@nicknamed.bree: 🥹 Avoidant discard tips. Write ✍🏻 that ✍🏻 down ✍🏻 ! These are 3 of the things I always tell my friends after an avoidant discard, bad breakup, or toxic relationship. Hold these reminders in your back pocket, remembering that the dismissive avoidant or fearful avoidant cannot offer you the attunement you need during no contact. Let yourself be sad, but don’t forget who you are & the beautiful gifts you had to offer! Insecure attachment styles definitely make life difficult, but their curse doesn’t have to feel like forever. #avoidant #dismissiveavoidant #avoidantdiscard #avoidantattachmentstyle #fyp

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calic0queen
peach :
“Recovered avoidant” is sending me😭
2025-11-08 20:43:52
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dddddddddddddaniel
dddddddddddddaniel :
But how come only 3 months after leaving me he can do everything I asked for with a new partner but he denied me? We were together 3 1/2 years and he’s been with his new partner for 6 months and they’re doing everything I asked
2025-11-09 02:32:56
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d17747
user4429660926661 :
I think the embarrassment comes from being so in love with something/someone that wasn’t real, and not understanding how you could be so easily fooled
2025-11-09 01:50:14
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itsamy_gdala
itsamy_gdala :
Learning you’re a recovered FA explains so much. Your content just hits different! Truly appreciate the insight and care you bring to something so incredibly painful for so many. 🫶
2026-01-05 03:52:10
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dmndsndfrgns
dmndsndfrgns :
Was any of it real though? Like any of it?
2025-12-31 13:26:16
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cherylp0606
Cheryl :
I really needed to hear this today - thank you.
2025-12-29 20:16:33
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beachlady69
BeachLady69 :
I could never live with this for the rest of my life. It was only a year and it broke me. I can’t even imagine rest of my life.
2025-11-09 03:13:51
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theblessingreport
The Blessing Report :
Bro you’re a great follow
2025-11-09 00:58:37
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ladyrheynis
IS :
Thank you for this. I needed to hear this ❤
2025-11-08 22:48:41
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jnutz_24
jnutz24 :
Everything she said is true. Unfortunately, Im done starting over, Im done giving my heart to unappreciative people, people who will never show up for you. Done.
2025-11-08 20:57:02
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ericat_reads
ericat_reads :
Experienced my very first avoidant discard and I really needed to hear these
2025-11-09 19:55:42
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ashleyasunder
ashleyasunder :
Bree, i'm so glad i found your videos today. it's been 2 years since i was discarded and most days i feel like im over it but sometimes i want her back (she has me blocked everywhere lol) and i know deep down im terrified that this could happen again with someone new. framing what she did as weirdo behavior is helpful.
2025-11-21 19:40:33
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made_u_smile
made_u_smile 🏳️‍🌈 :
Thank you. I needed to hear this.
2025-11-08 17:26:43
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mizzandrists
mizzandrists :
This helped thank you
2025-12-02 01:53:06
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usergw5hyznlen
user32327109111 :
this is one of the best videos I've seen on this
2025-12-24 18:32:25
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toekneetea
tpalmas :
You don't know how helpful this is for me! I love hearing from healed avoidants like you because you have so much insight from that attachment style!
2025-11-12 00:29:53
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lillithparis
LillithParis :
This was very helpful. For today. I might fall again tomorrow 🤷‍♀️
2025-12-30 04:08:44
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smokesletsgo13
smokesletsgo13 :
I got over mine and even tho I haven’t gotten a chance to use any of the funny texts (damn it lol)…I healed my anxious attachment and ptsd and now I have a wonderful bf who adores me and makes me feel important
2025-11-10 00:54:53
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neelg_07
Neel :
really helpful reframe
2025-11-24 05:01:53
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fonoia
Calvin :
how do they stop being an avoidant? I still don't understand how someone can remove you from their life on a random day after spending years together without issues and not want to discuss anything about it
2026-01-05 19:07:41
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jenayjen9
Jenayjen9 :
Going through this with a friendship . It’s rough but all makes so much sense
2025-11-09 02:54:57
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coping_mechanisms_101
coping_mechanisms_101 :
Interesting perspective
2025-11-08 22:16:03
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coolbackpack
backpack :
This should be in print. “Avoidant Breakup: A Primer For The Recently Discarded” seriously, amazing 🤩
2025-11-08 23:42:34
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user76521112222
user76521112222 :
This was so good. Thank you!
2025-11-08 22:55:21
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briankosch
Brian :
Very well presented ! 👍💯
2025-11-08 22:42:22
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