@sheisapaigeturner: Every single day I get messages that say I have an amazing husband, but… but they tell me he doesn’t carry the mental load or she feels like the project manager of her family. They are burnt out and it’s not because he’s not physically there. #m#mentalloadm#mentalloadofmotherhoodp#parentingm#marriagem#momlife

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internaltruthseeker
WeAreStardust :
My response to my husband when he wants to help, but asks a ton of questions is “pretend I died”….😂 Works every time.
2025-11-10 01:56:18
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sebbyandozzie
abb 🪴🪱 :
It’s the “happy to help” mindset that would drive me crazy… it’s not HELPING you’re also a PARENT
2025-11-09 23:03:37
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nikolaiberle
Nikola Iberle :
You lost me when he wasnt sure if he should sit next to his wife and kids or switch seats with the couple… because wtf????
2025-11-09 20:45:20
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mindihuebner
Mindi Huebner :
I’m exhausted for her just listening to the scenario
2025-11-09 20:26:27
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aliciaj391
AliciaJ :
Dad knew that moving would be “less helpful”. He didnt want to be seen as the bad guy and instead put it on his wife to make that decision. Where in the bag are the wipes?!? How about look for them! I was exhausted just listening to this exchange.
2025-11-09 20:19:40
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oliviaantoinette_
Olivia :
I tell my husband “look with your eyes, not your mouth” when he asks me where something is
2025-11-10 05:10:16
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kim_bella86
Kimberly Allen5849 :
It’s like your the boss and he is the low level employee when he’s supposed to be the co owner
2025-11-09 21:26:48
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fffieldnotes
fffieldnotes :
This sounds like hell.
2025-11-10 01:41:23
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shells12000
Shelley Mackay :
It’s easier to be single.
2025-11-10 00:37:41
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smartiepants269
SmartiePants269 :
My husband and I had a lot of arguments with our first where I said ‘this is also my first baby I don’t know what I’m doing I can’t also teach you how to do it! Read a book and figure it out!’ It’s exhausting.
2025-11-10 06:35:04
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rebel_sham
rebel sham :
they never do this at work. 🙃 they’re perfectly capable of decision making then.
2025-11-10 06:15:33
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manesnmakeup
ALEXANDRA :
“Where would you look if I wasn’t here” “you don’t ask this many questions at your job do you?” They’re simply not this “helpless” when it’s things they want to do / their job
2025-11-09 20:27:38
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loulou4nier
Louanne Fournier219 🇨🇦 :
He is just as much work or more as another child
2025-11-09 23:42:46
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queenssc82
QueenSSC82 :
Weaponized incompetence
2025-11-10 14:56:07
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mufasak9
AMR :
Even if he didn’t pack the diaper bag, he’s a full grown adult who could’ve just looked for it. Just look for it.
2025-11-09 22:56:12
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isthatpoppy
isthatpoppy :
The first problem is the language that he is “helping her.” Parenting is 50% his job, not a favor he is doing for his wife
2025-11-10 07:42:55
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amyrheax
Amy 🌸🌷 :
This is what puts me off having kids, the mental load is tiring in everyday life
2025-11-09 23:25:57
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shellbellbewell
shhHELLy🐚🔔 :
And the divorce came “out of the blue”
2025-11-09 22:02:17
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j.rozay
Jrozay :
Whats so funny is even if a complete stranger said hey can you go in my diaper bag and get me a wipe? Id never say where in the bag….like id just LOOK IN THE BAG????
2025-11-10 02:49:23
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laura.zoozoo
laura.zoozoo :
I’ve asked before “do you want to be a co-parent or do you want to be mommy’s helper”. That helped shift perspective.
2025-11-10 00:31:54
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mammacay
🫧Casey 🇳🇿 :
He asked her because he wanted her to say 'oh no its fine you go sit by yourself'. This man does not care about his family or his wife.
2025-11-09 20:50:33
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eve.at.night
Eve at Night :
She’s basically a manager that doesn’t get to be paid for being a manager and has an employee that actually refuses to work. In an any other job, we would fire that employee
2025-11-10 05:21:18
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kerig1
kg :
Kinda throwing the wife under the bus too- "Oh I'd be happy to switch, but she needs help" bro sit next to the toddler and I will go up to the row and sit in the window and let me know how it goes without my help. 🤨
2025-11-09 22:40:59
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d_rayneday
Deborah Rayne :
When my man does this, I ask him “are you an idiot?” And then stare at him, and refuse to answer.
2025-11-10 13:09:11
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malmeads0
Mallory :
On our last flight, my daughter projectile vomited all over me due to turbulence. My husband was still asking me questions while I was covered in recycled goldfish! My soul left my body
2025-11-09 20:46:36
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