and family are 🤦♀️
2025-11-09 05:11:44
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user1954008664973 :
No you should tell them ,and who wants to go without there partner
2025-11-09 10:14:44
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ThatLassie :
sorey 7 months is not long enough in advance for a save the date. people are booking summer holidays 7 months ahead, if you truly want people to be able to make room to attend 7 months is not enough time, and i'd 100% be wondering if it's a plus one thing by that point
2025-11-08 14:25:26
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EpicMom :
People need to know if they are saving to book travel for one or two. It makes a difference. Duh!
2025-11-09 19:47:30
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AmyM :
Logically. If your sending a save the date and then they recipient needs to know who exactly needs to save the date. Like is it just me, is it me and my husband, do we need a baby sitter or are the kids invited? If I need to arrange time off work, transport, hotels I need to know who I'm booking for. I think that's pretty obvious....
2025-11-09 22:17:42
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AfroChuck :
Who gets married in 2025 🙈
2025-11-09 10:31:28
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char9xx :
I think putting specific names on save the dates stop all the confusion, however on the odd occasion things have changed since my save the date, I’ve dropped a message. I’d rather someone message and ask than just not respond to the RSVP😂
2025-11-09 15:13:16
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TinTin81 :
Weddings are so expensive to attend and often people may have more than one wedding to go to..its perfectly reasonable to want to plan ahead to budget and try to get a cheaper rate or fare if travelling. so many couples think the entire world revolve around their wedding..always happy to celebrate my friends and family..but don't make it so awkward for guests..I assure you they don't want to be sending that message to ask in the first place
2025-11-09 00:31:02
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Hayley Rose :
I'm not getting married till August 2027 I'm doing my save the dates in January 2026 and my invites will go out a year before
2025-11-09 04:12:32
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Elle Keating :
Completely disagree, I’ve had people’s names clearly stated on the save the dates, invites and within the RSVP section of websites and still been asked if plus ones are invited. And even worse, after names not being included in any of those things and the wedding website saying no children, being asked if their children are also invited.
2025-11-08 19:59:04
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