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MorganJane :
āBecause safety feels like someone not trying to fix youā wow
2025-11-11 11:10:07
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etherealbackshots :
for the people saying āwhen are you going to get help for your attachment styleā and āsounds exhaustingā, i hope you realize itās exactly the same with anxious attachers. iāve dated both and anxious attachment is by far more exhausting to deal with
2025-11-10 23:24:20
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Curiouslyobserving :
Avoidant attachment is not a forever mode of being. When are you going to work on yourself so he can finally relax?
2025-11-10 15:07:10
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Luis Avila8683 :
I may not know exactly what youāre going through, but please remember there are still people who care about you and love you. If you ever feel alone or stressed, try stepping outside, take a deep breath, and remind yourself that youāre not alone. Weāre all fighting our own battles to become better versions of ourselves, so donāt overthink . It will hurt, donāt know for how long that pain will last but I guarantee youāll be fine and find someone deserving. You donāt have to be fully healed to feel better, but you need to start that process as soon as possible. If you want to become the best version of yourself reading Healing Isnt Pretty by Mira Hartosn is a MUST on to do list. Never give up hope and have faith in yourself. KEEP FIGHTING EVERYONE! sending hugs for you allā¤
2025-11-11 21:53:43
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Sephora^ :
Not only does he loves you, but he totally gets you, man thatās beautiful
2025-11-10 23:47:42
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Amanda Kay | Outdoorsy Travel :
People in the comments so unaware that this man is healing your avoidant attachment, and you are doing the inner work by showing back up when you say you will. Thatās literally it. Youāre doing great š«¶
2025-11-11 01:54:10
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šš¾š¶šš¶ :
Yall are hating but donāt understand the feeling, sheās clearly trying to show up in her own ways. The fact that sheās even letting her partner know about the boundaries is helping itās not a forever thing but itās progress. And if her partner is willing to stand by it whatās the problem?
2025-11-11 01:19:18
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šššš :
Someone like that exists?
2025-11-13 11:50:56
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b :
why is everyone acting like being an attentive partner is such a terrible chore and being avoidant is a crime? if you cant handle putting effort into understanding your partner, then go find easier
2025-11-11 16:48:34
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.alinaiaraa :
to be loved is to be seenš©š©š©
2025-11-12 02:00:53
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Stephen :
Thatās a good dude. A lot of us could learn from him. This is what love looks like.
2025-11-11 02:35:12
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Bextheš¦ šššš :
Oh girl youāre RICH rich š„¹
2025-11-10 07:46:22
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lyndsš :
Iām crying. He loves you.
2025-11-11 03:34:28
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š :
āSafety feels like someone not trying to fix youā felt that
2025-11-11 15:00:36
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haters anonymous :
The people in the comments who are clearly insensitive to other people struggles are hilarious. An avoidant attachment comes from childhood neglect. You donāt have to date them, but donāt minimize it just because you were lucky enough not to have to be strong all the time no matter what.
2025-11-11 03:37:42
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Lorena Williams :
This made me cry. Oh to be seen and loved. Proof that love is unconditional and patient.
2025-11-11 06:22:23
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Sierra :
Iām sO hApPy fOR yUo
2025-11-11 14:09:03
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Briii š :
honestly hun, i am so happy you found your home and safety in a person!
2025-11-11 03:38:48
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Simone | Calisthenics š©· :
Must be nice
2025-11-13 02:53:29
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trinity :
Oh to be loved
2025-11-12 01:59:11
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Indo mee :
This is actually interesting.. U must be madly in love with him.. To be understood to such level where there's time u feel like no one will ever be able to understand u.. Appreciate it okay.. There is lots of people who can't even apprehended what u trying to convey in this post.. Happy for you..
2025-11-11 01:10:06
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Ri :
Commenters should note: the only way to āfixā avoidant attachment is by working through it with a securely attached person. You literally canāt fix it alone. Thatās the entire thing with avoidant attachment: they donāt trust help, kindness, protection, or love. If an avoidant allows those things from someone, sits with the discomfort, learns that they didnāt get hurt by it, and attempts to adjust their behavior going forward, that IS them working towards secure attachment. Healing isnāt quick or linear, so there will still be bad days and bad arguments and setbacks; sometimes it will feel like progress has slowed to a crawlābut thatās how anyone with any kind of trauma experiences healing. If you donāt believe itās worth the effort to show compassion to someone who is trying to heal after being hurt so deeply that they intrinsically donāt trust the world, that says more about your character than theirs.
2025-11-11 19:24:40
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Oliviaš| lifestyle creator :
Sounds exhausting
2025-11-10 18:33:52
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silverbullet21 :
Avoidants need to heal and take accountability for their actions, you can't always make your partners adjust, it's too draining.
2025-11-10 22:12:23
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elizabethš¤ :
āBecause safety feels like someone trying not to fix uāššššš
2025-11-19 15:22:44
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