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Shaqxii :
Emotional Intelligence was beaten into me 😭😭
2025-11-12 23:15:19
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Diorqueen77 :
The Caribbean countries need this book
2025-11-12 08:15:08
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Rebekah :
I try but my kids do not listen to a damn thing I say unless I’m screaming like a banshee 🤣
2025-11-12 13:59:12
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Claire :
Awesome, as a teacher I’d recommend instead of saying “feet off the sofa, please” replace the please with thank you. Makes it a polite instruction, not a request.!
2025-11-12 01:13:41
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You are what you Speak! :
Positive reinforcement definitely works better
2025-11-12 11:46:49
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H :
Stop yelling orrrr HELLO GET DOWN
2026-03-26 21:29:11
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Theo Popa,890* :
This video + Guiding Cooperative Children by Rachel Thomas = the parenting duo I didn’t know I needed 🧠
2025-11-15 10:45:19
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Georgia :
The way I speak around my child is disgusting and I’m so relaxed. Very disappointed I’ve slipped into it. I will do better. Thankyou for the book
2025-11-12 20:19:56
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Jessica Lee :
It’s so hard to reprogram the way you speak to your children to be different than the way you were raised ❤
2025-11-14 06:27:14
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Immy . ݁₊ ⊹ . ݁˖ . ݁ ᯓ★ :
As an adult I’m going to respond better to a reasonable request than demands, why would it be different for children?
2025-11-12 01:38:47
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olive oil :
avoid showing them social media and phones as long as possible
2025-11-15 12:03:38
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labellatomised :
As someone who works in brain injury care I will tell you now redirecting will always work better than commands. Replacing “don’t touch that” with “come here can you hold this for me” or “put that down” with “can I see your hands?” Kids have very little emotional regulation or control over themselves if you tell them not to do something they will want to do it but they are very easy to distract and redirect
2025-11-14 17:07:26
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Butta Bab :
You have to suggest rather than command it makes them feel included
2025-11-13 08:48:15
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honeyrootsandwires :
Definatly hard when you were raised that way but I’ve definitely been trying to be intentional and regarding the way I talk. Love this
2025-11-12 10:09:02
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adesuwa_91 :
Yep. We do it in teaching as well, telling kids what we want instead of saying what we DONT want.
2025-11-15 15:47:35
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ize :
Also you have to slow down with the younger ones and get down to their height level. It helps bring you into their world
2025-11-13 01:00:12
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ShinyHappyTea 🇪🇺 :
best way: as an adult first assess why they are shouting. is their behaviour covering for something else. then make a rational decision on how to respond. not all occurrences are equal
2025-11-12 14:13:42
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Mama_Minah :
This is literally how I am and my kids are amazing. I thought this was common sense but when I see how others speak to their kids 🙄😂😭😭😭
2025-11-12 19:47:40
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Brooklyn Joaquim :
Putting myself in my parents shoes I don’t resent them for treating me a way they sacrificed a lot & being a parent I’d hard
2025-11-11 23:42:59
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‘Chelle🫶🏽 :
i’m a qualified practitioner and your comeback to the bad communication is perfect. i think i need to get this book bc i struggle with my own sons tantrums
2025-11-12 11:33:56
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Hayleywalker :
instead of 'snack times over shall we go wash up?' use 'let's was up these dishes now snacktimes over, bet you cant make the water bubbly' its not asking them as question they can, and will say no to, its telling and getting them to make a task fun
2025-11-14 07:18:05
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tormented_soul :
you shouldn't need a book. don't be a friend. Just be a friendly parent. treat them as equals, as they are (humans) and they will listen 💪👌
2025-11-12 06:34:33
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errrmm ROBYN :
behaviour is communication....so respond accordingly
2025-11-13 13:15:17
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ishi :
this is gentle parenting which absolutely can be stern and assertive. once people figure out what it really is they tend to get more on board
2025-11-13 11:15:52
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