@relationshipswithaly: When you try and share something that is hurting you with your partner and then you IMMEDIATELY have to comfort them or soothe them because they can’t hold space for your feelings. IT’S EXHAUSTING! I made a whole masterclass on this called Defeat Defensiveness and it teaches you exactly how to overcome this dynamic and create more safety and understanding in your relationship. It costs nothing and you can find it in my bio! Disclaimer: IG is not therapy. This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. THIS WILL NOT APPLY TO EVERYONE.
I’m going to be looking into this. I get defensive and flip out and it’s not good
2025-11-09 06:22:56
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kafka.exe :
“Shoot you are completely right…” would never happen bruh LOL
2026-09-16 22:25:14
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Cailee ✨ :
I’m so confused - I get the defensiveness not being good but I have issue with the implication that it’s not ok to cry.
2025-11-12 13:04:04
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✝ Nabeel Masih ✝ :
would you like to teach the living, holy word of God to the people in Pakistan because there is a great need for the word here. You know that it is a Muslim country. I believe God will guide you , “Lord Jesus, open our hearts to Your love. Let Your Word shine in our village and bring life, peace, and hope. Amen🥰🙏🙏🙏
2025-11-12 07:31:57
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Riley B :
I can't read 😭😭😭😭
2025-11-10 17:06:20
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✝ Nabeel Masih ✝ :
would you like to teach the living, holy word of God to the people in Pakistan because there is a great need for the word here. You know that it is a Muslim country. I believe God will guide you , “Lord Jesus, open our hearts to Your love. Let Your Word shine in our village and bring life, peace, and hope. Amen🥰🙏🙏🙏
2025-11-12 07:32:02
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June :
😁
2025-11-22 22:08:30
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June :
😁
2025-11-22 22:08:31
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June :
🥰
2025-11-22 22:08:30
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SenKetsu :
yea, they would never actually admit to anything in the end.
2025-11-09 04:22:26
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