@justmichon: Tone matters, but deflecting when you know what’s being said is true is immature and counterproductive to your growth. Take the warning/advice and give feedback on the tone later
There is no nice way to deliver the truth to someone who isn't ready to receive it.
2025-11-11 13:43:19
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Wallflower Wanderer :
I’ve been working on this. Sometimes people say it bc they had it said to them not bc it’s valid, but that reflection moment is so crucial bc it helps reveal if you can still take that statement and make yourself grow and change or see their perspective and accept the message without being swayed 💛
2025-11-12 01:13:46
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Sana :
I hate when people deflect and me too. I have autism and people always say it’s the tone.
2025-11-12 01:19:15
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DJ Jon Doe :
It’s an excuse not to listen or take heed.
2025-12-20 11:44:05
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DaveADamnMess :
Facts are facts. It doesn't matter how they are delivered. 😒😒
2025-11-11 17:19:49
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JurnDeaux :
This!! Also, I love your hair styled like this 😍 it frames your face so well!
2025-11-11 13:46:44
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Obioma O. Mindset Coach :
I don’t think it’s the tone, but the intention. You can say the nicest things but the spirit is off. I could care less ( for the most part) how you say what’s said, but that heart posture gets me every time.
2025-11-12 17:47:11
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CHERISH :
I’m concerned with the quality of the messenger first off.
2025-11-12 00:20:24
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MIR :
THANK YOU, we have to learn to separate our feelings in order to be corrected. just because your feelings are hurt dont mean that person is out to get you ESPECIALLY if yk the message isnt to hurt you
2026-01-09 18:39:46
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🏎 💨 Rambo🏁🏁 :
Naw I’m good. Let’s be respectful
2025-11-12 02:19:31
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Trell :
My Mother and my Bible taught me this 💯
2025-11-11 17:20:56
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Rory :
Discernment is the key.💯
2025-11-11 16:53:36
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J :
I always say this
2025-11-11 21:07:11
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kirstierobbb :
Agreed!! You also look so cute 🥰
2025-11-11 13:57:51
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ProdD2K🐢 :
Truth seeking 💎
2026-01-05 21:35:51
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Isthatredd_305 :
exactly
2025-11-12 01:32:43
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patricksainte :
thank you
2025-11-11 15:59:38
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jan san :
love your videos.💛
2025-11-11 14:14:38
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g_the_almighty :
My ex would push and poke and provoke me so much that I would start to raise my voice when I was hurt whenever I tried to express myself and my feelings to her. I always did my best to watch my tone but she would just constantly do it and then constantly say how I need to stop yelling and be calm and all it does it make her avoidant. But even when I was calm it didn’t change. If you want a relationship to work you have to look past that and focus on the message being communicated, and then over time conflict will become more calm. I was stuck in a never ending communication breakdown cycle with her
2025-11-13 16:46:21
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kyled62 :
some people have PTSD and shrink when yelled at... and some people police your tone and ignore your message regardless of how gentle the delivery us.
2026-01-09 03:39:10
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1KMillz :
Facts imma sit and ask myself regardless of they tone is what they saying have truth to it. if so I’ll tell myself tighten up and buckle down.
2025-12-29 17:51:50
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Princessdaplyrr :
Only person that can deliver a message to me in a way ion wanna hear it is my momma. And Barely her. 😭😭😩
2026-01-08 21:10:53
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Mr.Nuance – DC :
It’s about how you say it for the communicator. If I know that someone will take what I’m trying to say a different way assembly because of how I said it and then it’s my fault is the communicator to not say it the proper way. I shouldn’t rely on someone’s comprehension skills. If the message I’m trying to get across is important.
2026-01-06 10:13:59
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He_BtruthSpittin :
THANK YOU! It’s a coping statement for those people to not have to acknowledge the message.
2025-11-28 23:48:45
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Mandy Kay at HOME :
Girl true wisdom right here🥰
2025-11-11 21:08:13
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